ROC-DIVORCE-WAIVER-LAWYER

[BrokenWings 8]

Long story short- Came USA on F1, dated 4 months and married USC. Received CGC which will expire 09/2018. After a year and half; she decided not to be with me anymore. I know she loved me and I do her as well till now. But all situations went against our love and marriage; she decided to end up marriage. She does not want to be with me because she does not love me any more. All my attempts, counseling, family persuasion and love went to drains where she ended up filing divorce. 

Divorce will be settled within 10/2017 and CGC expires in 09/2018. Honestly I don't have any passion to live here at USA since I lost her and ended up in psychological disaster. But I need 4 more years to finish my education here. So I need to apply for condition removal with no other choice left. I have some evidences (may be not that much). My questions are:

 

1. Do I need to apply for ROC immediately after divorce settlement? Or I can take some time till 90 day window of 2 year CGC expiration?

 

2. I know about us and our relation. We were in real marriage and nothing fake/pretended, she was my everything; she changed terribly in 3 months March-June 2017.  Do I need to hire a lawyer for better comfort for filing ROC with waiver? Or I can file by myself with waiver and good faith marriage evidences? I talked to a lawyer and he asked for $2,000 fixed fee for him plus the Government fee. 

 

3. My little evidences are: 2 Joint Bank accounts, 2 years joint tax return, our joint home lease-light-water bills; joint motor insurance, 3 joint car loans where 2 already paid off and one more joint car, 2 months joint health insurance, a lot letters from schools-works-financial organizations-govt organizations under our name to same address; several counseling for marriage with 2 different counselors, 3 affidavits from neighbor-landlord-common friend and one affidavit from her, our many pictures and mexico tours (she is mexican american), her amazon credit card under her name and our many purchases through that and pay off from joint account, our family T-mobile plan with her brothers, our driving license showing same address, our many correspondences and emails (email from me only coz she always replied my email in FB/ Whats app chat), joint walmart and sams club card since she started working with Walmart.   Are these okay or I am missing some other required evidences? 

 

Oh- I missed a point. A mutual close friend of us informed me that my wife is trying to jeopardize my GC process and she wants to do everything to get me deported. Honestly I did nothing; I just found some ugly and very questionable communications by her with some one and I have printed evidences. I just told her once: I will go to your parents and all our relatives; I will show them what you are doing and I will blow your cover. I did not do that because I love her and I kept all these secret for her own respect. But she told that friend she is scared if I ever do that; so she wants me to get deported! She called and went USCIS office, and told many lies just to harm my file or my status. I did not hear anything so far from USCIS. Honestly I did nothing wrong so far. Can she really jeopardize my conditional green card? 

 

I don't have anyone at USA; the situations I am going through was never expected. Anyway, I am just accepting the truth, accepting her leaving me, fixing myself alone now and asking for advice here. Any help will be helpful for me. God bless everyone; God bless my wife. 

 

Edited September 14, 2017 by BrokenWings

[databit 328]

14 minutes ago, BrokenWings said:

 

 

I just found some ugly and very questionable communications by her with some one and I have printed evidences. I just told her once: I will go to your parents and all our relatives; I will show them what you are doing and I will blow your cover.

 

You can try to justify your actions, but it's easy to see your behavior as threatening. Her divorce lawyer and maybe a court of law might agree.

[BrokenWings 8]

55 minutes ago, databit said:

You can try to justify your actions, but it's easy to see your behavior as threatening. Her divorce lawyer and maybe a court of law might agree.

I just said: I will show her parents what she is doing. She misinformed her parents about me and told lies to everyone. I just told her: I will show everyone the truth. Is it a threat? I am just speechless.

[Lemonslice 4,996]

7 minutes ago, BrokenWings said:

I just said: I will show her parents what she is doing. She misinformed her parents about me and told lies to everyone. I just told her: I will show everyone the truth. Is it a threat? I am just speechless.

Could be perceived as a threat or attempt to blackmail yes... Divorce, remove conditions now, or before your card expires, move on. Do not contact your soon to be ex-wife; just save yourself the trouble.  

[BrokenWings 8]

14 hours ago, Lemonslice said:

Could be perceived as a threat or attempt to blackmail yes... Divorce, remove conditions now, or before your card expires, move on. Do not contact your soon to be ex-wife; just save yourself the trouble.  

Don't take as an offense- Going to parents (father and mother in law) for their help and to say what wrong she was actually doing--- Is it threat or blackmail? Even though I never disclosed or said anything to them; at certain point of argument I just said about going to her parents and our common law relatives; she misinformed all of them to place me as an awful person so that none make any question on her divorce decision.

[BrokenWings 8]

16 hours ago, BrokenWings said:

Oh- I missed a point. A mutual close friend of us informed me that my wife is trying to jeopardize my GC process and she wants to do everything to get me deported. Honestly I did nothing; I just found some ugly and very questionable communications by her with some one and I have printed evidences. I just told her once: I will go to your parents and all our relatives; I will show them what you are doing and I will blow your cover. I did not do that because I love her and I kept all these secret for her own respect. But she told that friend she is scared if I ever do that; so she wants me to get deported! She called and went USCIS office, and told many lies just to harm my file or my status. I did not hear anything so far from USCIS. Honestly I did nothing wrong so far. Can she really jeopardize my conditional green card? 

If any experience lawyer or similar situation person can review my evidences and provide me a feedback--- that will help me. I had some more evidences but she is not providing or cooperating. She is more mad on me because I told her: 'I can remove my condition by myself'. At a point of argument she was saying me: 'You can even live in this country without my support'. That really hurt me and I replied that. It is very disappointing situation now between us; she is unnecessarily hostile; she is giving me a feeling of being a bone in the meat. May be I have been trying all and everything to save my relation- that's why.

[Lemonslice 4,996]

11 minutes ago, BrokenWings said:

Don't take as an offense- Going to parents (father and mother in law) for their help and to say what wrong she was actually doing--- Is it threat or blackmail? Even though I never disclosed or said anything to them; at certain point of argument I just said about going to her parents and our common law relatives; she misinformed all of them to place me as an awful person so that none make any question on her divorce decision.

Depending on what you said you were going to disclose, can be totally inappropriate and threatening.  Again, my opinion doesn't matter, you're the one who would have to live with the consequences.

[BrokenWings 8]

Just now, Lemonslice said:

Depending on what you said you were going to disclose, can be totally inappropriate and threatening.  Again, my opinion doesn't matter, you're the one who would have to live with the consequences.

Yes, true. 

Do you have any experience of waiver based ROC? Are my evidences okay? Or they are very insufficient?