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Posted (edited)
5 minutes ago, trudi said:

In response to the OP, USCIS is federal, not State - it doesn't matter what Texas may or may not allow or what some folk on here may say or think.  All that matters to you at the moment is that USCIS will recognize your marriage.

As has been said be prepared for scrutiny and have plenty of evidence to support the genuine relationship.

Good luck on your journey:)

It actually does matter what the state recognizes. The visa will only be given if the state in which they will live recognizes it. This is one instance where the state law matters. It is the same for gay marriages.

Edited by Suss&Camm

K1 Visa & AOS

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2016-03-19         i-129F Sent
2016-03-24         i-129F NOA1
2016-06-14         i-129F NOA2
2016-07-08         NVC Rec'd
2016-07-12         Case #
2016-07-13         NVC Left
2016-07-14         Consulate Rec'd
2016-07-19         Medical
2016-08-11         Interview Date (approved)
2016-09-06         Issued
2016-09-09         Visa In Hand
2016-10-19         POE Dallas Fort-Worth
2016-10-30         Our Halloween Wedding

2016-11-16         AOS package sent (i-485, i-131, i-765, i-864, g-325a, DS-3025)
2016-11-17         AOS package delivered to Chicago lockbox
2016-11-23         NOA1's by e-mail and text (@ 10:30 pm CT)
2016-11-26         NOA1 hard copies
2016-12-03         Biometrics appointment in mail
2016-12-07         Biometrics (Early walk-in Desoto, appointment was for Dec 13th)

2017-02-17         Notice of card in production by email and text (@8:00 am CT, i-765) - Day 92

2017-02-22         Notice of approval by email and text (@1:00 pm CT, i-765 and i-131) - Day 97

2017-02-22         Notice of card being mailed by email and text (@7:00 pm CT, i-765) - Day 97

2017-02-25         EAD/AP combo card arrived in mail - Day 100

2017-03-03         Notice of green card in production by email and text (@4:00 pm CT, i-485) - Day 106

2017-03-03         Notice of approval by email and text (@6:00 pm CT, i-485) - Day 106

2017-03-11          Green card arrived in mail  - Day 113

2018-12-03          First day to file for ROC (i-751)

 

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Posted
Just now, Suss&Camm said:

It actually does matter what the state recognizes. The visa will only be given if the state in which they will live recognizes it. This is one instance where the state law matters. It is the same for gay marriages.

Apologies I got a little red mist from the personal judgements & opinions in the thread, you are correct

 

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Everything crossed for a smooth and stress free journey

Posted
Just now, trudi said:

Apologies I got a little red mist from the personal judgements & opinions in the thread, you are correct

 

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You're good - and so should the OP be :thumbs:

K1 Visa & AOS

Spoiler

2016-03-19         i-129F Sent
2016-03-24         i-129F NOA1
2016-06-14         i-129F NOA2
2016-07-08         NVC Rec'd
2016-07-12         Case #
2016-07-13         NVC Left
2016-07-14         Consulate Rec'd
2016-07-19         Medical
2016-08-11         Interview Date (approved)
2016-09-06         Issued
2016-09-09         Visa In Hand
2016-10-19         POE Dallas Fort-Worth
2016-10-30         Our Halloween Wedding

2016-11-16         AOS package sent (i-485, i-131, i-765, i-864, g-325a, DS-3025)
2016-11-17         AOS package delivered to Chicago lockbox
2016-11-23         NOA1's by e-mail and text (@ 10:30 pm CT)
2016-11-26         NOA1 hard copies
2016-12-03         Biometrics appointment in mail
2016-12-07         Biometrics (Early walk-in Desoto, appointment was for Dec 13th)

2017-02-17         Notice of card in production by email and text (@8:00 am CT, i-765) - Day 92

2017-02-22         Notice of approval by email and text (@1:00 pm CT, i-765 and i-131) - Day 97

2017-02-22         Notice of card being mailed by email and text (@7:00 pm CT, i-765) - Day 97

2017-02-25         EAD/AP combo card arrived in mail - Day 100

2017-03-03         Notice of green card in production by email and text (@4:00 pm CT, i-485) - Day 106

2017-03-03         Notice of approval by email and text (@6:00 pm CT, i-485) - Day 106

2017-03-11          Green card arrived in mail  - Day 113

2018-12-03          First day to file for ROC (i-751)

 

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Posted
7 minutes ago, Suss&Camm said:

It actually does matter what the state recognizes. The visa will only be given if the state in which they will live recognizes it. This is one instance where the state law matters. It is the same for gay marriages.

Not sure if this is relevant, but before same-sex marriage was legalized nationwide, my wife successfully did AOS and got her marriaged-based green card while we were living in NC (marriage not recognized in NC) based on the ceremony we held in WA (where it was recognized). USCIS only cared that the marriage was legal in the jurisdiction where it occurred, not in the state where we were living.

Posted
30 minutes ago, AK_2014 said:

Not sure if this is relevant, but before same-sex marriage was legalized nationwide, my wife successfully did AOS and got her marriaged-based green card while we were living in NC (marriage not recognized in NC) based on the ceremony we held in WA (where it was recognized). USCIS only cared that the marriage was legal in the jurisdiction where it occurred, not in the state where we were living.

You're right - I'm not sure the instance I was thinking of anymore or if I mixed it up with something else. :huh:

K1 Visa & AOS

Spoiler

2016-03-19         i-129F Sent
2016-03-24         i-129F NOA1
2016-06-14         i-129F NOA2
2016-07-08         NVC Rec'd
2016-07-12         Case #
2016-07-13         NVC Left
2016-07-14         Consulate Rec'd
2016-07-19         Medical
2016-08-11         Interview Date (approved)
2016-09-06         Issued
2016-09-09         Visa In Hand
2016-10-19         POE Dallas Fort-Worth
2016-10-30         Our Halloween Wedding

2016-11-16         AOS package sent (i-485, i-131, i-765, i-864, g-325a, DS-3025)
2016-11-17         AOS package delivered to Chicago lockbox
2016-11-23         NOA1's by e-mail and text (@ 10:30 pm CT)
2016-11-26         NOA1 hard copies
2016-12-03         Biometrics appointment in mail
2016-12-07         Biometrics (Early walk-in Desoto, appointment was for Dec 13th)

2017-02-17         Notice of card in production by email and text (@8:00 am CT, i-765) - Day 92

2017-02-22         Notice of approval by email and text (@1:00 pm CT, i-765 and i-131) - Day 97

2017-02-22         Notice of card being mailed by email and text (@7:00 pm CT, i-765) - Day 97

2017-02-25         EAD/AP combo card arrived in mail - Day 100

2017-03-03         Notice of green card in production by email and text (@4:00 pm CT, i-485) - Day 106

2017-03-03         Notice of approval by email and text (@6:00 pm CT, i-485) - Day 106

2017-03-11          Green card arrived in mail  - Day 113

2018-12-03          First day to file for ROC (i-751)

 

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Posted

Oh wait - was thinking of K1 visa. You can't get it ofc if you can't get married in the state where you live - sorry for confusion.

K1 Visa & AOS

Spoiler

2016-03-19         i-129F Sent
2016-03-24         i-129F NOA1
2016-06-14         i-129F NOA2
2016-07-08         NVC Rec'd
2016-07-12         Case #
2016-07-13         NVC Left
2016-07-14         Consulate Rec'd
2016-07-19         Medical
2016-08-11         Interview Date (approved)
2016-09-06         Issued
2016-09-09         Visa In Hand
2016-10-19         POE Dallas Fort-Worth
2016-10-30         Our Halloween Wedding

2016-11-16         AOS package sent (i-485, i-131, i-765, i-864, g-325a, DS-3025)
2016-11-17         AOS package delivered to Chicago lockbox
2016-11-23         NOA1's by e-mail and text (@ 10:30 pm CT)
2016-11-26         NOA1 hard copies
2016-12-03         Biometrics appointment in mail
2016-12-07         Biometrics (Early walk-in Desoto, appointment was for Dec 13th)

2017-02-17         Notice of card in production by email and text (@8:00 am CT, i-765) - Day 92

2017-02-22         Notice of approval by email and text (@1:00 pm CT, i-765 and i-131) - Day 97

2017-02-22         Notice of card being mailed by email and text (@7:00 pm CT, i-765) - Day 97

2017-02-25         EAD/AP combo card arrived in mail - Day 100

2017-03-03         Notice of green card in production by email and text (@4:00 pm CT, i-485) - Day 106

2017-03-03         Notice of approval by email and text (@6:00 pm CT, i-485) - Day 106

2017-03-11          Green card arrived in mail  - Day 113

2018-12-03          First day to file for ROC (i-751)

 

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Posted

The USCIS Adjudicator's Field Manual states:

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In some foreign countries, and some states in the United States, marriages between close relatives (e.g., cousins) are permitted under certain circumstances. In cases where such marriages do not offend the laws of the state where the parties reside, the marriage will be recognized for immigration purposes.

 

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Posted

this is USCIS gov site 

read this decision

https://www.uscis.gov/sites/default/files/err/D6 - Fiancees and Fiances of U.S. Citizen (K-1)/Decisions_Issued_in_2010/Oct132010_03D6101.pdf

clearly on 2nd page it says not recognized as bona fida marrige when not allowed in a state

you can think of moving to state where it is recognized like Tennessee or California or choose from many others

BTW Oak Ridge TN has the highest percentage of PHD's than any city in the US /hillbillies?????

 

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Posted (edited)
4 hours ago, GabiMatch said:

The only problem that I see is to prove the relationship to be bonafide...the fact that you guys are cousins could led the consul to think that you're only marrying your cousin with the intent of her coming to the US...you must have as much prof as you can that you guys are not only cousins but a real couple.

Good luck!

You're correct, but fortunately for the OP where his wife lives (Pakistan) , this is perfectly normal. 

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NOA2 -- 05-02-2016

NVC received -- 05-13-2016

NVC left -- 05-18-2016

Embassy received -- 5-22-2016

Interview Date -- 8-31-2016

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AP -- (09-07-2016)

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Posted
5 hours ago, Seth And Quynh said:

Here's the 5 marriages that are not accepted in the USA. 

1. Proxy marriages

2. polygamous marriages

3. Common law marriage

4. Customary marriages

5. incestuous Marriages

You and your cousin fit number 5 and it doesn't matter where your from it's against the law

This is wrong! There are many cases of first cousin marriages that have been approved right here on VJ. Do your research before blurting out falsehoods.


Posted
6 hours ago, Seth And Quynh said:

Here's the 5 marriages that are not accepted in the USA. 

1. Proxy marriages

Not true (once the marriage has been consummated by both parties meeting at the same place at the same time). 

 

6 hours ago, Seth And Quynh said:

3. Common law marriage

Also not true. 

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Day 0 (4/23/12) Petitions mailed (I-360, I-485, I-765)
2 (4/25/12) Petitions delivered to Chicago Lockbox
11 (5/3/12) Received 3 paper NOAs
13 (5/5/12) Received biometrics appointment for 5/23
15 (5/7/12) Did an unpleasant walk-in biometrics in Fort Worth, TX
45 (6/7/12) Received email & text notification of an interview on 7/10
67 (6/29/12) EAD production ordered
77 (7/9/12) Received EAD
78 (7/10/12) Interview
100 (8/1/12) I-485 transferred to Vermont Service Centre
143 (9/13/12) Contacted DHS Ombudsman
268 (1/16/13) I-360, I-485 consolidated and transferred to Dallas
299 (2/16/13) Received second interview letter for 3/8
319 (3/8/13) Approved at interview
345 (4/3/13) I-360, I-485 formally approved; green card production ordered
353 (4/11/13) Received green card

 

Naturalisation

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Posted

Only some states recognize common law marriage:

  • Alabama (if created before January 1, 2017)
  • Colorado
  • District of Columbia
  • Georgia (if created before January 1, 1997)
  • Idaho (if created before January 1, 1996)
  • Iowa
  • Kansas
  • Montana
  • New Hampshire (for inheritance purposes only)
  • Ohio (if created before October 10, 1991)
  • Oklahoma
  • Pennsylvania (if created before January 1, 2005)
  • Rhode Island
  • South Carolina
  • Texas
  • Utah
Posted

I have heard (i.e. read on this forum) of people being told by an officer "if your spouse moves to a state that allows cousin marriages, then you can get the visa"

Obligatory disclaimer:  Not a lawyer.  Posts are written based on my own research and based on whatever information is provided.  Consult an immigration attorney regarding your specific case.

Posted
10 hours ago, Hypnos said:

Not true (once the marriage has been consummated by both parties meeting at the same place at the same time). 

 

Also not true. 

Plus, I'm almost positive proxy marriages are allowed in Montana. I know someone who got married doing it, so I would assume they knew what they were doing. 

 
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