August 2017 I-129F Filers

[Naes 12,205]

Just now, AKLH said:

@Naes Thanks a lot! Now we kinda have an idea of what to say in our call 😌I think we will wait to call till the website date gives me a date after our NOA1 though, as we are still in the normal processing time like you said...Crossing my fingers there will be a lot of movements this week!

Also I wanna take this moment to give a shoutout to @Naes, thanks for being an awesome person! You keep us sane during this USCIS wait madness 👏

You all are keeping me saaaaneeeeeeeeee

 

 

[Madolor 24]

Hello everyone, I see some vaccinations record here., I’m asking my mom about mine and she said she don’t remember where did she hide them and what kind of vaccinations I got.

 

Are they needed and if I don’t have them it will affect my case?

[Naes 12,205]

12 minutes ago, Madolor said:

Hello everyone, I see some vaccinations record here., I’m asking my mom about mine and she said she don’t remember where did she hide them and what kind of vaccinations I got.

 

Are they needed and if I don’t have them it will affect my case?

It won't affect your case, you'll need a titer test and they will do it at the medical exam. If you don't have immunation then they will do the vaccines.

[Madolor 24]

15 minutes ago, Naes said:

It won't affect your case, you'll need a titer test and they will do it at the medical exam. If you don't have immunation then they will do the vaccines.

@Naesthank you so much I feel relieved, you’re a big help to everyone here.

One more question how many days they will mail the noa2 after the approval online?

[Naes 12,205]

1 minute ago, Madolor said:

@Naesthank you so much I feel relieved, you’re a big help to everyone here.

One more question how many days they will mail the noa2 after the approval online?

They will usually mail in 1-2 days but it can take 3-10 days (this part depends on usps)

Edited February 20, 2018 by Naes

[Madolor 24]

2 minutes ago, Naes said:

They will usually mail in 1-2 days but it can take 3-10 days (this part depends on usps)

It’s been 4 days now,. Anyway thank you again we will just wait for it😄

[Ranim&Corey 3]

On February 18, 2018 at 10:58 PM, Spoonernator said:

I’m sorry to hear this. I’ve been living apart from my fiancé for three years due to him being in the military. It’s been tough but  Were now at a stage where I can join him. Which is exciting and we can finally be in the same place.

At no stage have I or my fiancé decided to give up. We’ve pushed and carried on and supported each other through each other’s good and bad days. 

 

Keep your head up and I hope he doesn’t give up ❤️❤️

 

Also excited for all these approvals not long guys 

Thank you for your support ! But I think he is giving up on me after he met a girl who's working with him and he sees her everyday for 8 hours. He was honest with me and told that he likes her because she hears him when he talks and there are a lot of common things they share.  He said he felt connected to her because he has touched her and whenever they are together, he feels happy and not worried about his life. He started dating her for only 3 days ago but they have seen each other at work 2 weeks ago ( btw he just got this new job in two weeks ago)

Everytime I call him now , all he does is crying and sabbing , breaking things and keeps saying that he is so tired and not okay. He said that he feels miserable , sad and disappointed for a while ago . He has been like that for 2 days now. Im in pain and he has said a lot of things that hurt me and broke my heart. Im in a situation where I don't know how to make a decision whether I leave or stay? Whether I give him time to heal himself  or just leave him ? We have been arguing a lot this month before all this happened because we are missing each other a lot and not being able to manage time to talk . He is tired of the feelings he get whenever we argue. Told me that I am the only person who could hurt him. I think he's making wrong decisions right now because of the way he feels.  Running a way  from the bad feeling that he feels by going out with this girl. He doesn't have a lot of friends , he doesn't go out and do things because he said I don't allow him to do things that he likes which is not true or that I didn't mean to make him feel this way, and that I let him fly under my own conditions  

He always at home and spending his day on a political forum called "Conspiracy outpost " and all he does is  posting things there and talking to people online. I really I do feel him and I know why he is like that. It's been almost 10 months that we haven't been together physically. I had to leave back after I finished my school in May 2017 and sent our petition in August.

All I said to him that Im not going to take him serious because its clear that he is confused and emotional. Making a quick decision and being misled by his emotions. 

We are still talking and texting each other but it hurts me every day when I know he is with her. Her being in his life now was a choice for him. And the only reason why Im still with him because I do believe that we are happy whenever we are together physically. I understand what made to this situation and that because of the longing and distance. 

He does not want to cancel the visa and said that lets see what god can do for us and he doesn't know what will happen after he tried to brake up with me 2 times whenever he was crying and upset. 

I really Im confused don't know what to do. My heart is telling to be with him because I love him but his heart is telling him to continue getting to know this girl. 

[NICK & PAULA 1,097]

@Ranim&Corey - first of all I wanna send you lots and lots of virtual hugs, sweetheart. You are one tough girl to be able to endure his current behavior towards you and the process. I feel saddened by your story and I know that everyone in here would want to give you pieces of advice. We aren't in the position to judge your significant other right now because we don't know how he really feels. I just wish that he'd talk to you without throwing tantrums and be a man not a child. I admire your bravery to face this kind of situation and to be able to tell him that you understand him with his affair with another girl. That is not easy, I am sure everyone will agree on me. You let your love for him overcome your anger. Now, when everything is calm and he's not crying or shouting, talk to him once more and calmly ask him of what he wants to do. Will he give you up and be with that girl or he'll face this journey with you without hurting you? You said that he doesn't want to cancel the visa after he broke up with you twice and want to see what will happen after you get approved? That confuses me. 

Anyway, we're here for you, sweetie. Hoping you'll get your approval soon.

[NicolaBolton87 161]

30 minutes ago, Ranim&Corey said:

Thank you for your support ! But I think he is giving up on me after he met a girl who's working with him and he sees her everyday for 8 hours. He was honest with me and told that he likes her because she hears him when he talks and there are a lot of common things they share.  He said he felt connected to her because he has touched her and whenever they are together, he feels happy and not worried about his life. He started dating her for only 3 days ago but they have seen each other at work 2 weeks ago ( btw he just got this new job in two weeks ago)

Everytime I call him now , all he does is crying and sabbing , breaking things and keeps saying that he is so tired and not okay. He said that he feels miserable , sad and disappointed for a while ago . He has been like that for 2 days now. Im in pain and he has said a lot of things that hurt me and broke my heart. Im in a situation where I don't know how to make a decision whether I leave or stay? Whether I give him time to heal himself  or just leave him ? We have been arguing a lot this month before all this happened because we are missing each other a lot and not being able to manage time to talk . He is tired of the feelings he get whenever we argue. Told me that I am the only person who could hurt him. I think he's making wrong decisions right now because of the way he feels.  Running a way  from the bad feeling that he feels by going out with this girl. He doesn't have a lot of friends , he doesn't go out and do things because he said I don't allow him to do things that he likes which is not true or that I didn't mean to make him feel this way, and that I let him fly under my own conditions  

He always at home and spending his day on a political forum called "Conspiracy outpost " and all he does is  posting things there and talking to people online. I really I do feel him and I know why he is like that. It's been almost 10 months that we haven't been together physically. I had to leave back after I finished my school in May 2017 and sent our petition in August.

All I said to him that Im not going to take him serious because its clear that he is confused and emotional. Making a quick decision and being misled by his emotions. 

We are still talking and texting each other but it hurts me every day when I know he is with her. Her being in his life now was a choice for him. And the only reason why Im still with him because I do believe that we are happy whenever we are together physically. I understand what made to this situation and that because of the longing and distance. 

He does not want to cancel the visa and said that lets see what god can do for us and he doesn't know what will happen after he tried to brake up with me 2 times whenever he was crying and upset. 

I really Im confused don't know what to do. My heart is telling to be with him because I love him but his heart is telling him to continue getting to know this girl. 

Oh my love this is so sad. This man has been unfaithful to you. I know you say he is confused and yes of course the distance is hard, and 10 months apart must be terrible but if this person is not strong enough to get through this process with you what makes you think he will be strong enough to see your marriage through when times get hard?

It is so easy for other people to give their opinion and advice but if you are not feeling 100% happy in your relationship you need to take some time and seriously think about whether you want to give your life up for him.

So much love to you xx

[Oleh 34]

1 hour ago, Ranim&Corey said:

Thank you for your support ! But I think he is giving up on me after he met a girl who's working with him and he sees her everyday for 8 hours. He was honest with me and told that he likes her because she hears him when he talks and there are a lot of common things they share.  He said he felt connected to her because he has touched her and whenever they are together, he feels happy and not worried about his life. He started dating her for only 3 days ago but they have seen each other at work 2 weeks ago ( btw he just got this new job in two weeks ago)

Everytime I call him now , all he does is crying and sabbing , breaking things and keeps saying that he is so tired and not okay. He said that he feels miserable , sad and disappointed for a while ago . He has been like that for 2 days now. Im in pain and he has said a lot of things that hurt me and broke my heart. Im in a situation where I don't know how to make a decision whether I leave or stay? Whether I give him time to heal himself  or just leave him ? We have been arguing a lot this month before all this happened because we are missing each other a lot and not being able to manage time to talk . He is tired of the feelings he get whenever we argue. Told me that I am the only person who could hurt him. I think he's making wrong decisions right now because of the way he feels.  Running a way  from the bad feeling that he feels by going out with this girl. He doesn't have a lot of friends , he doesn't go out and do things because he said I don't allow him to do things that he likes which is not true or that I didn't mean to make him feel this way, and that I let him fly under my own conditions  

He always at home and spending his day on a political forum called "Conspiracy outpost " and all he does is  posting things there and talking to people online. I really I do feel him and I know why he is like that. It's been almost 10 months that we haven't been together physically. I had to leave back after I finished my school in May 2017 and sent our petition in August.

All I said to him that Im not going to take him serious because its clear that he is confused and emotional. Making a quick decision and being misled by his emotions. 

We are still talking and texting each other but it hurts me every day when I know he is with her. Her being in his life now was a choice for him. And the only reason why Im still with him because I do believe that we are happy whenever we are together physically. I understand what made to this situation and that because of the longing and distance. 

He does not want to cancel the visa and said that lets see what god can do for us and he doesn't know what will happen after he tried to brake up with me 2 times whenever he was crying and upset. 

I really Im confused don't know what to do. My heart is telling to be with him because I love him but his heart is telling him to continue getting to know this girl. 

my dear this is the first time i write on visajourney, 

anyway, do not blame yourself, as it is said it is better than sooner.

I know very well it is not easy for you to accept that fact, especially that you had plans with this person for the future.  

I know from my personal experience that being a part is not easy. I am a boy and I live in Italy away from my fiancee. yes I miss her, and many times i wish if she were here with me. As a boy I am telling you that since I am serious about this relationship, and I love my fiancee,  I do not think of dating anyone else on the side. especially that i can do it easily without her knowing, but i have but a limit for myself because my fiancee means to me.

so do not let him deceive you, or try to blame you for things that are out of your controls, like his emotions (we all have up and down especially during that procedure), and even do not let him blame you for not being series in his relationship.

PS: I can tell you and assure you that God has nothing to do with that, we have the free-will, (now i'm talking in my specialization area), we have the reason we have the will, and we determine what we want and God respects our will.

I know it is hard to you, especially that you love him and I tell you that this is your decision to make no one else since you are going to live with it it for the rest of your life. we can give you advice not more.   

[ChuAni 1,191]

9 hours ago, Olisaemeka said:

I'm a fellow Naija too... Have been lurking here for barely two months Now.  Emy Nwanne kedu?  I'm a January 2018 beneficiary but enjoys people's testimonies here. 

Wow! Welcome! I'm an October Beneficiary (Female) from Naija.

It's nice to meet you, @Favvy and @emekus94.

Kedu ka imere?

Edited February 20, 2018 by ChuAni

[ShawnJayden 32]

Hi, 

Anyone here got appoval last February 15, 2018? If yes Do you have your NOA2 already? If NO, any idea how long will it takes before you can have it?  Because until now it only says as per screenshot below:

 

 

Thank You

[Naes 12,205]

13 minutes ago, ShawnJayden said:

Hi, 

Anyone here got appoval last February 15, 2018? If yes Do you have your NOA2 already? If NO, any idea how long will it takes before you can have it?  Because until now it only says as per screenshot below:

 

 

Thank You

I don't understand why everyone is this anxious about the paper notice.

 

its been only 2 business days....

 

The paper won't  do anything because your case now will be forwarded to NVC. And you can start calling NVC in 8-10 days if you want to ask about your case number.

[Ranim 1]

1 hour ago, NICK & PAULA said:

@Ranim&Corey - first of all I wanna send you lots and lots of virtual hugs, sweetheart. You are one tough girl to be able to endure his current behavior towards you and the process. I feel saddened by your story and I know that everyone in here would want to give you pieces of advice. We aren't in the position to judge your significant other right now because we don't know how he really feels. I just wish that he'd talk to you without throwing tantrums and be a man not a child. I admire your bravery to face this kind of situation and to be able to tell him that you understand him with his affair with another girl. That is not easy, I am sure everyone will agree on me. You let your love for him overcome your anger. Now, when everything is calm and he's not crying or shouting, talk to him once more and calmly ask him of what he wants to do. Will he give you up and be with that girl or he'll face this journey with you without hurting you? You said that he doesn't want to cancel the visa after he broke up with you twice and want to see what will happen after you get approved? That confuses me. 

Anyway, we're here for you, sweetie. Hoping you'll get your approval soon.

Thank you for your kind words. Yes, he said that he doesn't want to cancel the visa and wants to get me there  when I asked him to cancel it , so that I can go and visit him because I think he needs me right now and his emotions are misleading him with that random girt.  That girl knows that he is engaged to someone but still didn't care.Shame on people like that. In the end he said that he wants us to continue talking and he can still be here for me as a  besfriend and who knows what will happen later. That's really confused me more because I think he is still confused. It's been 3 days now and he still feels the same thing 

[Fredd 69]

38 minutes ago, Naes said:

I don't understand why everyone is this anxious about the paper notice.

 

its been only 2 business days....

 

The paper won't  do anything because your case now will be forwarded to NVC. And you can start calling NVC in 8-10 days if you want to ask about your case number.

8-10 business days or calendar days?