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We never applied for the GC and going to divorce. What are the consequences?

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11 hours ago, Maria&Derrick said:

What my husband offered is that I go home but we do not divorce, and when he gets it together 2 or 3 years later, he'd apply for spouse visa for me.

 

I don't see much sense in any of that

I'm so sorry you are going through all of this....  I can't  imagine how you feel -  just even reading your lines is a pain.

 

Do what is right for YOU, girl, not for someone who wasn't able to put it together BEFORE you arrived. Well, you've been HERE, with him, ..you still are, and nothing has changed either..

 

What he is really offering - to put your life on hold... Again ( it's been already done, once, with AOS).  So, why should things be any different in 2-3 years ???! 

 

I hate saying this because  this is really hard,  and it's not what we expect to face, getting married.. especially when it comes along with a move to a different country.. 
But you got to move on with YOUR life.  And make things RIGHT with the US  - to be able to come back one day...  

 

P.S. Even the way you've described what you've been through tells about you as a very calm, very intelligent and beautiful person...You deserve so much better!!!! 

God bless

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Suss&Camm
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If the USC is ready to stand by a i864 for the immigrant and the marriage was bonafide - it is not fraud to file for AOS. The AOS is based on the marriage being entered into in good faith.

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that would be just to get a GC and would be fraud.    in short since there is no longer a valid marriage there is no reason the us government should let you get a gc. this is purely the resu

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Actually, it's the intending immigrant's responsibility to file for AOS. Always has been. The USC's responsibility is to support them in their effort and provide a completed I-864. It's is not the USC

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06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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On 7/24/2017 at 11:52 AM, Ksenia_O said:

I'm so sorry you are going through all of this....  I can't  imagine how you feel -  just even reading your lines is a pain.

 

Do what is right for YOU, girl, not for someone who wasn't able to put it together BEFORE you arrived. Well, you've been HERE, with him, ..you still are, and nothing has changed either..

 

What he is really offering - to put your life on hold... Again ( it's been already done, once, with AOS).  So, why should things be any different in 2-3 years ???! 

 

I hate saying this because  this is really hard,  and it's not what we expect to face, getting married.. especially when it comes along with a move to a different country.. 
But you got to move on with YOUR life.  And make things RIGHT with the US  - to be able to come back one day...  

 

P.S. Even the way you've described what you've been through tells about you as a very calm, very intelligent and beautiful person...You deserve so much better!!!! 

God bless

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