Denied due to multiple petitions

[Boiler 45,930]

What was she supposed to do, the first one did not work out.

[LabOz 915]

2 hours ago, JFH said:

She didn't need to. She likely had already made up her mind before you arrived. 

 

Is this the right time scale? 12 months ago you were about to marry an American and move overseas. In 12 months you have split up, met someone else, decided to marry him, decided to move overseas for him and gone through the whole K-1 process again? That's fast, to say the least.

It's not uncommon for people to fall in and out of love in a short period of time. 

[Lemonslice 4,951]

7 minutes ago, LabOz said:

It's not uncommon for people to fall in and out of love in a short period of time. 

Two foreigners from the same country though, you have to be dedicated. Getting engaged is a bit more than falling in love. For some.

Edited July 13, 2017 by Lemonslice

[JFH 12,191]

1 hour ago, LabOz said:

It's not uncommon for people to fall in and out of love in a short period of time. 

The chance to live in the USA seems to speed up how quickly some people fall in love. 

[Boiler 45,930]

In Chemistry it is called an accelerant.

[Mia2018 9]

On 7/13/2017 at 9:43 PM, JFH said:

She didn't need to. She likely had already made up her mind before you arrived. 

 

Is this the right time scale? 12 months ago you were about to marry an American and move overseas. In 12 months you have split up, met someone else, decided to marry him, decided to move overseas for him and gone through the whole K-1 process again? That's fast, to say the least.

well love moves in mysterious ways. Besides i'm 31 already. no time for playing games and wasting time. I'm just lucky i moved on fast and falls in love with the right person. we all know how relationships are. if you guys broke up, it only means its not meant to be. it takes two to tango. Besides, my time has come that all i want is to have my own family and i'm just blessed that i found my perfect match after waiting for 30 years. i don't owe anyone an explanation especially that they don't know me or my life, some people just like to judge other people by only thinking of what ifs. 

[Mia2018 9]

On 7/14/2017 at 0:07 AM, LabOz said:

It's not uncommon for people to fall in and out of love in a short period of time. 

well unfortunately that's how relationships are. if 2 people don't last long enough obviously they're not meant to be. what can i do? i cant force people to stay and fight with me. everyone has a choice. he made his choice to leave. so i hope other people don't generalize people. everyone is not the same but everyone deserves a second chance to find their true love and happiness. just because a previous relationship failed, doesn't mean i don't have the chance to fall in love again.They can think whatever they want, i don't care, all i care is that i'm genuinely happy now with my fiancee.

Edited July 14, 2017 by Mia2018

[Mia2018 9]

Normally people can moved on from a heartbreak maximum of 3 months. More than 3 months that is something not quite normal. That' s according to psychologist. you can read the link https://www.glamour.com/story/how-long-should-it-take-to-get-over-my-ex And for the record i don't know someone who only had 1 serious relationship all their lives. I don't even know why people are questioning things like this i'm only here asking for the process of withdrawal of old K1 petition. That would have been great if you could tell me the process and information regarding this case and not judge people or question their personal decision with regards to their lovelife.

Edited July 14, 2017 by Mia2018

[Mia2018 9]

On 7/14/2017 at 0:15 AM, Lemonslice said:

Two foreigners from the same country though, you have to be dedicated. Getting engaged is a bit more than falling in love. For some.

well true but you cant stay in love and be dedicated all your life if the other party already given up. life must move on.

[Mia2018 9]

On 7/14/2017 at 1:26 AM, JFH said:

The chance to live in the USA seems to speed up how quickly some people fall in love. 

hmmm... i cant blame people to think like that. User-friendly people are everywhere in this world and because of their actions, poisons the mind of other people and their belief. i perfectly understand that the government needs to protect and catch these wicked user friendly people so they have this whole process, i strongly agree that everything should go through a process.  

[Mia2018 9]

On 7/14/2017 at 1:41 AM, Boiler said:

In Chemistry it is called an accelerant.

for all i know both chemistry and biology should be present.

[Mia2018 9]

anyways for update. Seems like the whole process of withdrawing an old petition will take more or less 6 months. The Embassy will return the papers back to NVC and from NVC to USCIS. i guess i have to wait and do follow ups. We have done everything we could. The ex is also doing his part by sending original withdraw letters to USCIS and embassy. Hopefully we can also send another withdrawal letter to NVC and just hope for the best! Thank you LabOz for the details and advice. I appreciate your time and help.

[LabOz 915]

47 minutes ago, Mia2018 said:

for all i know both chemistry and biology should be present.

Sorry some people here are not providing helpful information but instead judgement. 

You have a good outlook just hang on and it will fine. Plenty of people here to support us and work through this process.

It's not a fun process for anyone.

 

 

[Mia2018 9]

5 hours ago, LabOz said:

Sorry some people here are not providing helpful information but instead judgement. 

You have a good outlook just hang on and it will fine. Plenty of people here to support us and work through this process.

It's not a fun process for anyone.

 

 

i totally agree and appreciate all the help i can get from this site. Thank you so much for the encouragement. i know it wasn't easy but we hope everything is going to be alright. we will get through all of these in time. I also wish the same for you. =)

[Mia2018 9]

On 7/13/2017 at 0:00 AM, f f said:

how long was it between the petitions. it may seem odd to uscis that you could fall out with one usc then fall in love with another so quickly that your willing to move to the us.

well, how can you start a family if you are not living together? isn't the purpose of K1 visa is for couples inlove to get married and start their own family?