Need Help! Im super confused

[Med S 0]

Hi everyone i hope that y'all doing much better then me. 

This is my story ! Now im filed for ROC in January and i made the biometrics etc... in San antonio, tx and still waiting for the interview! But me and my wife are seperatingt( her decision after i caught her emotionally cheating on me online with a moroccan kid ( scammer) ) and i forgave her and i did my best more than i can do to ave our marriage to the point that maybe no one does more than me ! And we went to marriage conselor and she even agreed with me and she couldn't u understand what happen to her ( cuz we were happy married not completely but doing good cuz i was working +12hrs a day not im my IT field 7 days a week to cover our expenses and she was going to school for a masters degree) so i was sorry but busting my ### to make her get what she wants . And yet still cheated on me online and i did forgive her, everything under our name like health, car insurances, lease , we bought 2 cars 1 with her name only second both our names, never had cats in her life i got her 3 and a puppy afterwards, she even told wrong story to her friends and parents and i just ate it just to keep her looking nice as she was before, so anyway im sorry just so confused :/ so im waiting for my interview and at first she was ok we will go the interview we will do good ( i swear i dont need her for my roc just giving her more time so she may relize that she is wrong) now she wants to go rent woth her friend ) girl she just knew few weeks ago and coworker and she is a cheater too ) and idk wth i do! Do we file for divorce now or go to the interview together where she can screw me or idk ! Im so confused i already got a life here friends decent job decent pay in the oil field  already reuind my old crareer for her as IT and web programmer! Idk what to do ! Im really getting real sick ! I lost 12 lbs i a week ( when i found out she was cheating on me ) idk what to do !!! Sorry for the long story ! But i couldn't find anyone to talk to ! Im all bymyself feeling like the world against me ! 

So please give me some advice and thank you

[Med S 0]

Any advice !

[aleful 1,905]

hi

 

first of all there isn't an interview unless immigration doesn't believe that your marriage if bona fide,

 

the vast majority of times, is that if you have enough proof, they mail the GC to you. If it is permanent, you have to divorce and file removal of conditions all by yourself as divorced. You should start gathering again proof of bona fide relationship

 

 

[Dashinka 24,526]

The biggest question you have to ask yourself is will the relationship work out in the end.  Since the ROC was filed in January, you are looking at another 6 months or so before anything comes up.  If you think the marriage is beyond saving then file for divorce and add a divorce waiver to the ROC and make sure you have copies of all your documents sent in with the ROC and anything else to show you entered the marriage in good faith.

 

Sorry about your troubles, but Good Luck!

[mindthegap 2,590]

3 hours ago, Med S said:

Any advice !

Yes.

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[Med S 0]

8 hours ago, aleful said:

hi

 

first of all there isn't an interview unless immigration doesn't believe that your marriage if bona fide,

 

the vast majority of times, is that if you have enough proof, they mail the GC to you. If it is permanent, you have to divorce and file removal of conditions all by yourself as divorced. You should start gathering again proof of bona fide relationship

 

 

Hi ! Thank you.

yes i have proofs ( health i surance, 3 apt leases, car insurance, joint bank account, 3 cats and a pup, tax returns) so I hope that ill hear from them soon enough cuz i dont wanna go through the process again after divorce

[Med S 0]

7 hours ago, Bill & Katya said:

The biggest question you have to ask yourself is will the relationship work out in the end.  Since the ROC was filed in January, you are looking at another 6 months or so before anything comes up.  If you think the marriage is beyond saving then file for divorce and add a divorce waiver to the ROC and make sure you have copies of all your documents sent in with the ROC and anything else to show you entered the marriage in good faith.

 

Sorry about your troubles, but Good Luck!

I do t really know ! I dont belive its gonna work ( on my side i did more than i can to make work and to save the marriage and give it a chance, but on her side she was stuck mentally after she cheated on me ( he played her mind)

another 6 months from now ? Waw ! My only fear was i get the interview date while im separated but the divorce is not finale yet ( cuz it takes 62 days in texas) !

[JFH 12,190]

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