Conditional Green Card Received BUT my Wife is threatening me!..(merged)

[Waittrain 17]

1 hour ago, Pardeepdevgun said:

Hi guys... 

 

thank you for all the advice that was given to my situation quoted.. 

 

i just wanted to ask if I file for divorce now at this stage what are the chances that I'd be called for an interview?..

 

thanks in advance 

Depends on the kind of evidence you put to prove bonafide marriage. 

[mindthegap 2,590]

4 hours ago, Pardeepdevgun said:

 

i just wanted to ask if I file for divorce now at this stage what are the chances that I'd be called for an interview?..

Extremely high

[Pardeepdevgun 4]

Hi Guys!..

 

Here I am with another sticky situation which has left me confused on what my next step should be, I've turned to you guys for some advice and what your thoughts are on my current situation.. So in July 2017 i created a topic please find quoated below.. 

 

Hi guys,

I'm kind of lost and don't really know what to do.. My wife and I  got married in 2015, I received my conditional GC after sometime.. And filed jointly for the i751 in March 2017.. I  entered the marrige in good faith, but sadly for many reasons things are no longer working out for us... I have decided to live separately from my wife to keep the peace, I am still paying for the mortgage, bills and other expenses that she has out of good will (even though we no longer see eye to eye anymore) 

However she has recently started to  verbally threat and abuse me that she will inform office of dention and removal operations that I have married her only for immigrations benefits. 

 

Can anybody please advise me  on what to do?

 

Thank you in advance!..

 

 

I took on board everyones advice but continued to carry on as I mentioned above pay the bills etc and live separate from her. Yesterday she came up to me and threatened to kill herself and put the blame on me, she then tried to stab me with the knife I made a video for my evidence and called the police. The police witnessed that she was not in the right frame of mind and an ambulance was called to take her into hospital. 

 

I am at breaking point, I don't feel safe and feel I am stuck in this situation until I receive any form of information on my 10 year green card. I am worried that if I apply for a divorce now my chances of been called for an interview will be sky high, and with the way she is behaving I can only but imagine her making the situation worse. What would you guys suggest I do?.. 

 

Thanks in advance!..

[Ontarkie 14,227]

~~Related threads merged. Please keep all related question in one thread (this one) as it helps members to know the previous info. Thread also moved to Effect of Major Family Changes, from ROC - As similar topics are discussed here.~~

[WeGuyGal 1,052]

Perhaps a restraining order? 

 

You seem highly concerned about being interviewed.  

[JR loves JR 196]

First, take steps to ensure your safety... Get a restraining order, change your phone number, never be alone with her again. Second, if you haven't filed for divorce, do it now! It sounds like you've wanted to do this for months but you're afraid that it will mean an interview. A lot of married applicants have to go to an ROC interview. If a married applicant has to go to an interview, their spouse must attend. A divorced applicant is more likely to have an interview than a married applicant. But they're more likely to get approved than a married applicant whose relationship is over in every way EXCEPT a legal divorce. If you choose to file for divorce, do it soon. You want it filed so you can change your application to a divorce waiver. I believe that if it's not finalized at the time of interview, you'll either be delayed until you turn in the finalized decree or you'll be denied for not having it. I'm not 100% sure what happens but I'm sure someone else will clarify.

Edited November 15, 2017 by JR loves JR
Grammar check

[Pardeepdevgun 4]

4 hours ago, JR loves JR said:

First, take steps to ensure your safety... Get a restraining order, change your phone number, never be alone with her again. Second, if you haven't filed for divorce, do it now! It sounds like you've wanted to do this for months but you're afraid that it will mean an interview. A lot of married applicants have to go to an ROC interview. If a married applicant has to go to an interview, their spouse must attend. A divorced applicant is more likely to have an interview than a married applicant. But they're more likely to get approved than a married applicant whose relationship is over in every way EXCEPT a legal divorce. If you choose to file for divorce, do it soon. You want it filed so you can change your application to a divorce waiver. I believe that if it's not finalized at the time of interview, you'll either be delayed until you turn in the finalized decree or you'll be denied for not having it. I'm not 100% sure what happens but I'm sure someone else will clarify.

Thank you for the advice, I really appreciate it. 

Yes you are right I’m afraid I’d be called for an interview I know if that is the case she will not attend and this is one of my main concerns 

[NikLR 13,227]

File for divorce, change to divorce waiver, interview is pretty much guaranteed.  All but very few dont pass, especially with good evidence that you entered the marriage in good faith. 

Instead of thinking of the interview with a divorce waiver as an issue or a bad thing, think instead that its a chance to tell someone face to face that you tried to have a good relationship.  Its an interview, not an interrogation or accusation. Really its super common. 

Obviously your ex wife is very depressed and I hope she gets the help she needs. 

[Eric-Pris 1,606]

On ‎7‎/‎2‎/‎2017 at 6:34 PM, Pardeepdevgun said:

Hi guys,

I'm kind of lost and don't really know what to do.. My wife and I  got married in 2015, I received my conditional GC in May 2015.. And filed jointly for the i751 in March 2017.. I  entered the marrige in good faith, but sadly for many reasons things are no longer working out for us... I have decided to live separately from my wife to keep the peace, I am still paying for the mortgage, bills and other expenses that she has out of good will (even though we no longer see eye to eye anymore) 

However she has recently started to  verbally threat and abuse me that she will inform office of dention and removal operations that I have married her only for immigrations benefits. 

 

Can anybody please advise me  on what to do?

 

Thank you in advance!..

 

Cute name [she made up], but no such office exists.

 

Stop paying HER bills.  If it's not in your name, then you are not responsible for it.  Let her put on her big girl pants and pay her own bills.

 

Edited November 17, 2017 by Eric-Pris

[Boiler 45,532]

Maybe means ICE?

[NikLR 13,227]

17 hours ago, Eric-Pris said:

Cute name [she made up], but no such office exists.

 

Stop paying HER bills.  If it's not in your name, then you are not responsible for it.  Let her put on her big girl pants and pay her own bills.

 

While i agree, someone who is depressed and threatening suicide must be taken seriously.  Even if its just histrionics and drama, you cannot know that.  I wouldn't want the OP living with guilt like that, even though it would not be their fault. 

[Pardeepdevgun 4]

14 hours ago, NikLR said:

While i agree, someone who is depressed and threatening suicide must be taken seriously.  Even if its just histrionics and drama, you cannot know that.  I wouldn't want the OP living with guilt like that, even though it would not be their fault. 

Do you think it’s too late to switch my application into a divorce waiver?.. 

 

 

[NikLR 13,227]

16 minutes ago, Pardeepdevgun said:

Do you think it’s too late to switch my application into a divorce waiver?.. 

 

 

No.