Possible Breakup

[Alex+R 0]

Mairzy, I'm about to fly over to [wherever] and kick you in the pants. Stop psychoanalyzing YOURSELF because it's not an end in itself. Oh, I get why I take this abuse. Great, now I don't have to do anything about it. If you don't do something soon, nobody is going to have any sympathy for you anymore. Heck, I'll call London for ya. "Hello, this is [Mairzy] and I would like to withdraw a petition and DTMFA" ..not so hard.

I'll be on the same flight with Alex, and I'll bring a shrink along to help you with the 3 step process;

1) Cancel the petition and interview

2) Block access to online chats and change phone number

3) Begin therapy to understand why your behavior is completely illogical

Do it already

Fun. I will bring some on-flight snacks so we don't have to pay the $5 for the snack pack.

[Fandango 1,439]

DTMFA?

[LaL 418]

DTMFA?

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=DTMFA

[Mags 112]

DTMFA?

Dump the mother****** already.

[The_dip_sticks 0]

Imagine your a mom a few years from now and you see your daughter in your EXACT situation. What would you tell her to do? Would you allow her to keep tormenting her self over a guy whom is making her life a living hell. Follow the truth in side your heart.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

On a side note - your spouse does not have to be baptized Catholic for you two to be married in the Church. My grandfather was not Catholic and my grandparents lived a long and happy marriage (he was Protestant, my grandmother was Catholic). Perhaps in this case he felt pressured into doing something that a person should really be freely doing for themselves and not for another?

I know. I didn't ask him to be Catholic; he must be baptized and Christian, that's all.

He said he was Christian and wanted to be baptized. I wasn't pressuring him, he simply lied to me about who he was.

Not trying to rub it in, but if being baptized a Christian was important enough to him personally, he would have done so before you two met. He told you he was Christian and that was satisfactory enough for you to proceed with the relationship to the point of engagement. Unless he outright told you he was baptized before the relationship began and then later told you he wasn't, I fail to see the lie in that.

[almaty 19]

hmmmmmmmm..........there are 2 sides to every story

[Kez/JWolf 6]

I cant belive we are now on post #203...... to the OP you have been given some excelent advise in all these threads.... you seem to be looking for something other than the advice given here.... could it be your are just looking for a wayout and you feel the need to justify yourself??

Kez

[bostonparis 0]

My opinion - this OP will not cancel the petition and will allow this little ####### to come over here, and will actually marry him because she feels so worthless that no one else could possibly love her. And will feel that she IS a stupid cow. And then, once he's here and saying the same things in PERSON that he really only means ONLINE (####### is THAT, by the way?), then she'll make excuses about how it's all her fault.

Just typing that makes me want to throw up.

[Ron/Sharon 0]

hmmmmmmmm..........there are 2 sides to every story

Three sides actually, hers, his and the truth.

[kitkat1 5]

My opinion - this OP will not cancel the petition and will allow this little ####### to come over here, and will actually marry him because she feels so worthless that no one else could possibly love her. And will feel that she IS a stupid cow. And then, once he's here and saying the same things in PERSON that he really only means ONLINE (####### is THAT, by the way?), then she'll make excuses about how it's all her fault.

Just typing that makes me want to throw up.

I would place money on the bet that you are 100% correct.

And it IS a revolting thought.

OP: therapy therapy therapy therapy therapy GET SOME HELP

[Ron/Sharon 0]

She seems to be complaining about him and at the same time defending him and his actions. ??????

[kitkat1 5]

She seems to be complaining about him and at the same time defending him and his actions. ??????

That's one of the many many reasons why she needs professional help!!!

[eric&gen 0]

Save the drama for your mama lol.

[Robor007 0]

(clipped)On a side note - your spouse does not have to be baptized Catholic for you two to be married in the Church. My grandfather was not Catholic and my grandparents lived a long and happy marriage (he was Protestant, my grandmother was Catholic). Perhaps in this case he felt pressured into doing something that a person should really be freely doing for themselves and not for another?

I think it depends on the church. My wife and I were not permitted to marry in the Catholic church in her hometown because I was not baptized Catholic. I was baptized but as a Lutheran. I don't practice any religion and given examples like this it's no wonder why.