I-129f June 2017 filers (merged)

[Britanee7 49]

Just now, Naes said:

Hehehe nah it's a good jealous  

Just wanted to give you a chuckle, I know it is getting worse.. 

Hope you will get it before that 17 days finished and have a group cuddle  NOA2 included!!!

@Naes I really do hope so but i dont think so.. my estimated date is 17th December!!! That seems so long away when realistically its only a month and a day!! When is your date?

[Hadassah123 523]

2 minutes ago, Britanee7 said:

@Hadassah123 awww this is cute. They can be romantic when they want to be xx

Oh yes! haha

[Naes 12,205]

1 minute ago, Britanee7 said:

@Naes I really do hope so but i dont think so.. my estimated date is 17th December!!! That seems so long away when realistically its only a month and a day!! When is your date?

Oh I am a September filer! only day 52 today.. I am just here to help establish the scanning for June (Cause I already started why not help )

And will try to somehow keep you guys positive when the times are dark

(I'm pretty sure some of you will hate me for not experiencing the same thing and being so light about it but that's ok! Rant to me when it'S needed )

 

[Hadassah123 523]

3 minutes ago, Naes said:

Oh I am a September filer! only day 52 today.. I am just here to help establish the scanning for June (Cause I already started why not help )

And will try to somehow keep you guys positive when the times are dark

(I'm pretty sure some of you will hate me for not experiencing the same thing and being so light about it but that's ok! Rant to me when it'S needed )

 

Nooooo! We can't hate you for all those scans and analyzing you've already done for us!

[Britanee7 49]

7 minutes ago, Naes said:

Oh I am a September filer! only day 52 today.. I am just here to help establish the scanning for June (Cause I already started why not help )

And will try to somehow keep you guys positive when the times are dark

(I'm pretty sure some of you will hate me for not experiencing the same thing and being so light about it but that's ok! Rant to me when it'S needed )

 

@Naes Aww thats amazing thanks for your help. Mines day 129.. its insane xx

[AZSunshine78 437]

Day 150 something here. I stopped counting. I making myself mad

😪😪😣

[John & Rose 7,239]

1 minute ago, AZSunshine78 said:

Day 150 something here. I stopped counting. I making myself mad

😪😪😣

Hang in there!!!  This is almost done.  

[Naes 12,205]

2 minutes ago, AZSunshine78 said:

Day 150 something here. I stopped counting. I making myself mad

😪😪😣

Count or not, your gonna get it... it will come the moment you least expect it (uuuuhhh - this supposed to be ghost noises but I have no idea how to do that English.)

 

we we are trying to schedule the June scans 😊 Please cheer up, you are a sunshine you cannot be down!

[AZSunshine78 437]

18 minutes ago, John & Rose said:

Hang in there!!!  This is almost done.  

 

16 minutes ago, Naes said:

Count or not, your gonna get it... it will come the moment you least expect it (uuuuhhh - this supposed to be ghost noises but I have no idea how to do that English.)

 

we we are trying to schedule the June scans 😊 Please cheer up, you are a sunshine you cannot be down!

 I can’t tell you how much I needed those words of encouragement. I have been crying all day. Our relationship has been tested to the max and the past couple of weeks have been discussion of separating. I have been in Europe for just over a month and I’m going insane. I love him and I love being with him but I miss my house and I miss my friends, I miss my job and my animals. I’m trying so hard to hang in there but I feel like depression is really getting a hold of me and the fighting in the tension between us doesn’t help. This is the most difficult thing in the world and  I can’t imagine what it’s like for people that aren’t able to spend time with the ones that they love. I feel greedy and awful about myself because I feel I’m taking for granted that we are able to be together during this process. 

 

I love you guys. 

I have no family except for him so this has been very very difficult. He’s in the same situation and along with any relationship, we have many many dissimilarities that seem to never be able to be resolved and I’m just incredibly stressed out.

[John & Rose 7,239]

Just now, AZSunshine78 said:

 

 I can’t tell you how much I needed those words of encouragement. I have been crying all day. Our relationship has been tested to the max and the past couple of weeks have been discussion of separating. I have been in Europe for just over a month and I’m going insane. I love him and I love being with him but I miss my house and I miss my friends, I miss my job and my animals. I’m trying so hard to hang in there but I feel like depression is really getting a hold of me and the fighting in the tension between us doesn’t help. This is the most difficult thing in the world and  I can’t imagine what it’s like for people that aren’t able to spend time with the ones that they love. I feel greedy and awful about myself because I feel I’m taking for granted that we are able to be together during this process. 

 

I love you guys. 

I have no family except for him so this has been very very difficult. He’s in the same situation and along with any relationship, we have many many dissimilarities that seem to never be able to be resolved and I’m just incredibly stressed out.

This process is difficult.  Do not allow the process to take anything away from why we all started the process in the first place.  This is simply another challenge but as challenges go, not really a terrible one.  We know we will be in our loved one's arms at the end.  Always stay positive and remember the love.  Consider this a way for the US Government to test your relationship.  Come out of that test stronger and more determined.

 

This will be over for all of us soon.  Remember the love and try to forget the challenges!

[Naes 12,205]

5 minutes ago, AZSunshine78 said:

 

 I can’t tell you how much I needed those words of encouragement. I have been crying all day. Our relationship has been tested to the max and the past couple of weeks have been discussion of separating. I have been in Europe for just over a month and I’m going insane. I love him and I love being with him but I miss my house and I miss my friends, I miss my job and my animals. I’m trying so hard to hang in there but I feel like depression is really getting a hold of me and the fighting in the tension between us doesn’t help. This is the most difficult thing in the world and  I can’t imagine what it’s like for people that aren’t able to spend time with the ones that they love. I feel greedy and awful about myself because I feel I’m taking for granted that we are able to be together during this process. 

 

I love you guys. 

I have no family except for him so this has been very very difficult. He’s in the same situation and along with any relationship, we have many many dissimilarities that seem to never be able to be resolved and I’m just incredibly stressed out.

Ok so first part of advice is given by John.

and the second part from me, all relationships are different. Because everyone is different.

i am characteristically extremely different from my fiancé. I don't know what are yours but it doesn't matter.

We always say;

if we are fighting when we are apart, stop and think if you would fight over whatever that is when you are together? Or even when on a camera instead of phone maybe.

 

this is long and hard and it's almost over. Still you can decide on pursuing not pursuing. But if you think him like a family already and you're feeling lonely and depressed because of being apart. Then probably you are going till the end.

 

Some say don't be too dependent on others for happiness, oh well some of us do. I do. But remember if you stay as a sunshine (literally as positive and bright) the person who's looking at you feels the same, slowly but they do and you actually take away their sadness and their anger! 

 

I am in a country with no family but two friends, it was my choice. But since I found him, I miss him deliberately. I didn't see my family for 4 years and I'm ok knowing that I will see them soon.. but going crazy to see my fiancé only after a month.

maybe that's how we move to create our own families? 

 

Try to bring positive to you and you and that will bring your partner happiness too ❤️

[AZSunshine78 437]

2 minutes ago, Naes said:

Ok so first part of advice is given by John.

and the second part from me, all relationships are different. Because everyone is different.

i am characteristically extremely different from my fiancé. I don't know what are yours but it doesn't matter.

We always say;

if we are fighting when we are apart, stop and think if you would fight over whatever that is when you are together? Or even when on a camera instead of phone maybe.

 

this is long and hard and it's almost over. Still you can decide on pursuing not pursuing. But if you think him like a family already and you're feeling lonely and depressed because of being apart. Then probably you are going till the end.

 

Some say don't be too dependent on others for happiness, oh well some of us do. I do. But remember if you stay as a sunshine (literally as positive and bright) the person who's looking at you feels the same, slowly but they do and you actually take away their sadness and their anger! 

 

I am in a country with no family but two friends, it was my choice. But since I found him, I miss him deliberately. I didn't see my family for 4 years and I'm ok knowing that I will see them soon.. but going crazy to see my fiancé only after a month.

maybe that's how we move to create our own families? 

 

Try to bring positive to you and you and that will bring your partner happiness too ❤️

Thank you both

[vocaledge 3,340]

15 minutes ago, AZSunshine78 said:

 

 I can’t tell you how much I needed those words of encouragement. I have been crying all day. Our relationship has been tested to the max and the past couple of weeks have been discussion of separating. I have been in Europe for just over a month and I’m going insane. I love him and I love being with him but I miss my house and I miss my friends, I miss my job and my animals. I’m trying so hard to hang in there but I feel like depression is really getting a hold of me and the fighting in the tension between us doesn’t help. This is the most difficult thing in the world and  I can’t imagine what it’s like for people that aren’t able to spend time with the ones that they love. I feel greedy and awful about myself because I feel I’m taking for granted that we are able to be together during this process. 

 

I love you guys. 

I have no family except for him so this has been very very difficult. He’s in the same situation and along with any relationship, we have many many dissimilarities that seem to never be able to be resolved and I’m just incredibly stressed out.

We're all here for you, and many of us feel the same thing.  

Know that you can vent here, and also that this process WILL be over soon and you can be together forever.

[AZSunshine78 437]

5 minutes ago, Naes said:

Ok so first part of advice is given by John.

and the second part from me, all relationships are different. Because everyone is different.

i am characteristically extremely different from my fiancé. I don't know what are yours but it doesn't matter.

We always say;

if we are fighting when we are apart, stop and think if you would fight over whatever that is when you are together? Or even when on a camera instead of phone maybe.

 

this is long and hard and it's almost over. Still you can decide on pursuing not pursuing. But if you think him like a family already and you're feeling lonely and depressed because of being apart. Then probably you are going till the end.

 

Some say don't be too dependent on others for happiness, oh well some of us do. I do. But remember if you stay as a sunshine (literally as positive and bright) the person who's looking at you feels the same, slowly but they do and you actually take away their sadness and their anger! 

 

I am in a country with no family but two friends, it was my choice. But since I found him, I miss him deliberately. I didn't see my family for 4 years and I'm ok knowing that I will see them soon.. but going crazy to see my fiancé only after a month.

maybe that's how we move to create our own families? 

 

Try to bring positive to you and you and that will bring your partner happiness too ❤️

I am currently living with him. We have been together for a year and a half and we’ve only been apart for about five months total in that time. I feel I have lost perspective on everything and arguments are about nothing but their constant and persistent and I’m so overwhelmed and sad and I know he’s angry because he says he’s unhappy too.

 

Yet we both say how much we love each other but then we talk about being apart and I just don’t understand itYet we both say how much we love each other but then we talk about being apart and I just don’t

[Naes 12,205]

5 minutes ago, AZSunshine78 said:

I am currently living with him. We have been together for a year and a half and we’ve only been apart for about five months total in that time. I feel I have lost perspective on everything and arguments are about nothing but their constant and persistent and I’m so overwhelmed and sad and I know he’s angry because he says he’s unhappy too.

 

Yet we both say how much we love each other but then we talk about being apart and I just don’t understand itYet we both say how much we love each other but then we talk about being apart and I just don’t

I'm going to dm you.