Is This Homesickness or Fraud?

[The_dip_sticks 0]

Im sorry this has happend to you. Stay strong and remember that if she did this with bad intentions every thing that goes around comes around. She wont be able to have her cake and eat it too so easily.

[mRx 16]

Thats awful!!! Im so sorry for you.

[jasper 0]

make sure to keep the email...u might need it in the future.

also there is a way to check where that email was sent from by using the ip address from it. i cant remember the programs name or the web site. maybe someone else here knows how to do it. that way u will at least have a general idea where it was sent from.

just wanna say somthing and its true ,she used for immigration benifits ,she came here she doesnt need you know ,here goal is to come here and now she doesnt need you it happens to a LOT of people here you should contact homeland security and let them now so she can be in there records and she will never be approved no matter what she does to have GC bye bye .

[Fandango 1,439]

I do wish you well and I am sorry you're going through this. That being said:

Did you hire a private investigator? Have you contacted the airlines/train stations/bus depots/car rental agencies?

But you were quick to call ICE to report possible fraud and now here you are asking questions about petitioning someone else. I am sorry for your troubles, If you're unsure as to whether it's homesickness or fraud, how can you report her to ICE if you're unsure? Why are you not giving your marriage & your wife more time to figure this all out? It's only 10 days. What about your other topics about 'giving love and patience to your foreign spouse'?

No one here can do anything but speculate. I'd advise you to look within yourself for the answers you seek, because all you'll get here is gut reaction from one post. No one can suss your wife's motives out from one post.

And how you could already be wondering at this point about petitioning someone else is baffling.

Edited April 15, 2007 by LisaD

[Ban Hammer 13,332]

upon reading this, the entire thing sounds fishy. if you still have that email from whoever sent it to you, send me a pm and we'll see if we can sort out if it was sent from within the usa or outside of the usa.

best wishes

[Donna A 4]

sounds like she might have wrote it herself but said she was her aunt. thats why i say there is a way to check through the ip address and see who really sent the email. hope u can figure it out charles.

Edited April 15, 2007 by donnaal

[rebeccajo 14]

Good grief man. Your wife disappears and you don't notify the authorities? You take it on faith from an e-mail that she is 'safe'?

You better hope like hell she is safe. Because if this turns criminal in any way, you are gonna be Suspect #1.

[sunandmoon 450]

Good grief man. Your wife disappears and you don't notify the authorities? You take it on faith from an e-mail that she is 'safe'?

You better hope like hell she is safe. Because if this turns criminal in any way, you are gonna be Suspect #1.

from prior posts in another thread, says he has filed missing person's report.

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...mp;#entry831359

[Ban Hammer 13,332]

sounds like she might have wrote it herself but said she was her aunt. thats why i say there is a way to check through the ip address and see who really sent the email. hope u can figure it out charles.

it's easy to figure out as the header of the email has the originating ip in it. just do a whois on that ip and see where it is registered (in what country)

[Ban Hammer 13,332]

Good grief man. Your wife disappears and you don't notify the authorities? You take it on faith from an e-mail that she is 'safe'?

You better hope like hell she is safe. Because if this turns criminal in any way, you are gonna be Suspect #1.

agreed, that would have been my first action, followed quickly by changing the locks and getting new credit cards.

[j-manu 0]

Sorry to learn of your situation. I am guessing that the most difficult part is not knowing why and what. I hope that you find some kind of closure soon.

[CountryBoy 0]

I am so sorry to hear this terrible news, from what I know this is uncharacteristic of a filipina ..

Did your wife take anything with her that can be tracked? Have you looked over your phone bills, deleted emails, etc. to find a trial as to where she might be? Internet Browser history? What about any messenger programs that she might have? Yahoo Messenger, ICQ, Live Messenger etc. Have you asked neighbors or community members if they have seen anything out of the ordinary.

I suspect that she has found someone that she wants to be with in the US and that the email is more than likely not from a family member .. as someone mentioned previously, you can look at the header and tell for sure (right click on the email name from the inbox view in OE, view headers for online email) and go to http://www.geobytes.com/IpLocator.htm to find the name of the company that has ownership of the ip in question.

Good Luck,

CB

[Donna A 4]

it appears the OP dont care what we have to say. he hasnt been back.

[Fandango 1,439]

from what I know this is uncharacteristic of a filipina ..

Do they all act the same?

[Alex+R 0]

And how you could already be wondering at this point about petitioning someone else is baffling.

That's what I was wondering, and when I saw you'd posted, I put my money on you having already said it.