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  1. 1. If your spouse cheated on you with a one night stand, would you:

    • tell me! so i can dump them and move on.
      50
    • tell me, so i can decide whether to stay or not.
      70
    • keep it a secret. if it was a one time deal and you still love me, why tell me?
      26

  2. 2. if your spouse cheated with a whole other relationship (but it was over), would you:

    • tell me, so i can dump them for sure!
      77
    • tell me, so i can decide whether to stay or not.
      59
    • keep it a secret. i don't want to know!
      10

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Unless we're in the middle of a war zone and he thinks I've been killed by enemy forces or something, it's not something I think I could forgive.

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~krakatoa~   27

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I've been cheated on by a fiance (better to know early than be married to a jerk).

I don't really know if I would like a white lie. When I sensed something was going on I asked him and he didn't lie. And that was it, couldn't stay in a relationship with infidelities. I admit it hurt me bad knowing about it (in detail my gosh!) but by not knowing.. would it be less of a bad thing?

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I would want to know to dump the person. If there's something I can't forgive in a relationship is cheating, even if we've been together for 30 years with a flock of kids. It's my no tolerance point.

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