Refused on ceac

[Ebunoluwa 6,136]

Same message you received pages ago and the answer is the same, wait in line for the NOID.

[Sparrow 23]

6 minutes ago, Ebunoluwa said:

Same message you received pages ago and the answer is the same, wait in line for the NOID.

I told to my wife it's not reaffirm but she was so happy after getting email from uscis and now she is crying but I don't know why they said this approved i130 form email we don't have choice we will wait for the letter from uscis 

[Oliversmom 250]

Have your wife come on this site and read and ask questions so she understands.  When I went through this process a few years ago I got a lot of help from this site.  the advice you get here is good.  And there were some really nice people here who sort of walked me through the visa process.  I am so grateful to them.  So I strongly encourage you to get your wife on here. 

[Ebunoluwa 6,136]

5 hours ago, Sparrow said:

I told to my wife it's not reaffirm but she was so happy after getting email from uscis and now she is crying but I don't know why they said this approved i130 form email we don't have choice we will wait for the letter from uscis 

Well it was approved and then returned for revocation so now you have to look for the NOID letter and reaffirmation. I explained this several times in the previous pages of your thread.

1. 9-18 months to receive NOID.

2. Respond to NOID in 30 days.

3. Reaffirmation.

4. Wife needs to stop running in circles and get on VJ to understand the process.

 

 

[Sparrow 23]

On 31/01/2018 at 5:51 AM, Ebunoluwa said:

Well it was approved and then returned for revocation so now you have to look for the NOID letter and reaffirmation. I explained this several times in the previous pages of your thread.

1. 9-18 months to receive NOID.

2. Respond to NOID in 30 days.

3. Reaffirmation.

4. Wife needs to stop running in circles and get on VJ to understand the process.

 

 

Hi today our senator got response and uscis saying our case is under extended supervisory review I don't understand this? 

[ASMS 86]

On 1/30/2018 at 8:51 PM, Ebunoluwa said:

Well it was approved and then returned for revocation so now you have to look for the NOID letter and reaffirmation. I explained this several times in the previous pages of your thread.

1. 9-18 months to receive NOID.

2. Respond to NOID in 30 days.

3. Reaffirmation.

4. Wife needs to stop running in circles and get on VJ to understand the process.

 

 

I really admire your patience and pedagogy @Ebunoluwa.

 

9 hours ago, Sparrow said:

Hi today our senator got response and uscis saying our case is under extended supervisory review I don't understand this? 

What is the point to keep posting in VJ the updates of your case and your questions, if you are not really following any recommendations given in here?

 

Is not in my power to judge anyone's relationship, but OP, so many times you were asked to provide information about your case and you didn't, when in fact, those details could help you to be ready once you receive the explanations of the intent to revoke/deny of the embassy.

You ignoring all the recommendations, not providing any information about the possible red flags of your case, not even describing your interview, asking over and over again the same question, and not making your wife to read this topic, just makes me think either you hide something, or you are just trolling everyone that is trying to help you.

 

[Ebunoluwa 6,136]

11 hours ago, Sparrow said:

Hi today our senator got response and uscis saying our case is under extended supervisory review I don't understand this? 

Extended supervisory review is a fancy way of saying you are in a long queue and have to wait your turn.

[Sparrow 23]

2 hours ago, ASMS said:

I really admire your patience and pedagogy @Ebunoluwa.

 

What is the point to keep posting in VJ the updates of your case and your questions, if you are not really following any recommendations given in here?

 

Is not in my power to judge anyone's relationship, but OP, so many times you were asked to provide information about your case and you didn't, when in fact, those details could help you to be ready once you receive the explanations of the intent to revoke/deny of the embassy.

You ignoring all the recommendations, not providing any information about the possible red flags of your case, not even describing your interview, asking over and over again the same question, and not making your wife to read this topic, just makes me think either you hide something, or you are just trolling everyone that is trying to help you.

 

I am not hiding anything I did tell everything about my case in previous post and before my wife make visajourney account and she is busy in her job I told her so many time to read visajourney post here and understand the process but she dont do it so it's not my fault I want to tell you here our red flags is she divorce twice and this is her third marriage and I am 25 years old and she is 40 and I swear I don't care about age and she haivng son 24 years old and I accept that I love my wife dearly and we love eachother let me tell you what happen in interview when my interview start first consular officer was white American lady and she said I am muslim and she is Christian so how you manage this I told her we respect eachother faiths then she said I know you respect her religion and she respect yours but you have fight about this everyday I told her no we don't fight then I told her when I talk with my wife on phone and she hear azan voice she told me to go it's time for your pray and when my wife go to church I told her how's going your time there then she told me she is your mother age how can you marry your mother age I told her that I don't care about this and I love my wife and she told me which age your wife got pregnant i said I don't know she said to me how can you forget her special day then she said you have to take a seat we will call you I wait for half an hour and then they call my name in loud speaker to come in that room number when I reach there and two consular officer standing and they start talking with me what is your name which city you belong to and which school you go to and what your teacher name and which subject they teach you in school and how many brothers and sisters are you? What your brother doing and they talk about my personal life and consular officer ask me why my family didn't came in my marriage I told him that I was marriage in srilanka so we don't afford to bring our family there and they said to me why don't your wife came to pakistan I told them first our plan was that she was coming to pakistan but unfortunately in pakistan terrorist attack at army public school while we and my wife were planing so I told my wife it's dangerous for you to come here so we decide to go to another country and my wife and me search alot of countries Bahrain dubai and Spain but their visa are hard to get so I talk with my cousin who work with szbiast and there many people are from abroad and he told us it's easy to get visa from srilanka embassy so that's why we go to srilanka then consular officer ask me her mother name father name brother name sister name and they ask me where her son work I give all the answer and they told me how much it's cost for our wedding I told them 400$ but they don't belive me every expenses my wife did coz I don't have job and one consular officer was pakistani and one consular officer was white American and pakistani consular officer talk with me in urdu and said leave your wife and get married in pakistan I told him sorry sir that's not going to happen and I made two mistakes in interview one they ask me how much she send me money for supporting me I mistakenly said 10$ for month but actually she send me every week 20$ I am so worried about this and another mistake was they ask me about her son father name and I told them wrong name I am very worried pakistani consular officer said which airline do went to srilanka I told him srilankan airline and I told him srilankan airline only oprate from karachi and they put me in very pressure American consular officer said where my wife born I thought he want to know about the hospital name and I told them hospital name with place so consular officer said I don't know where my wife born at how can you know this.then they ask me I am liening that my family know about her they ask me I am coming from city where no allow to marriage to Christian I told them that's not true and pakistani consular officer told me you get srilanka visa easily but this is American visa and you will not get this visa easily and they ask me different questions too but I forget them so these two mistakes making me worried when they saw my translated in english marriage certificate they told me why my witness sign is not there i told them they forget to do it but i was forget to tell them they sign in untranslated marriage certificate in the end of interview they ask me to send them more chat history and American consular officer bring 221 G white form and they said I have to send them emails between me and my wife and letters between me and my wife and they didn't request in 221 G chat history but they said to send them and I send them everything so after one month they called me and ask me to send them untranslated marriage certificate scan copy via email and I send them then my case was in administrative processing then ready then administrative processing then ready then administrative processing then stuck in ready status after 9 months then they refused and returned to the uscis.so uscis recieve our case on 20 July 2016 and now their 180 days review is finish it's been 7 months our senator got this response under extended supervisory review.

[Ebunoluwa 6,136]

They say 180 days  review but that is just a general guideline, many have been waiting 9-12 months to receive the NOID letter. Once she receives it she can address all their concerns from the interview.

[Sparrow 23]

1 minute ago, Ebunoluwa said:

They say 180 days  review but that is just a general guideline, many have been waiting 9-12 months to receive the NOID letter. Once she receives it she can address all their concerns from the interview.

So under extended supervisory review will be finsih in 9-12 months and then they will send NOID letter?

[ASMS 86]

4 hours ago, Sparrow said:

I am not hiding anything I did tell everything about my case in previous post and before my wife make visajourney account and she is busy in her job I told her so many time to read visajourney post here and understand the process but she dont do it so it's not my fault I want to tell you here our red flags is she divorce twice and this is her third marriage and I am 25 years old and she is 40 and I swear I don't care about age and she haivng son 24 years old and I accept that I love my wife dearly and we love eachother let me tell you what happen in interview when my interview start first consular officer was white American lady and she said I am muslim and she is Christian so how you manage this I told her we respect eachother faiths then she said I know you respect her religion and she respect yours but you have fight about this everyday I told her no we don't fight then I told her when I talk with my wife on phone and she hear azan voice she told me to go it's time for your pray and when my wife go to church I told her how's going your time there then she told me she is your mother age how can you marry your mother age I told her that I don't care about this and I love my wife and she told me which age your wife got pregnant i said I don't know she said to me how can you forget her special day then she said you have to take a seat we will call you I wait for half an hour and then they call my name in loud speaker to come in that room number when I reach there and two consular officer standing and they start talking with me what is your name which city you belong to and which school you go to and what your teacher name and which subject they teach you in school and how many brothers and sisters are you? What your brother doing and they talk about my personal life and consular officer ask me why my family didn't came in my marriage I told him that I was marriage in srilanka so we don't afford to bring our family there and they said to me why don't your wife came to pakistan I told them first our plan was that she was coming to pakistan but unfortunately in pakistan terrorist attack at army public school while we and my wife were planing so I told my wife it's dangerous for you to come here so we decide to go to another country and my wife and me search alot of countries Bahrain dubai and Spain but their visa are hard to get so I talk with my cousin who work with szbiast and there many people are from abroad and he told us it's easy to get visa from srilanka embassy so that's why we go to srilanka then consular officer ask me her mother name father name brother name sister name and they ask me where her son work I give all the answer and they told me how much it's cost for our wedding I told them 400$ but they don't belive me every expenses my wife did coz I don't have job and one consular officer was pakistani and one consular officer was white American and pakistani consular officer talk with me in urdu and said leave your wife and get married in pakistan I told him sorry sir that's not going to happen and I made two mistakes in interview one they ask me how much she send me money for supporting me I mistakenly said 10$ for month but actually she send me every week 20$ I am so worried about this and another mistake was they ask me about her son father name and I told them wrong name I am very worried pakistani consular officer said which airline do went to srilanka I told him srilankan airline and I told him srilankan airline only oprate from karachi and they put me in very pressure American consular officer said where my wife born I thought he want to know about the hospital name and I told them hospital name with place so consular officer said I don't know where my wife born at how can you know this.then they ask me I am liening that my family know about her they ask me I am coming from city where no allow to marriage to Christian I told them that's not true and pakistani consular officer told me you get srilanka visa easily but this is American visa and you will not get this visa easily and they ask me different questions too but I forget them so these two mistakes making me worried when they saw my translated in english marriage certificate they told me why my witness sign is not there i told them they forget to do it but i was forget to tell them they sign in untranslated marriage certificate in the end of interview they ask me to send them more chat history and American consular officer bring 221 G white form and they said I have to send them emails between me and my wife and letters between me and my wife and they didn't request in 221 G chat history but they said to send them and I send them everything so after one month they called me and ask me to send them untranslated marriage certificate scan copy via email and I send them then my case was in administrative processing then ready then administrative processing then ready then administrative processing then stuck in ready status after 9 months then they refused and returned to the uscis.so uscis recieve our case on 20 July 2016 and now their 180 days review is finish it's been 7 months our senator got this response under extended supervisory review.

Wow, I think you have so many things to overcome. Ofc age gap it's not something you can change, either the previous marriages of your wife. I read previously that the US. Embassy in Pakistan is very hostile, and it means you need to know very well your wife, but if is someone you love and you talk to everyday, then it shouldn't be hard.

 

Remember that some wrong answers are easy to find for them and they will take it like if you are lying, which will only bring more troubles and suspects. Your embassy is famous for doing field investigations on beneficiary's life (you), so make sure to be truthful with them.

 

-How you met your wife?

-How many times you guys had traveled to see each other since the wedding?

[Michael2017 368]

I think one of the big problems here is marriage at the first meeting.

[Sparrow 23]

2 hours ago, ASMS said:

Wow, I think you have so many things to overcome. Ofc age gap it's not something you can change, either the previous marriages of your wife. I read previously that the US. Embassy in Pakistan is very hostile, and it means you need to know very well your wife, but if is someone you love and you talk to everyday, then it shouldn't be hard.

 

Remember that some wrong answers are easy to find for them and they will take it like if you are lying, which will only bring more troubles and suspects. Your embassy is famous for doing field investigations on beneficiary's life (you), so make sure to be truthful with them.

 

-How you met your wife?

-How many times you guys had traveled to see each other since the wedding?

We met online on tango and then we met in person in srilanka and we meet only once now my wife is planing about trip to qatar me and my mom is going to qatar and she coming from usa and we will spend one month there and this is second trip that we are going I was going to faint during interview they make me really hard time and we will fight until our last breath we will see how long they will put us in this process we have enough proof to show them we have true love 

[Dark Matter 5]

I'm from Pakistan and I can tell the OP that your case is a big red flag for the US embassy, because inter-racial and inter-religious marriages are not a norm in Pakistan, especially in a situation like yours, i.e., you didn't know your wife for a long time before marrying her and you two haven't spent a lot of time together. Men marrying much older women (unless it's a family arrangement or property involved or something) is also rare. So, I am sorry to say, but I doubt your case will be processed any time soon. They might deliberately prolong it to see whether you stay married or not.

 

I guess the things that you must do in order to prove that you are not committing visa fraud and the marriage is only for a Green Card (I'm not saying it is, that's what the embassy seems to think), are:

 

- Find work. You being unemployed and dependent on your wife weakens your case.

- Ask your wife to visit you and spend time with your family in Pakistan as many times as she can. It is very important that she spend time with your family, not in other countries but in your hometown.

- If possible, have a marriage ceremony in your city/village with your family and relatives present.

- Get to know small things about each other, which they will ask you in the interview. (My husband and I prepared questionnaires for each other).

 

Thing is, for you, it is an uphill task to prove to the embassy that your case is genuine so no effort that you and your wife make to help your case is a big effort.

Edited February 21, 2018 by Dark Matter

[Ebunoluwa 6,136]

7 hours ago, Sparrow said:

So under extended supervisory review will be finsih in 9-12 months and then they will send NOID letter?

It could be 12-18 months. Nobody knows for certain, not even them.

Any responses are general terms.

You will never know exactly how long the wait will be. 180 days means nothing. They don't abide by that. Forget about when and focus on the visit with your wife

and on gathering bona fide evidence.