Husband charged with domestic abuse breaks restraining order

[Xosorry 2]

3 hours ago, NikLR said:

Regardless of children, why you're still in contact enough to know what's going on in this person's life is beyond the scope of my imagination.  If anyone beat my face in and told me they wished I was dead, they'd probably disappear and I wouldn't worry about them breaking restraining orders.  

 

YOU need counselling to get over the relationship you had with this person. 

I'M getting counseling. Thank you for the judgement and lack of help. 

[Jaybird225 3]

42 minutes ago, Xosorry said:

I'M getting counseling. Thank you for the judgement and lack of help. 

It's very easy for others to judge on what they would do. Unfortunately people can be very manipulative and then years down the road you are in a huge mess and ylu have no idea how you got there. My fiance just moved here recently and I'm struggling with him being irresponsible and it's very challenging. You love the person but you also want and deserve to be happy. 

 

I know it's difficult but try your best to focus on you and your child. Put everything you have into taking care of yourself. Try to do little things that make you happy. I would definitely encourage a counselor. Not to belittle you but to work things out and to move on. Think everyone can use counseling, struggling or not. Really wish the best for you 

[Xosorry 2]

15 minutes ago, Jaybird225 said:

It's very easy for others to judge on what they would do. Unfortunately people can be very manipulative and then years down the road you are in a huge mess and ylu have no idea how you got there. My fiance just moved here recently and I'm struggling with him being irresponsible and it's very challenging. You love the person but you also want and deserve to be happy. 

 

I know it's difficult but try your best to focus on you and your child. Put everything you have into taking care of yourself. Try to do little things that make you happy. I would definitely encourage a counselor. Not to belittle you but to work things out and to move on. Think everyone can use counseling, struggling or not. Really wish the best for you 

I appreciate your kind words, and hope your situation changes for the better. I'm totally aware something is wrong with me to accept certain behaviors and treatment. I'm not ignorant to the fact that I have very little self worth. But again, thank you. ❤️

[NikLR 13,227]

3 hours ago, Xosorry said:

I'M getting counseling. Thank you for the judgement and lack of help. 

I think it's interesting that unless someone dresses up the words like the post after mine, you think someone is being judgemental and unhelpful.  

 

Im glad you're getting help and hope you have a nice life.