I married a US citizen and then came back to the UK, can I re-enter the US on an F-1 student visa?

[zyggymaroo 0]

1 minute ago, Jojo92122 said:

You don't have to apologize.  Recognize what you want is the definition of visa fraud.  Go and get the spousal visa.

Too many other factors.

I will give up and when I'm hospitalised they'll deny me any entry to the country anyway. I didn't want to adjust status I just wanted to study and then come back home

 

Edited May 20, 2017 by zyggymaroo

[zyggymaroo 0]

It seems that I've sealed my own fate with a stupid childish decision and I deserve everything I get as a result.

It was an idiotic question I'm sorry for wasting everyone's time.

[Transborderwife 4,666]

5 minutes ago, zyggymaroo said:

Too many other factors.

I will give up and when I'm hospitalised they'll deny me any entry to the country anyway. I didn't want to adjust status I just wanted to study and then come back home

 

I really think that you should seek mental help for your own good.

[zyggymaroo 0]

30 minutes ago, Transborderwife said:

I really think that you should seek mental help for your own good.

I already have and it isn't working.

Thank you for your concern and kindness though

[Transborderwife 4,666]

Just now, zyggymaroo said:

I already have and it isn't working.

Thank you for your concern and kindness though

Then you need to seek out other options speaking as one who's worked with mental health issues.  If you do have ongoing issues where they're concerned that you could be a threat to yourself or others you can be denied in a medical.  Immigration can wreak havoc on mental health.  Look after you first.  Perhaps he could come to you?

[mlh 93]

3 hours ago, zyggymaroo said:

I visited Spokane WA in December 2016 and got married there to a US citizen. Then I returned to the UK to sort out finances while awaiting a spousal visa.

I felt I needed more direction in life so I started looking at college courses in Spokane and have set my heart on one.

Will my marriage affect my ability to use an F-1 visa and then adjust my status to permanent residency when my studies are completed?

 

38 minutes ago, zyggymaroo said:

Too many other factors.

I will give up and when I'm hospitalised they'll deny me any entry to the country anyway. I didn't want to adjust status I just wanted to study and then come back home

 

I'm confused.  Your very first post says you got married and then returned home to wait for the spousal visa, but then you say you just wanted to study and then come back home.

 

Where is your husband in all of this?  Are you planning to have a long distance relationship forever with him in the states and you in the UK?

[zyggymaroo 0]

2 minutes ago, Transborderwife said:

Then you need to seek out other options speaking as one who's worked with mental health issues.  If you do have ongoing issues where they're concerned that you could be a threat to yourself or others you can be denied in a medical.  Immigration can wreak havoc on mental health.  Look after you first.  Perhaps he could come to you?

That's not an option for a reason I don't want to go into because it'll just make everyone judge me and him poorly. That's why I'm trying to go to him. UK immigration is much quicker... Another reason I've shot myself in the foot...

[Crazy Cat 41,731]

3 hours ago, zyggymaroo said:

Will my marriage affect my ability to use an F-1 visa and then adjust my status to permanent residency when my studies are completed?

 

3 hours ago, zyggymaroo said:

I've read everywhere that spousal visas take much, much longer to process and go through. I don't think I can wait that long

Sorry, but this certainly looks like intent to enter and adjust in a way which is not allowed.  Maybe you should (1)get some help with your issues, (2) start the spousal visa process, and (3)continue your education in the UK while waiting for the legal visa process to take its course.

Edited May 20, 2017 by missileman

[Dianalorena 1,153]

This type of posts always break my heart.

Immigration is an exhausting, long, expensive and emotionally draining process for people who aren't dealing with anxiety, depression and/or health issues. I can't imagine what it would be like if you add that to the mix. I can see why many would try to speed up the process or even find legal loopholes to be with their loved ones sooner. We all wish this was an easier, faster process but it is not the case. I hope OP gets the help needed. 

 

[JFH 12,190]

It takes around 12 weeks for a spouse of a U.K. citizen to immigrate to the U.K. Since the OP has mental health issues I would recommend the husband move to the U.K. as it is not only quicker and easier but it will ensure the OP can receive a continuation of care (on the NHS at no cost to her) which is crucial for effective mental health treatment. Uprooting to another city is not wise with mental health issues as the care would be interrupted but moving to another country would be even worse. I'm not convinced that OP is strong enough to cope with the stress of immigration. 

How much would your treatment cost in the USA? 

 

I'm concerned that you think people will judge you. I'm in Washington state and moved here from the U.K. So far I haven't had any problems with being accepted. Quite the opposite - people are fascinated to hear what life is like in the U.K. and are always telling me how much they would love to see England one day, etc. If you are worried about your relationship being unconventional and people not understanding that - well, we all wear the t-shirt for that. We are here to support one another through the process and in our new and complicated lives beyond the process. It's not easy being an immigrant! 

 

Another thing that intrigues me is that you say " I married a US citizen" and you are thinking of studying in Spokane and returning to the U.K. Seems odd. I've never heard anyone say "I married a US citizen". Most people marry their boyfriend/girlfriend or "the love of my life", "soulmate" etc. It just seems somewhat strange (maybe even cold?) to refer to his nationality. And you don't want to live with him? Are you having second thoughts about the relationship in general? Many of us have experienced that.

Edited May 20, 2017 by JFH

[caliliving 606]

I have a feeling their are ongoing issues with the OP and spouse and perhaps the spouse does NOT want to file for the cr1 at this time so the OP is hoping to go on a F1 visa and 'rekindle' the marriage. If u have issues and ur husband isn't supportive, sorry u need to focus on yourself and your life. If he is not willing tons the cr1 visa, or go visit u in the UK then I suggest i get some help because getting an f1 visa would be fraud. Living far away from ur family and home with no job or income is not going to help ur mental health and the USA does not have a great mental health system especially with no insurance. 

 

I really hope ur able to get the help u need in the uk