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Now the kid is reminding her that she threqw away her Chocolate Easter bunny, and her gingerbread house, and some elves clothing that the kid made...

My kid is scarred for life!

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My friend Ximena is coming over with a much needed bottle of whisky and Pizza.

After a long week that hasn't ended for me (I work weekends) I need a break.

I hope you guys are enjoying some time off, your families and having an overall good time.

 

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➺ 01/07/17 Got married in Cozumel

➺ 02/04/17 Petition mailed 

➺ 02/08/17 Case Assigned to USCIS Nebraska, sigh. 

➺ 02/13/17 We got our NOA1! PD: February 8th 

➺ 12/15/17 NOA2 finally! after 10 1/2 months. 

➺ 12/21/17 NVC confirmed they received our file 

➺ 01/22/18 Documents sent to Rapidvisa 

➺ 02/05/18  NVC received our package 

03/15/18 Case complete! 

06/27/18  We got our Interview date! August 28th 

08/30/18 The package arrived (waited at Juarez)

08/31/18 Entered the U.S with my husband 

➺ 02/13/19 Husband confesses he cheated, leaves

➺ 02/16/19 Husband decides to abandon the marriage

➺ 05/13/19  I am officially divorced. 

 ➺ 07/03/20  I file to remove conditions on my own     

 ➺ 08/13/21 I finally get my biometrics appointment 

➺ 02/26/22 I got my interview assigned: March 31st. 

 

 

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10 hours ago, cdneh said:

Hot. It's like the Many gates of Hades out there.

Number of hellhole gates precised, P-math Eh ma'am.

9 hours ago, N-o-l-a said:

chocolate is my not so secret lover.

Chocolate is one of the major food groups, Nola-B. ma'am.

9 hours ago, N-o-l-a said:

I've gained a pound.

You're eating for two, cheer up Nola-B. ma'am!

9 hours ago, Unidentified said:

French? :P 

Oj tak, M ma'am.

9 hours ago, Unidentified said:

And then there's good food... Chocolate.. Ice cream...

Chocolate = good, M ma'am.

Ice cream = good, M ma'am.

Chocolate ice cream = heaven, M ma'am.

See within, see M ma'am:  http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/382775-mrs-t-b-the-citizenship-test/

 

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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7 hours ago, SAT said:

why because everyone at work has drunk driving records and can't drive?

In Arkansas, you get a ticket if you're driving sober, see man.

3 hours ago, SAT said:

I went to Walgreens with the kid. She got a pack of kit Kat.

When she came home, she rushes to get a ziploc bag, she frantically takes out the kit Kat and puts it in the ziploc.

I asked her what she was doing.

She said that she has to hide it in the fridge before her mom throws it away.

This is heartbreaking, sigh man.

2 hours ago, SAT said:

Now the poor kid has to live in fear of having her stuff thrown out. And she'll become a hoarder...

Counsel her all you can, si man, and see if you can get her some outside counseling if necessary.

2 hours ago, cdneh said:

There is. Compulsive decluttering, likely a manifestation of obsessive-compulsive disorder. I've seen it called obsessive-compulsive spartanism. It is an actual condition. 

We can declutter but typically dislike it, sometimes massively, so what condition do we have, Eh ma'am?

2 hours ago, Dilorena said:

1.  My friend Ximena is coming over with a much needed bottle of whisky and Pizza.

2.  After a long week that hasn't ended for me (I work weekends) I need a break.

Many.  I hope you guys are enjoying some time off, your families and having an overall good time.

1.  Didn't know that pizza came bottled, or that whiskey was pizza-flavored, good ideas both man.

2.  You broke your ankle, whee D2 ma'am!

Many.  We will spend most of the weekend, including Sunday our birthday*, casa-cleaning, sigh man.

 

*we will be precisely Many years old again this year, P-math man

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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Our gamble last weekend paid off, jackpot man.

We gambled by not mowing the lawn, indolent we man.

This was predicated on No Rain either today, Sat., or Sun., how dry we are man.

No Rain today, mow lawn man.

We began at half-plus-half-of-half after Many p.m., most of yard in shadow man.

Job did not kill us, therefore made us stronger man.

Can concentrate on casa-cleaning now, obstacle removed man.

However, no nap this eve, so limited energy for cleaning, need zzz we man.

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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Cat is back on our lap, needy miu man.

Athletic tail has just knocked some office supplies off desk into garbage can, perhaps a providential indicator man.

We have informed cat that Mommy & Little Brother will be back early Monday morn, redeye man.

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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Local supermarket is instituting grocery-delivery, compete with competitors man.

Free delivery plus nearly half off a $Many-or-above (>$2x2x2x2x2+[2x2x2x2+1]) order, hmmm man.

We might try this, need to restock the refrigerator man.

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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Cat is on lap for the Many'rd time this eve, needy miu man.

We massively need zzz, si to zzz we man.

If cat ever gets up, cat prep zzz man.

Mornin'/afternoon/evenin', Commie- and French-speaking and other babes with or without +1 inventories!

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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8 hours ago, N-o-l-a said:

I surprisingly lost weight when my dad was dying.  I am normally an emotional eater, so it was out of character.  Moving back to America is what put the pounds on and last summer's trip to Denmark (10 lbs!). 

When he was dying I didn't eat much because somehow that made me feel guilty. When he was alive I was bugging him to lose weight and exercise for his diabetes and I was walking at least an hour a day. When he died I was like "Why bother?" so the couch and Netflix became my best buddies and I gained about 10 lbs too. 

 

I also think it is because I am eating differently. A lot of the foods in America has a ton of sugar in them (and other #######) and I just need to get into the habit of making everything from scratch. 





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12 hours ago, SAT said:

I went to Walgreens with the kid. She got a pack of kit Kat. 

When she came home, she rushes to get a ziploc bag, she frantically takes out the kit Kat and puts it in the ziploc. 

I asked her what she was doing. 

She said that she has to hide it in the fridge before her mom throws it away. 

 

I feel like choking tiff...

That is the saddest thing I've read in a long time :(

 

Re weight gain, after my husband died I lost a lot of weight, I was literally a walking skeleton, I was eating but still lost weight - since I've moved here I've gained a lot and am now heavier than I've ever been ( still not overweight but about 10lb more than I'd like ), I think it's partly due to the food being very different to what I'm used to ( lots of sugar and stuff ) and partly because I have to drive everywhere - we live in the mountains, 6 miles from the closest store of any kind.

Long and short is I need to find a way to get exercise that isn't going to kill my back because all the work I do outside isn't enough!

Everything crossed for a smooth and stress free journey

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21 minutes ago, trudi said:

That is the saddest thing I've read in a long time :(

 

 we live in the mountains, 6 miles from the closest store of any kind.

 

1- Poor kid's gonna hate her mother. I warned Tiff in a conversation last night.

 

2A- My Godsons live in the Alleghenies in PA. Similar to where you are. 11 Miles to the gas station, which is also the McDonalds...

 

2B- Mountain pics....

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They gotta be kidding me right?

 

First, I missed the deadline for ordering the kid's school  kit for the next grade.

And what the heck, 10 days after the last day of school, the deadline is past??

Then I get on "Build a kit" (A Staples company), and they're out of stock on everything.

OK, so I get on Staples, and they have everything. And it's a painstaking process putting a kit together, and 2 items from finish, the site goes down!!

WT#### ^%#@@$%^*&!

How frustrating....

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