I-129F May 2017 Filers

[PadieNerkBrapone 341]

1 hour ago, Galadriel17 said:

I'm losing hope, still over 200 May 22nd filers left untouched..don't believe I'll hear anything by the end of this month, they will probably just start june filers and leave us to wait like they did to rest of April filers. Feeling so sad today 😞

You are not alone in this.

First, this is a serious situation we are in. This is about our lives and happiness so I don't make light of it and say the following with humility and the utmost respect for all who are enduring this trial. And a trial it is.

 

Ok, if I may suggest...preparation is the best coping mechanism. I've been practicing this for years so know a little about it.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with the way we feel during this trial. Nervous, confused, sad, afraid, anxious, even angry...it's all normal. We should forgive ourselves and embrace it. But, how we respond is the matter of it.

Tell yourself you cannot worry about what you cannot control. Ask yourself, "Have I done all that I can do to aid this process with what I can control?" Feel good about doing your best.

Ask yourself "what is the worst that can happen" or "the worst-case-scenario" and prepare an emotional and practical response to it just in case. I.e. "What will I do if waiting for the NOA2 goes past this month; RFE, Denial?"

Do I have hobbies, fun things, things I like to try, while I wait? We really need to laugh at ourselves. It helps a LOT! Think about and do things that add value to yourself and your relationship.

 

There need to be a certain level of "detachment" from this process in order to go through it with dignity and to prevent time-consuming mistakes. And believe me, being too nervous and emotional causes you to make mistakes like overlooking questions or checkboxes, sending incorrect nfo or marking/signing the wrong place on documents. It also puts unnecessary stress on your relationship when this process should bring you closer together. For me and my Beneficiary, this is the first "serious test" of our relationship. How we handle this will show us how we will handle trying situations in the future. It will also bind us closer together right out the gate. And that's wonderful.

I can see the worry on my fiancee's face. Sometimes it's apparent, sometimes it's buried, but it's there. She would say "I don't feel good about this baby. It's too long." I tell her "I know baby. I feel afraid and nervous. Whatever happens we will go through it together." She smiles because that assures her that the USCIS or Consulate cannot define who we are. We will go through this and we will be together. Being with your Fiance(e) as much as possible (in person if possible, facetime, messenger, etc) is critical. I "tucked" my fiancée in over Facetime and right now I am looking at her sleeping. (oh! She's getting up. toilet time. hahahaha!!)

 

Everyday I have to prepare myself for another day of disappointment before it happens. Everyday I prepare myself for the Approval before it happens. But regardless of what kind of day it will be, I will add value to my life and my relationship because this entire process is for me and my fiancee. Whatever the outcome, we will go through it and triumph together.

I hope this helps and please forgive me if I made presumptions

 

[cjelie 53]

Just checked USCIS website and we were APPROVED! Crying tears of happy joy. No notification on app/email or text message yet.  

 

NOA1: May 30th

NOA2: November 15th (Day 169)

Case Number ending in 46499

[PadieNerkBrapone 341]

23 minutes ago, EilishDJ said:

Day 174 and David and I just got our approval! Notified by text message and email! And of course the mobile network isn’t working right now!!!  So very excited!

Awesome. CONGRATULATIONS!! time for that drink

[PadieNerkBrapone 341]

1 hour ago, Daphney said:

I have one years puting all the side for her,all my opportunity,I have a new good  job waiting me,I had to do that trip one years ago, but for us I didn't, so only lil comprehension, work in team,more interest I wanted from her, I want our relationship work out, but like I was ready to go in her country,she can do the same for me,if she not really interesting in the process. I told  her already all these thing,I think she even bored listen them now , I won't try no more 

I am very sorry about this. Just to be sure, are you the Petitioner or the Beneficiary?

[ChuAni 1,191]

I got this 👇 off my app!

[Melodica256 158]

11 minutes ago, June2017UK said:

Oh darling. Thinking of you x

Thank you. Really really at a low point right now. Luckily I have booked flights to be with my s/o for Christmas.

[PadieNerkBrapone 341]

59 minutes ago, WacMay15 said:

I just got the envelope in the mail and I was Approved 😊😊😊 329361 ...may 15 ..183 no text no phone call....just a mail...i hope everyone get theirs this week .......when should I call the nvc.....do they send  paper work too my fiance for her medical? ......do you guys think she can get her visa before the Hollidays 

GREAT!! Congratulations.

Visa before the holidays is possible but slim. I read someone getting an interview a month after NOA2. Depends on the speed of NVC and Consulate.

[ChuAni 1,191]

[Meech 442]

4 minutes ago, Melodica256 said:

lack of sufficient evidence. currently working on getting all info sorted on my end that needs to be posted

What evidence did you send originally? 

[PadieNerkBrapone 341]

50 minutes ago, Melodica256 said:

Hi all.

Got a letter of intent to deny after 225 days. Currently completing all information. What are the chances of this leading to a NOA2 or leading to a denial?

 

Really anxious.

Sorry about that.

Make sure you do not let emotion cause mistakes. Carefully prepare your documents and maybe let someone look them over for you.

Stay positive and do all you can, as thorough as you can, as quickly as you can.

Be STRONG! Good luck.

[Saharadarkcyan 195]

10 minutes ago, PadieNerkBrapone said:

I am very sorry about this. Just to be sure, are you the Petitioner or the Beneficiary?

The Beneficiary

[M&J2018 48]

16 minutes ago, cjelie said:

Just checked USCIS website and we were APPROVED! Crying tears of happy joy. No notification on app/email or text message yet.  

 

NOA1: May 30th

NOA2: November 15th (Day 169)

Case Number ending in 46499

Congrats dear!!!!! 

[Chris2870 721]

3 minutes ago, Melodica256 said:

Thank you. Really really at a low point right now. Luckily I have booked flights to be with my s/o for Christmas.

So sorry to hear this...Enjoy Christmas together and regroup. I hate to say it, but you may consider canceling the first petition and starting over. From what I understand, the Citizen only gets 2 chances for this type of visa and a denial will take 1 away. That's why they send a letter of intent instead of a denial. That way you can cancel it without penalty and resubmit. 

My Faye and I are still waiting for our NOA2 after an RFE 60 days ago. We may be in the same boat but not sure. We are day 219 ourselves NOA1 April 10. We have discussed contingencies and if we receive a letter of intent to deny I will cancel the K-1 and marry her in the Philippines, then apply the marriage visa route.

[M&J2018 48]

40 minutes ago, EilishDJ said:

Day 174 and David and I just got our approval! Notified by text message and email! And of course the mobile network isn’t working right now!!!  So very excited!

Congrats!!!

[PadieNerkBrapone 341]

4 minutes ago, Daphney said:

The Beneficiary

That's really surprising. She paid over $500 for this. How can she be like this now?