I-129F May 2017 Filers

[JohnAna05823 330]

Just now, OutOfThisWorld said:

Do not bring this up yourself. In the unlikely case someone asks, be ready to explain the discrepancy (for your own piece of mind more than anything else).

 

Parents marriage or absence of thereof is immaterial.

Ok.  Thanks!

[bcoakley06 280]

12 hours ago, Maria1989 said:

Does the USCIS website still say pending for you 

Yes it does 

[Fiammetta 112]

5 hours ago, JohnAna05823 said:

Question:

 

Does USCIS/consulate look at beneficiary's parents wedding date and certificate and stuff?

Why should they do that?

[DollyDolly 278]

Day 172.

 

Im almost expecting this to hit day 200 before we even hear anything. Wouldn't be at all surprised. If we get an RFE for more evidence of meeting in person I will feel crazy. We provided about 8 meetings worth of photos, airline tickets, hotel bookings etc.

 

 

 This is ridiculous.

[Perfect two 💑 1,147]

I would like to seek an opinion. Please don't give hurtful comment. This process is tiring. Now it becomes unexpected from time to time. For example, Processing time - Now it becomes 6 months or might be more than 6 months (we will hit our 6 months on this Monday). My fiance and I keep revised our plan since we plan for him to come here during the interview. RFE - I can see many people received unreasonable RFE this month (things that they already provide but USCIS still asking for it and things that are not included in the list required, but suddenly they ask for it). It makes me worry, what else will happen. And the most thing that worries me is the interview. I'm worried about what will happen if they reject us. This process is not 100% depend on us. It depends on the interviewer too. We can do our best, we can make sure we have a solid case, lots of bona fide relationship evidence, answer all the question truthfully and confident. Still, the final decision is not up to us. The interviewer is also a human. Sometimes they might be affected by the emotion and other factors (I'm not saying that all the interviewer is like that. I know they are professional. It just that, they are still human."

 

Someone might say that, if you guys are really a real couple, you will overcome this obstacle and apply again. However, to be honest. I'm not that strong to go through this process again. I don't want to go through another 6 months without him. It is hard, even now it is so hard. Actually, I have been kicked out of a house by my parents. Now, I'm living alone. To be here without my family around me, did make me feel so lonely. Every time I pass by any places that I visit/hang out with my family, really make me remember them more. And yeah, it did make me cry. Of course, my fiance and I always have a call, message and video call. However, with the 13 hours time difference, it makes things harder. I'm a family oriented person. I spent most of my time with my family. We do lots of activity together. We go out quite frequent (dinner, movie, lunch, shopping and lots more). So now, when I need to be on my own. Doing everything on my own. It really hard. I have friends. But, of course, some of them already married, have a boyfriend and have their own family to spend time with. 

 

I'm trying to be positive. However, I can't stop thinking about it until I able to find a good back up plan if things are not going to be like what we plan. Some of you might ask me to just think positive. However, thinking positive without a backup plan, make me worry that it will be more hurtful and will break me into pieces when that happens. What will you do if your visa doesn't get approved?

[Brittani 484]

This is how I look at it...

Yes, it is very hard but I know without a doubt I have found my soul mate and we have gone through to much to give up now and even if I did try to part ways and find someone closer I would always know that I let my one true love get away and always regret it. Stay strong. This is horrible and most people just don't realize how good they have it.

[Fiammetta 112]

@Perfect two 💑 be strong...it's coming. Think American way... if you think you'll fail you will. But if you daydream about your goal it will became true!

Also...it's just a matter of time, you'll get together again, and this time forever!

Before this 6 months waiting we have had to be apart for other reasons, it was maybe even harder, I don't know what is worse, but we made it, and we will make it this time too!

I'm sure if you love each other it will all come together very soon!  Be happy, there are many people out there that will never find their love, period!

[Shaman 320]

@Perfect two 💑 please, be strong! You'll be together soon, no doubt. You are so close to your dream and you did and had to bare so much for that - you have no right to give up! ✌️✌️ The hardest stage seems to be the uscis approval - and you're almost done with it (your approval hard copy may already be on it's way 😉) 

to stay busy and positive - start getting ready for the next stage and collect all the documents for the interview, think about moving and what you might take with you and where the rest of your belongings go 😉😉✌️✌️

 

[Naes 12,205]

57 minutes ago, Perfect two 💑 said:

I would like to seek an opinion. Please don't give hurtful comment. This process is tiring. Now it becomes unexpected from time to time. For example, Processing time - Now it becomes 6 months or might be more than 6 months (we will hit our 6 months on this Monday). My fiance and I keep revised our plan since we plan for him to come here during the interview. RFE - I can see many people received unreasonable RFE this month (things that they already provide but USCIS still asking for it and things that are not included in the list required, but suddenly they ask for it). It makes me worry, what else will happen. And the most thing that worries me is the interview. I'm worried about what will happen if they reject us. This process is not 100% depend on us. It depends on the interviewer too. We can do our best, we can make sure we have a solid case, lots of bona fide relationship evidence, answer all the question truthfully and confident. Still, the final decision is not up to us. The interviewer is also a human. Sometimes they might be affected by the emotion and other factors (I'm not saying that all the interviewer is like that. I know they are professional. It just that, they are still human."

 

Someone might say that, if you guys are really a real couple, you will overcome this obstacle and apply again. However, to be honest. I'm not that strong to go through this process again. I don't want to go through another 6 months without him. It is hard, even now it is so hard. Actually, I have been kicked out of a house by my parents. Now, I'm living alone. To be here without my family around me, did make me feel so lonely. Every time I pass by any places that I visit/hang out with my family, really make me remember them more. And yeah, it did make me cry. Of course, my fiance and I always have a call, message and video call. However, with the 13 hours time difference, it makes things harder. I'm a family oriented person. I spent most of my time with my family. We do lots of activity together. We go out quite frequent (dinner, movie, lunch, shopping and lots more). So now, when I need to be on my own. Doing everything on my own. It really hard. I have friends. But, of course, some of them already married, have a boyfriend and have their own family to spend time with. 

 

I'm trying to be positive. However, I can't stop thinking about it until I able to find a good back up plan if things are not going to be like what we plan. Some of you might ask me to just think positive. However, thinking positive without a backup plan, make me worry that it will be more hurtful and will break me into pieces when that happens. What will you do if your visa doesn't get approved?

I'm scared. Every single day. I was scared my nationality will cause a problem, my fathers name being a religious name may cause a problem, we decided soon to get married and that will cause a problem. I started this forum too late and realized depending on this forums posts I put too much evidence - which is obviously called front loading- and that will cause a problem etc etc etc... we are real. As real as it gets. But I'm scared there's nothing I can do.

 I am scared everytime I go to the poe even before this relationship. Cause we live in a world where sometimes what we say doesn't count. 

 

But, overthinking just cause us to make mistakes. In relationships it causes fights for no reason other than what we thought might have happen. 

In reality, you are going to deal with it when it happens. 

 

It is tiring, but I am believing in people's proffessionality. These people look so cold- hearted and cool. But that may as well be a good thing for our cases. And for our futures when we live in a country that obviously calls for fraud.

 

you will believe in yourself and your relationship. If you came this far, even though you were away from your family who you love so much,  that means it's worth it. That means there is a reason that you believe in you and your relationship. 

 

You will be strong for a little more. Because, you are trying to get to someone, even though you are 13 hours apart, you are spending maybe sleepless nights just to be able to talk with. 

 

So head up. Stay strong. It is taking time but it will end.

 

we have a saying in Turkey; you swam and swam and now you are at the tail of it. You are literally holding the tail right now! So hold on for a little longer and you'll be there. And your biggest problem then will be -at least for a moment there-what color of curtain to buy for your new living room. 

[Perfect two 💑 1,147]

1 hour ago, Brittani said:

This is how I look at it...

Yes, it is very hard but I know without a doubt I have found my soul mate and we have gone through to much to give up now and even if I did try to part ways and find someone closer I would always know that I let my one true love get away and always regret it. Stay strong. This is horrible and most people just don't realize how good they have it.

I don't want to lose him either. I hope that we will get an approval on the first application so that we don't need to go through this again. 

[Perfect two 💑 1,147]

40 minutes ago, Fiammetta said:

@Perfect two 💑 be strong...it's coming. Think American way... if you think you'll fail you will. But if you daydream about your goal it will became true!

Also...it's just a matter of time, you'll get together again, and this time forever!

Before this 6 months waiting we have had to be apart for other reasons, it was maybe even harder, I don't know what is worse, but we made it, and we will make it this time too!

I'm sure if you love each other it will all come together very soon!  Be happy, there are many people out there that will never find their love, period!

I keep dreaming about we will get an approval. I keep dreaming about our future together. Because of that, I'm afraid that it will hurt me more if it didn't go as what we plan. Yeah, 6 months waiting is crazy. I really hope we will get an approval for the application so that we don't need to go through this again. I will try to be strong. 

[Perfect two 💑 1,147]

33 minutes ago, Shaman said:

@Perfect two 💑 please, be strong! You'll be together soon, no doubt. You are so close to your dream and you did and had to bare so much for that - you have no right to give up! ✌️✌️ The hardest stage seems to be the uscis approval - and you're almost done with it (your approval hard copy may already be on it's way 😉) 

to stay busy and positive - start getting ready for the next stage and collect all the documents for the interview, think about moving and what you might take with you and where the rest of your belongings go 😉😉✌️✌️

 

Thank you so much @Shaman . I hope that too! Hopefully, our NOA2 is on its way. I can't wait to schedule the interview and packing all my things because we were planning we will fly back to the States together after we got our approval.

[Perfect two 💑 1,147]

17 minutes ago, Naes said:

I'm scared. Every single day. I was scared my nationality will cause a problem, my fathers name being a religious name may cause a problem, we decided soon to get married and that will cause a problem. I started this forum too late and realized depending on this forums posts I put too much evidence - which is obviously called front loading- and that will cause a problem etc etc etc... we are real. As real as it gets. But I'm scared there's nothing I can do.

 I am scared everytime I go to the poe even before this relationship. Cause we live in a world where sometimes what we say doesn't count. 

 

But, overthinking just cause us to make mistakes. In relationships it causes fights for no reason other than what we thought might have happen. 

In reality, you are going to deal with it when it happens. 

 

It is tiring, but I am believing in people's proffessionality. These people look so cold- hearted and cool. But that may as well be a good thing for our cases. And for our futures when we live in a country that obviously calls for fraud.

 

you will believe in yourself and your relationship. If you came this far, even though you were away from your family who you love so much,  that means it's worth it. That means there is a reason that you believe in you and your relationship. 

 

You will be strong for a little more. Because, you are trying to get to someone, even though you are 13 hours apart, you are spending maybe sleepless nights just to be able to talk with. 

 

So head up. Stay strong. It is taking time but it will end.

 

we have a saying in Turkey; you swam and swam and now you are at the tail of it. You are literally holding the tail right now! So hold on for a little longer and you'll be there. And your biggest problem then will be -at least for a moment there-what color of curtain to buy for your new living room. 

Oh wow, Naes. Thank you for your reply. You make me cry by reading it. After I read that,  I realized that I'm scared about lots of things. Until I forgot, the reason why I getting scared is that because I love him with all my heart. I always want to be with him and I don't want to be without him. I will try to stay strong.

[Omgsendhalp 15]

I think this process is seriously beginning to affect most of us honestly. When we were deciding to do K-1 or Cr-1 K1 was 6 months shorter in processing now they are the same. Noone entered expecting it to be this long so everyone's expectations have been shattered but we all just have to hang in there no matter how tired of the distance we are  

[plyn1209 149]

Love wins 💪💪💪