Advise needed

[Amiss5572 2]

So my fiance is having some major doubts and it's starting to really worry me. He had a ticket to move here in 3 weeks. I love this man and there is no doubt about that. But the way he had been acting the last several weeks is mind boggling. I just think this should be a very happy time for us but he is constantly going back and forth to the point where I'm not sure if he's coming. He is all over the place.. He has told me he is excited to be with me and wants to start a life, that he can't wait to leave his mom because she drives him crazy, he dosnt belong in his country, all of his things he is leaving dosnt matter because he can buy more, etc. Then he does a complete 180 and will say the exact opposite to all those things. I'm very confused and not sure how I can help him. He then pushes me away and dosnt communicate well and then we have an even harder time. I reassure him and tell him he will be happy here. I have already found a job for him even. Apart of me thinks I just can't keep doing this for the next 3 weeks. So then I also thought that maybe I should visit his country. We can then actually talk and work things through. Does all of this sound insane and like I should just stop trying? Has anyone else gone through similar during the coming weeks to move? I really have no idea what he's going through but at the same time we have always been very close and I feel that things have become distant with his pushing me away. 

[QueenComley 295]

Look at it from his perspective... he is leaving the only life he knows and moving to a different country. This of course is very exciting but at the same time must be utterly terrifying. I see no need to fly to him...his tickets are for 3 weeks time. Hold on and sit tight. He will be with you soon enough and you can work through things then. If he decides not to come then it wasn't meant to be.