what do you think?

[SairaandCorinna 0]

Hi All,

 

Please feel free to move this post to wherever it suits best.

 

Me and my gf are wanting to start the K1 visa process in the next month or two. We have two concerns and although I have spent time looking through this site and elsewhere I can’t seem to find an answer that alleviates my concerns.

 

1)     we’re both women and she is currently married. She has been separated for 8 years and her and her husband remained married for no other reason than convenienice and I suppose benefits. However they have a decent relationship and have filed for divorce. They are due at court on 10th May at what time we expect it all to be finalised… so my question is – does this seem like a problem? That she would go from recent divorcee to filing for a fiancé visa? What do you think?

2)     I am a British citizen however I come from a strict Muslim background. Currently they do not know about my gf but I will definitely be telling them soon (the guilt is killing me) However I already know I can’t expect any support from them. None whatsoever from any single one of them – again would this be a problem? I’ve met her mum, sister, sister in law, kids, nephews, boss, best friends etc. All who would be willing to vouch for us, should the need arise but other than a few best friends of mine I can’t expect anyone would do anything to help me.

 

I really look forward to your responses as I’m beginning to feel so stressed out and the process hasn’t even begun!!

[Ben&Zian 4,398]

1 hour ago, SairaandCorinna said:

Hi All,

 

Please feel free to move this post to wherever it suits best.

 

Me and my gf are wanting to start the K1 visa process in the next month or two. We have two concerns and although I have spent time looking through this site and elsewhere I can’t seem to find an answer that alleviates my concerns.

 

1)     we’re both women and she is currently married. She has been separated for 8 years and her and her husband remained married for no other reason than convenienice and I suppose benefits. However they have a decent relationship and have filed for divorce. They are due at court on 10th May at what time we expect it all to be finalised… so my question is – does this seem like a problem? That she would go from recent divorcee to filing for a fiancé visa? What do you think? This happens more than you may think honestly. Divorces and all take time so some people have been apart for 2-3 years and moved on to other relationships. She has to be legally/officially divorced before submitting the petition for the I-129f or it could come back and be rejected. One of the two things needed to file are "Meet in person within 2 years" and "Be free and legally able to marry".

2)     I am a British citizen however I come from a strict Muslim background. Currently they do not know about my gf but I will definitely be telling them soon (the guilt is killing me) However I already know I can’t expect any support from them. None whatsoever from any single one of them – again would this be a problem? I’ve met her mum, sister, sister in law, kids, nephews, boss, best friends etc. All who would be willing to vouch for us, should the need arise but other than a few best friends of mine I can’t expect anyone would do anything to help me. Going through the UK embassy, I don't think this will come into play too much. At certain embassies in other countries this could cause conflict but not in your case I don't believe. If it is a concern then you should search here about front loading your petition (again don't think it is necessary but maybe help put your mind at ease), and then when you get to the interview level make sure to take in lots of ongoing relationship material (not for a while so don't worry).

 

I really look forward to your responses as I’m beginning to feel so stressed out and the process hasn’t even begun!!

 

[Cyberfx1024 7,980]

It should not be a problem that she will be recently divorced and then file for you to come over. I did the same thing with my wife actually. I got divroced and then I filed literally 3 months later for my then fiance now wife to come. All they(USCIS) wants to see is the divorce paperwork showing that she has a legal right to marry again. 

 

I agree with B&Z on this as well about that not having a say on your petition. While in other parts of the world it could/would be a sign that could cause problems. That usually does not happen with the UK so you should be fine so don't worry more than you should be. We understand here that it is a tough and stressful situation because we have gone through it ourselves, so we are here to help with any questions or comments. 

[SairaandCorinna 0]

44 minutes ago, Ben&Zian said:

 

That you so much for your reply!

We definitely wouldn’t submit a thing without her divorce all being finalised.  So we would wait until she can remarry and we’re lucky enough that we’ve already met twice this year so we fulfill that criteria too.

 

[SairaandCorinna 0]

33 minutes ago, cyberfx1024 said:

It should not be a problem that she will be recently divorced and then file for you to come over. I did the same thing with my wife actually. I got divroced and then I filed literally 3 months later for my then fiance now wife to come. All they(USCIS) wants to see is the divorce paperwork showing that she has a legal right to marry again. 

 

I agree with B&Z on this as well about that not having a say on your petition. While in other parts of the world it could/would be a sign that could cause problems. That usually does not happen with the UK so you should be fine so don't worry more than you should be. We understand here that it is a tough and stressful situation because we have gone through it ourselves, so we are here to help with any questions or comments. 

Thank you for the reassurance. It really is very stressful because on a personal level I hate that she can't be included in this part of my life but then if it were to interfere in our potential future too, that's scary and pretty sad too. Thank you so much 

[Wuozopo 4,293]

20 hours ago, SairaandCorinna said:

Hi All,

 

Please feel free to move this post to wherever it suits best.

 

Me and my gf are wanting to start the K1 visa process in the next month or two. We have two concerns and although I have spent time looking through this site and elsewhere I can’t seem to find an answer that alleviates my concerns.

 

1)     we’re both women and she is currently married. She has been separated for 8 years and her and her husband remained married for no other reason than convenienice and I suppose benefits. However they have a decent relationship and have filed for divorce. They are due at court on 10th May at what time we expect it all to be finalised… so my question is – does this seem like a problem? That she would go from recent divorcee to filing for a fiancé visa? What do you think?

2)     I am a British citizen however I come from a strict Muslim background. Currently they do not know about my gf but I will definitely be telling them soon (the guilt is killing me) However I already know I can’t expect any support from them. None whatsoever from any single one of them – again would this be a problem? I’ve met her mum, sister, sister in law, kids, nephews, boss, best friends etc. All who would be willing to vouch for us, should the need arise but other than a few best friends of mine I can’t expect anyone would do anything to help me.

 

I really look forward to your responses as I’m beginning to feel so stressed out and the process hasn’t even begun!!

 

1. As long as she is free to marry when you apply, then you meet the requirement.

 

2. From London experience, you will not have to prove relationship or provide additional evidence of it at your interview. You won't have to convince them that any family and friends are delighted with your plans. The one thing to plan for is that the strong Muslim connection could trigger an extended security evaluation. In the past it has taken an additional 4-8 weeks average following the interview. So don't make any travel/marriage plans until the visa is in your hand because you stand a chance to be delayed visa issuance, even if you are told at the interview that you are approved. 

Edited April 6, 2017 by Wuozopo

[SairaandCorinna 0]

8 minutes ago, Wuozopo said:

 

1. As long as she is free to marry when you apply, then you meet the requirement.

 

2. From London experience, you will not have to prove relationship or provide additional evidence of it at your interview. You won't have to convince them that any family and friends are delighted with your plans. The one thing to plan for is that the strong Muslim connection could trigger an extended security evaluation. In the past it has taken an additional 4-8 weeks average following the interview. So don't make any travel/marriage plans until the visa is in your hand because you stand a chance to be delayed visa issuance, even if you are told at the interview that you are approved. 

Thank you for your answers.

 

Would I have to go through the additional security if I was born and raised in London? 

[Wuozopo 4,293]

1 hour ago, SairaandCorinna said:

Thank you for your answers.

 

Would I have to go through the additional security if I was born and raised in London? 

 

It could depend on where your parents were born and raised as well, visits to certain countries, a very common surname. Many factors really. It is not a given but something to have in mind so you aren't devasted if your visa doesn't issue in the week following  the interview.  It won't get you denied, but a slight possibility of a little longer than average wait. Really just a head's up to not book a flight prior to receiving the visa and passport.