Sponsored husband may have been cheating

[Suss&Camm 2,213]

23 minutes ago, Chardon Ne' said:

I am no marriage counselor so I will not attempt to tell a grown person what they should or should not do. Do what you need to do to make yourself feel better if it means reporting said spouse then do so. Whether or not it will work is another story but no one here can tell you what they think an IO will say or do. They are also human and you never know you may get an IO who is going through the same thing and is sympathetic to your situation.

Well, since an IO is suppose to follow the law, It's not too hard to have a guess - sympathetic or not, they can't circumvent the law

 

23 minutes ago, Chardon Ne' said:

I love how ppl like to play marriage counselor or psychologist but not everyone responds to stress the same way. Some ppl have issues with anxiety and can only relax if they do something. If that is what you need to do then do it. There is no law that says you cant. Let USCIS tell you it wont work.

She asked ppl here what can be done about his immigration status. From the facts provided there is nothing. Going about reporting would therefore in all likelihood just be a waste of time for her and for USCIS. This is at least what I was trying to get across, and I think also most others from reading their answers. It seems reasonably logical to make an assessment of the work input vs. the result output, before going out of one's way and investing time and emotion into putting such a report together.

 

23 minutes ago, Chardon Ne' said:

It is a subjective thing and if you can prove that he was communicating with other women prior to your marriage, they may make an inference (which is what they mostly do) and agree with you that the marriage was not in good faith. i personally know someone who experienced a similar situation to yours and he is now sitting in his home country GC revoked.  Sometimes moving on means taking action. Some ppl cannot even hold it together while they wait for this process even though it is out of their control, so be careful from whom you take advice. 

That's the thing, from the info provided by the OP, there is no evidence from prior to the marriage.

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20 hours ago, Ebunoluwa said:

 

No that is cheating and not fraud. Fraud would be email evidence stating something like : I only married you (her) to obtain a
green card.

From a legal standpoint, chatting to someone online is not cheating.  Many people will argue up and down that it is, and from a moral standpoint I may lose that argument.  But unless they actually met up and committed adultery, it's legally not cheating. 

 

OP, IMO it's in bad taste for sure but like others have already said it's a waste of energy and time to worry about this.   For the sake of your daughter, move on. 

Edited April 6, 2017 by Cruise77

[myheart0628 30]

I work in the domestic violence family counseling field. If you fear for your safety and feel threatened and he has assaulted you, you should go and get an EPO, Emergency Protection Order. From what you said , he will probably try to run. If he doesn't show up he will indefinitely be charged.Domestic violence is grounds for removal for LPRs. Also failure to pay child support can result in jail time. 

Edited April 6, 2017 by myheart0628