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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Tunisia
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My fiance and I arrived in US in July 2016.  Since we have come my fiance has gone crazy with his consumption of alcohol.  In Tunisia it was not easy in his town to get alcohol so this freedom is new.  I lived with my fiance in Tunisia for 2 years before arriving in US.  We had strong discussion that he would not hang at bars by himself that only single people did this.  Within the first week he was in a bar when I thought he was at the store.  This is the beginning of a severe problem.  He is now every few days sneaking and buying alcohol from the store or going to bars.  After drinking he becomes very loud, aggressive and abusive.  The next day is apologetic and so sorry.  Then the same event happens a few days later.  I am tired of this scenario and would like to cancel the Visa and AOS.  It has been 8 months and the situation just keeps getting more severe.  He started a new job last Monday and he could not attend work this Tuesday because he was out all night at the bar and too drunk.  When I attempted to get him to go to work he started screaming and hitting me. He has taken my car multiple times while drunk and kept it out for 8 hours at a time leaving me stranded.   I have tried to get him to seek help and his family has tried to communicate to him to get help for his drinking or emotional problem.  He refuses to respond to his family at all.  I cannot handle being responsible for him any longer with this Visa. He even tells me he will have me killed if I try to have him returned to his country.   Can anyone advise what steps I need to take to get my life back and have the visa cancelled?

Edited by Debbie R
Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Wales
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K1 is a sinle entry visa, and as he has entered it is no more.

 

Assuming you are in the process of adjusting his status you can pull the I 864 which will stop that process.

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Ecuador
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Thread is moved from the K-1 Process forum to the AOS/Family-Based main forum -- OP is at the latter stage.

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Norway
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First of all, remove yourself from the situation. Take the necessary pre-cautions to stay safe. Initiate divorce proceedings and contact the USCIS to withdraw your affidavit of support for him. Without your support, he will be illegally present in the US - but you can't deport him/have him sent home.

If it isn't difficult, it isn't worth it.

 

K1 process

9/24/15: I129f sent

9/30/15: NOA1

11/2/15: NOA2

Delayed processing due to work

3/15/16: Medical

4/28/16: Interview (approved)

Delayed entry due to work

8/12/16: POE Detroit

 

9/4/16: Wedding!

 

AOS process:

9/9/16: I485/I131/I765 sent

9/14/16: Received 3xNOAs by text/e-mail (day 2)

9/14-18/16: Received 3xpaper NOAs 

9/23/16: Received biometrics appointment letter (day 11)

10/3/16: Biometrics appointment (day 19)

11/4/16: EAD+AP approved (day 53)

11/16/16: EAD status changed to card shipped (day 65)

11/17/16: EAD/AP combo card received (day 66)

12/30/16: Notice of interview scheduled (day 109)

2/1/17: AOS interview (day 142) - APPROVED

2/8/17: GC received (day 150)

 

ROC process:

11/3/2018: ROC window opens

 
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