Broke single mom wanting to move... where?

[jjbandero 39]

3 hours ago, Ontarkie said:

One thing to consider, since it sounds like the ex is the father to at least one of the kids. If that is the case she may not be able to move just anywhere. 

 

Do you have it in your custody agreement that you can move and even cross state lines? I know a few ppl who had no clue they couldn't move to the next city without their ex's permission. 

 

If you can indeed move I'd start looking into programs for the care you need for your child. Then start looking at what assistance is offered in that area. Facebook group for the health needs your child has would be a good start to find resources. 

 

Really sensible advice here, you don't want to just move without checking if you can, it could get you into legal trouble. If you are able to move, then you can make a list of factors that are important to you and your kids such as, good disability social services, employment prospects, safety, availability of public transportation, cost of living etc. to help you narrow places down. What kind of work are you qualified to do? 

[Angel&Eric 185]

an earlier post recommended Wichita, KS, from an affordability standpoint that may be good, but from a services standpoint probably one of the worst.  I lived in KS for over 20 years, not much in the way of services.  California is quite the opposite, not good on affordability, but cant be beat on services.

 

There are some fairly affordable areas in California, stay away from the Bay Area, Coast, and Southern parts and it can be affordable.  Central Valley or Northern California would be a good option.