Suicide note?

[Marco&Bettina 502]

13 hours ago, rcripps said:

Counseling for the two of you and therapy for the depression for her. If she self harms or suicide attempts then dial 911 and let them handle it. Watch out for domestic abuse and violence charges since she had a bunch of bruises on her. I am speaking from experience on an ex-wife situation who is BPD and HPD. 

I thought about that too but just forgot to mention it. Thanks for saying.

[MeAlone 161]

1 hour ago, trudi said:

I'm gobsmacked at some of the responses, suicidal thoughts and intent is not 'misbehaving'

 

It is a clear indication of how unhappy she is, I doubt that she wants to feel this way and a bunch of strangers suggesting that she has no right to her feelings is ludicrous - she is clearly deeply unhappy and no one has the right to judge the validity of her feelings.

 

OP please get her the help and support she needs and to everyone who is sitting in judgement I sincerely hope that if you or anyone you love ever  feels so desperate they contemplate taking their own life they find compassion and support not condemnation.

are you a doctor? Did you see the lady to diagnose her? And yes, it could be the real depression or the real manipulation and misbehaving specially if the lady can control herself in her own country. But I don't know her and I am not her doctor either. Yet we all know stories about VAWA and Domestic Violence accusations. All I said, it's to take her to the professional and to watch out if it's real sickness or manipulation. Not judging anybody

Tasha

[Marco&Bettina 502]

5 hours ago, EricTasha said:

Ah, also, please ask her family members or herself if she has the suicidal history or depression treatment history in her country. Usually in her country people like her behave normal as they know, they can be lock up in a very strong medical mental institution but coming to the western countries, they also know here are human right, everybody is caring and polite, so they just stop controlling themselves and try to manipulate the people around them. If this is the case, ask her and yourself, why she can control herself and be normal in her home country and why this misbehaving in US?

You are way off base and clearly do not understand people with mental health needs. I'm not even gonna bother to dismantle your post but it is just plain wrong. OK, maybe I will bold the errors.

 

As if the behavior is optional. I'm sorry but your post is disgusting!

[Ontarkie 14,237]

~~Enough advice has been given. The OP stated that he will be seeking help for the two of them. As the thread has turned to attack the victim it is now locked. OP you can start a new thread to update after counseling.~