Wedding photos a must during interview

[Pakapoa 0]

Hello guys. So I was talking to a friend about my husband and she asked about the big wedding day. I told her the wedding will be later with the reception in another country. She then proceeded to ask me if we had any photos from our wedding day at the court house. And I don't. I didn't know you can take pictures there first of all. I had photos in my phone of us going out together back then, but then my phone is a blackberry and you only get 10 chances to enter the password or it will completely erase all data and reset it self. Some kid was playing with my phone and ended up using all 10 chances and there goes our anniversary pics. Also both me and my man gained weight and he hates taking photos. My friend says pictures are a MUST. We leave together, insurance together, bank accounts together. must I have pictures?

[Dianalorena 1,153]

hey there!

 

From my understanding, pictures are considered secondary evidence  All the things you have seem to have more weight  (sorry no pun intended!)

I know how you feel, I'm not that fond of pictures, but having something to ''show for the time you spend together/traveling together will also benefit you. What else do you have that shows an ongoing relationship? How long have you two been married? kids? Maybe there are photos of you two spending time with family/friends, that others have taken? i'd contact them to see if that's an option. Besides that, you can always have everything else on the list and explain why there aren't a lot of photos of you two together, since many couples aren't into that anyway.  Or actually have some taken, (at least in group activities) if it worries you, just a suggestion. Good luck! 

[Pakapoa 0]

Thank you for the quick reply. I did go to a friend's wedding with him and got some photos they are in Facebook. He really hates taking pictures though. And so do I. Especially now I cut my hair and am fat. 

[SparklePony 238]

Weight gain/loss, different hair cuts, none of that matters. People change their appearance all the time. If you have photos taken at social events with friends and/or family, that also counts as it shows you are indeed living together and attending social events as a couple. However, as has been said before, photos are secondary evidence.