I-129F March 2017 Filers

[TearsOfBabylon 1,680]

Thank you for sharing @pajobra!!!
I need to train him better, haha!

Nah, seriously. I'm loving THE hyper introvert. He's refusing to express feelings on social media/chat.
I do respect that, and I can deal with it very well, since I'm the least girlish girl ever. 
I had to get used to that first, but now it totally works for me, AND I can read between the lines!

So... since no one in charge for my visa can read between his lines, I will keep it with facetime call logs since January, one screenshot of each FaceTime since last week and some pics together from before.

I hope it will be enough. But, since they actually just want proof of an ongoing relationship, this must be proof enough. 

[TearsOfBabylon 1,680]

1 minute ago, KozmicBlues said:

Lol I'm so intrigued by what you consider "weird communication."

 

See further up.

Him whining for help, because his pumpkin is coming, all his precious free time is gonna be gone, I'll steal food of his plate, break things (I'm clumsy... and yes, I break things ), I'm getting blamed for having thrown away all his forks exept for one, because I hated them (that's a lie - he lost all of them!!! )..... and so on.

We don't text whiny lovey dovey things (I wish, just for the evidence lol ), we just send stupid memes around, pics of random things we do or see, and then pick on each other for the heavy burden we carry, loving each other!

Another example:
We accidentally met the girl, who talked me into accepting meeting him in real (I have avoided that for 1,25 years!!! because I was planning on staying single until I'm old grey). 

Me: "Oh look, there's Bine!!! (funnywise her name is like mine). She's partly responsible for us being here right now!"
Him: - handshakes her "Now I know who I can blame for my misery!"


lol well, that's our way of goofing things up!

So..... we are total weirdos, and I love and enjoy that. But if anyone ever wants our chats.... we're screwed lol 

[Eric&Olya 881]

4 minutes ago, KozmicBlues said:

 

We text a lot but most of our texts are just whiney/cheesy "I love you" and "I miss you" really to the point where it would probably be embarrassing if anyone were to ever read our chats. haha. But I'm just going to screenshot a few conversations per month also..maybe one or two per week. Gonna take your advice though and try to look for ones that have something meaningful to show us discussing our future plans and such. 

We don't have a lot of whiney and cheesy stuff but we have a lot of inside jokes. I am not going to include something like "there is a nail in my head" 

[TearsOfBabylon 1,680]

Just now, Eric&Olya said:

We don't have a lot of whiney and cheesy stuff but we have a lot of inside jokes. I am not going to include something like "there is a nail in my head" 

I know right??

"Can't it be fall already?"
"Please no! My escape plan isn't finished yet!!!"

[Eric&Olya 881]

1 minute ago, TearsOfBabylon said:

I know right??

"Can't it be fall already?"
"Please no! My escape plan isn't finished yet!!!"

What do they say - Absence makes the heart grow fonder? I think goofiness makes the absence easier to tolerate

[TearsOfBabylon 1,680]

5 minutes ago, Eric&Olya said:

What do they say - Absence makes the heart grow fonder? I think goofiness makes the absence easier to tolerate

Yeah... that's just the way we are.
He just got up for work and I texted him a) I love the way we are, and b) we're screwed AND IT'S ALL HIS FAULT lol

We are used to be apart, we are used to be happy together... too  much sugarcoating would make it unbearable for me.
Plus, not being so "overly missing" will make it easier to deal with his job. Army is no fun for being a spouse. He has 12 hours workdays, he will be gone on trainings, or even deployments... 
Sweet talking all day would drive me nuts. 
So we goof over the time and then hug and be united forever... or at least until the army makes him go somewhere.  

[Eric&Olya 881]

35 minutes ago, pajobra said:

HA thats awesome.

 

Our convo this morning started off with him saying

 

him - I miss you

 

me - I miss you too so very much

 

him - I know you will be here

 

me - yes

 

him - It will be so much better then

 

me - yes yes it will be

 

him - what have you been thinking about this morning?

 

me - About our first meeting in Rapid City.

 

him - Rapid City was magical

 

me - it was and you are

 

him - so our you. Our relationship has continued being magical-better and better

 

me - oh yes my darling

 

And from there on it got a bit um yes anyway hahahaha until he had to get up and have a shower and go to work. I am off work today. lol

That's who will have no problem using screenshots to prove an ongoing relationship! 

[TearsOfBabylon 1,680]

1 minute ago, Eric&Olya said:

That's who will have no problem using screenshots to prove an ongoing relationship! 

I couldn't agree more!

[pajobra 1,395]

Just now, Eric&Olya said:

That's who will have no problem using screenshots to prove an ongoing relationship! 

Ha I suppose not. My Chris is very romantic. Course I am bad and send him a naughty text while I know he is about to go to a work meeting. He will text me back after and say damn woman I had to find me a binder. HAHAHAHA its our running joke.

[TearsOfBabylon 1,680]

Just now, pajobra said:

Ha I suppose not. My Chris is very romantic. Course I am bad and send him a naughty text while I know he is about to go to a work meeting. He will text me back after and say damn woman I had to find me a binder. HAHAHAHA its our running joke.

lol if I did that, Scott would assume I'm drunk lol

[pajobra 1,395]

Just now, TearsOfBabylon said:

lol if I did that, Scott would assume I'm drunk lol

Oh my.

 

I guess its just the way we are. This was a convo a couple weeks ago in the morning:

 

him - good morning beautiful

me - good morning darling

him - did you sleep well?

me - I did darling. How about you?

him - I did  Had dreams of us living our life together.

me - awww those are great dreams

him - they are

[TearsOfBabylon 1,680]

Just now, pajobra said:

Oh my.

 

I guess its just the way we are. This was a convo a couple weeks ago in the morning:

 

him - good morning beautiful

me - good morning darling

him - did you sleep well?

me - I did darling. How about you?

him - I did  Had dreams of us living our life together.

me - awww those are great dreams

him - they are

That's so sweet!

You'll be so happy together!

 

[pajobra 1,395]

Just now, TearsOfBabylon said:

That's so sweet!

You'll be so happy together!

 

I believe so for sure. I have never been married and he was married. He only got divorced two years ago because his ex-wife cheated on him which some guy online.  He said their marriage wasn't going well anyway because he was working all the time to try and keep the household going. I at the time of this happening had been his friend for a couple years and friends only. I was his confidant. He actually thought I was a lesbian because I was in an online relationship at the time with a person that used a female avatar online but was really a male in RL unbeknownst to anyone but me. lol So after their divorce we were still great friends and he would come online and tell me all about his rl dating woes and last year he said can we talk talk on voice. I said sure and the moment I heard his voice I knew I loved him. We talked about how we were both tired of dating and he said he would never ever get married again because it causes heartache. A week later we admitted we had had feelings for the last year or so of our friendship and started talking more and more and finally met and I knew the moment I met him that he was the one for me.

 

To be honest I never thought a relationship could be this wonderful. He completes me. My Mum loves him as do my brother and sister. My grandpa told me the other day when I visited him that he was so happy for me because Chris was a very nice guy and he could tell that after their big chat a couple months ago when they met. My grandpa is blind.

[Alysia&Luis 522]

I have to add in addition to modern technology and communicating with our loved once this forum is also a sanity saver!! It really is nice to be able to talk to other going through a similar situation as you. There is my sap post for you all today

 

For our convos, we talk mostly throughout the day on FB messenger and then have nightly calls. I tried to find one a week that was more on the side of future plans or things like that - my basic rules for the screenshots were no cussing or saying "bad" things about USCIS lol 

[Eric&Olya 881]

9 minutes ago, TearsOfBabylon said:

Yeah... that's just the way we are.
He just got up for work and I texted him a) I love the way we are, and b) we're screwed AND IT'S ALL HIS FAULT lol

We are used to be apart, we are used to be happy together... too  much sugarcoating would make it unbearable for me.
Plus, not being so "overly missing" will make it easier to deal with his job. Army is no fun for being a spouse. He has 12 hours workdays, he will be gone on trainings, or even deployments... 
Sweet talking all day would drive me nuts. 
So we goof over the time and then hug and be united forever... or at least until the army makes him go somewhere.  

Yeah, in your situation a good sence of humour is vital, and you sound like a perfect match