My Wife (green card) and father want her deported

[f f 725]

no I still think my statement is correct if his wife gets a false claim against her then he and she are in a world of hurt. she by potentially being removed if the crime sticks and he by having to deal with both sides.

[Shiobhan 235]

3 hours ago, detechnohd said:

My name is Yuriy, and i have a situation here. my wife came to usa with k-1 visa as fiance. We married and everything. enjoying our live but my parents that live in usa dont like our relationship and etc. few weeks ago we almost divorced with my wife because she could not take my family no more but after a talk to my family , told them to leave us alone. my father now saying he will send letter to immigration to deport my wife because "quote quote we having bad relationship" . my question to you what they will do if he sends it? she had a green card already. thx . we love each other me and my wife and she came here with no fraud or anything..

Stay away from your parents when with your wife

 visit them alone, dont take her to family gatherings

dont complain to them while you both have disagreements

move out of their home if you both live there.

your father is hateful  & can write if he wants, it makes no difference

She cannot be deported by you or him

[Rc123rc 528]

Your parents cannot do a thing about your wife's immigration status. Sorry to hear your father is causing so much trouble for your marriage. 

[detechnohd 6]

okay thank you guys.. yeah its pretty stressful outhere but we moving to different state soon. appreciate every answers

[Teddy B 17,252]

6 minutes ago, detechnohd said:

okay thank you guys.. yeah its pretty stressful outhere but we moving to different state soon. appreciate every answers

That's a smart move. Good Luck!

[Ortolan 381]

Moving is a good idea. Being kind but firm with your parents is also a good idea. It's your wife, and your life.

Your parents can't do anything to get her deported and calls or letters they send to USCIS to try to do this will likely be thrown away, so don't worry, and good luck.

[Taya D 2]

Hi, Yury. Unfortunately, problem is with you. I think you brought your fiance from somewhere from hometown, not your dad /actually I see  you guys from Russia/ anyway you are responsible for. Maybe she is alone here, nobody else. If you love her and see the future with her just move out from your dad. You said that you live in your own apartment, so move your dad to somewhere. If you do not love your wife just talk to her and separate with her like a civilized people. In this cituation your dad can do nothing. Call to immigration and deport her? Who will listen to him. That''s sound funny. That is my opinion. 

[USAMorocco 143]

They can write any letter they want.  People who have proof of actual fraud can't even get people deported...tell them to mind their business. 

[Diane and Chris 651]

Sorry to be blunt. But, it's time to make a decision between your wife or your parents. Only you can decide that. 

 

[Jing&Kuting 137]

I think it's best for your situation to get a lawyer. 

[Jawaree 718]

Man up dude....you are right in moving away, it will not be good for the kids you have,

maintain both relationships apart....you get just one set of parents, but dont let them steal

your joy......dont let a spouse cause you to malice your parents. Finally your wufe is who you'll

grow old with after they are gone, never allow family to rin off your wife.

 

As to writing USCIS ...well that's laughable, she's legal , have not committed any crimes & obviously

is in a bonafide marriage...Tell him ICE is busy for the next 4 yrs

[Patient 57]

14 hours ago, detechnohd said:

we living in our own appartment, i tried over 9 months to talk to them they just hate her. 

Ignore them, why?

 

The problem is 1 parent not both - stay away from them for three months and no contact - I bet my money your mother will "break" the silence.

 

Now get off the forum, do something fun with your wife and move on ....

Edited March 4, 2017 by Patient

[Cathi 5,763]

1 hour ago, Jing&Kuting said:

I think it's best for your situation to get a lawyer. 

umm why? What exactly can a lawyer do fix the fact that his father hates his wife? Answer: NOTHING!

[USC1961 251]

2 hours ago, mimolicious said:

umm why? What exactly can a lawyer do fix the fact that his father hates his wife? Answer: NOTHING!

Agreed, this is a family and marriage issue not a legal one.  Even though the parents can't do any legal damage, they can do a world of hurt to the relationship and marriage.  Which it sounds like already has been done, being that divorce has been mentioned.    

 

To the OP, set strict boundaries with your parents.  If they don't want to follow them simply cut ties until they agree to behave civilly.  It sounds like you are taking steps to do this.  Also keep in mind, even after getting away from your parents, your marriage is not going to be easy for a while.  When you move, encourage your wife to make friends and not to isolate herself.   

[TheSkywalkers 143]

The thing is once we get married, our loyalty now has to be with our spouse. And no, I am not saying that you have to tolerate if your wife does something wrong. What I mean is, you have to protect each other against anyone who is trying to ruin the marriage. Your situation (of parents meddling with the personal affairs of their kids) is not new and it is up to you how you would handle it. Moving away is a good idea. You should never let yourself be surrounded by people whose attitude can be so toxic that it can cause so much stress and problems. 

 

You are now married. You have committed to protect your wife from anyone who wants to harm her, even if that includes your own family.

 

And like what the other people in this thread said, your wife is now a GC holder. Sooooo let your dad write a letter or letters if he wants, but that wouldn't change a thing, she is now a greencard holder. The US government has a lot in their hands to be focusing on his claim.  ???