Age Different

[piff 46]

1 hour ago, yaya2004 said:

yes is it normal in my country in this case the female is older. 

to me it would look like a scam, considering how difficult your Embassy is and how much fraud there is in DR, sorry, no offense. 

[maria betances 42]

1 minute ago, piff said:

to me it would look like a scam, considering how difficult your Embassy is and how much fraud there is in DR, sorry, no offense. 

not taking, and yes there are alot of fraud in my country but in our cases the marriage is for love . we have been dating for the last 2yrs and we have a lot of prove that everything is for love. 

[Georgia16 2,858]

2 hours ago, yaya2004 said:

yes is it normal in my country in this case the female is older. 

If it's normal and you have face time and good evidence then I see no issues because of that

[ckurt 23]

As long as you have solid evidence then you got nothing to worry about. Good luck 

[Mary Lou 681]

2 hours ago, yaya2004 said:

thank you. 

I'm 12 years older then my Dominican husband. 

[kareelina 42]

6 hours ago, yaya2004 said:

is 14 year age different is a big deal for a visa to be approved?  

I don't think so because my husband is 16 year older than me , and it wasn't a red flag

[Roger & Grace 198]

I am 55 USA M, she is 40 Philippines F.   It's not problem at all for us. 

 

That said, I have seen 65-70 year old men marry 18-23 year old filipinas... While OK, "maybe" in the Philippines for whatever reason it is. (Often it is a way to help her, her family, and her to have "security" later in life too???) What in common could a guy 65+ have with anyone marriage wise that is 18-23?  I mean music, culture, life experience, let alone physical drive to be there 10-20 years from now when she has your kids. Good luck with that...  To just be honest, you will not be here maybe when she needs you the most. 

 

I'm just not to sure looks (or will ever look right) in the USA, ever.  Unless your Hugh Hefner, of Playboy fame.  The women of Playboy accept the "rules and living conditions" and sign a contract as well.  hahahahahahaha 

 

If you are anywhere near this, stay in the Philippines.  My Two cents. 

 

I think the unofficial "man rule" in the USA is.... After your 30.... is to take the mans age... divide by 2 and add 7.  

So 30 /2 = 15 + 7 = 22 years for her.   That's the lowest you you should go... Unofficially, of course... 

[zilchfox 296]

7 hours ago, yaya2004 said:

39-24 is the age. 

This is probably fine.

[KierenHby 899]

Age differential (number) matters less than evidence of a bonafide relationship.

[caliliving 606]

11 hours ago, s + j said:

Depends on the Embassy and if you have any other red flags, such as the woman in the relationship is older than the man and out of childbearing age. My husband and I are 16 years apart and we passed through the embassy interview with flying colors. Just bring solid evidence and you'll do fine

you are also from sweden!!!

i am 9yrs younger then my husband! but i am canadian!!! you can probably be a 60 year old USC female and a 20 year old Canadian  and have zero problems!!!!

 

age is culture/religion and embassay specific

 

[caliliving 606]

4 hours ago, Roger & Grace said:

I am 55 USA M, she is 40 Philippines F.   It's not problem at all for us. 

 

That said, I have seen 65-70 year old men marry 18-23 year old filipinas... While OK, "maybe" in the Philippines for whatever reason it is. (Often it is a way to help her, her family, and her to have "security" later in life too???) What in common could a guy 65+ have with anyone marriage wise that is 18-23?  I mean music, culture, life experience, let alone physical drive to be there 10-20 years from now when she has your kids. Good luck with that...  To just be honest, you will not be here maybe when she needs you the most. 

 

I'm just not to sure looks (or will ever look right) in the USA, ever.  Unless your Hugh Hefner, of Playboy fame.  The women of Playboy accept the "rules and living conditions" and sign a contract as well.  hahahahahahaha 

 

If you are anywhere near this, stay in the Philippines.  My Two cents. 

 

I think the unofficial "man rule" in the USA is.... After your 30.... is to take the mans age... divide by 2 and add 7.  

So 30 /2 = 15 + 7 = 22 years for her.   That's the lowest you you should go... Unofficially, of course... 

 

it is very very normal for a young phillipino woman to marry and older american! security or not, the relationships dont end abruptly. 

their is no unofficial/official man rule! certain countries that are religious have a certain view point.... many people marry, divorce, get citizenship and bring over their real wife.  

 

american women are different - they like older men for $$ but not necessarily to marry. hahah yup! u dont need playboy now because you have enough instagram models:) 

[maria betances 42]

13 hours ago, Mary Lou said:

I'm 12 years older then my Dominican husband. 

hey mary lou,  how many time did you visit him before the wedding did you send any pic with I130  and how many pic? 

[Mary Lou 681]

21 minutes ago, yaya2004 said:

hey mary lou,  how many time did you visit him before the wedding did you send any pic with I130  and how many pic? 

I visited 3 times before we married and i sent about 50 pictures spanning our relationship

[maria betances 42]

1 minute ago, Mary Lou said:

I visited 3 times before we married and i sent about 50 pictures spanning our relationship

ok thank you  i have visit numerous of time we have plenty of picture too.

 

 

[Mary Lou 681]

2 minutes ago, yaya2004 said:

ok thank you  i have visit numerous of time we have plenty of picture too.

 

 

Make sure you save your boarding passes from the flights, visa entry cards, any receipts from hotels or car rentals, passport stamps

You're welcome, what visa are you applying for?

Edited February 24, 2017 by Mary Lou
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