My wife betrayed me

[Zad0 0]

I came to us f1 student visa , after year I got marry and we are together , she is us citizen , we applied for the immigration for the gc , to this moment the interview still " we will schedule your interview. ..."

I got my ssn and the work authorization card , I discovered her betrayed me with other guys , and I have proof , what should I do , divorce her or , wait for the first interview, I'm so sad , and I don't know what to do .

Any advice anyone was in the same boat 

Please any help .

Think u

Edited February 19, 2017 by Zad0

[Transborderwife 4,666]

You need a bonifide marriage to do the interview.  You have no path 

[Venus 1]

 Interviewing will be lying since as you stated your relationship is not bonefied.

[Boiler 45,580]

Definitely divorce her.

[controlla 104]

8 minutes ago, Boiler said:

Definitely divorce her.

Or try to work it out with your spouse and continue your AOS.

[Boiler 45,580]

Well beyond that.

[Dutchster 1,107]

6 hours ago, controlla said:

Or try to work it out with your spouse and continue your AOS.

If she is cheating there is most likely no way this will work out. If their marriage was working out, Mrs would not have cheated on Mr.

Edited February 19, 2017 by Dutchster

[Transborderwife 4,666]

10 minutes ago, Dutchster said:

If she is cheating there is most likely no way this will work out. If their marriage was working out, Mrs would not have cheated on Mr.

Disagree.  I've seen unfaithful marriages work out happily

[Dutchster 1,107]

1 minute ago, Transborderwife said:

Disagree.  I've seen unfaithful marriages work out happily

Might be my own experience then to find it's not a great base to continue on further.

[Jawaree 718]

OP did not say the marriage was NOT bonafide.... OP if the marriage is over then you cannot interview,

no one here can help you fix the marriage, do you have proof of her cheating, & do you want to save the

marriage?....If you cannot tolerate the thoughts of her having cheated move on & get a divorce after

speaking to her & see where you both want to take things...get counseling or ending it

[piste 24]

15 hours ago, Zad0 said:

I came to us f1 student visa , after year I got marry and we are together , she is us citizen , we applied for the immigration for the gc , to this moment the interview still " we will schedule your interview. ..."

I got my ssn and the work authorization card , I discovered her betrayed me with other guys , and I have proof , what should I do , divorce her or , wait for the first interview, I'm so sad , and I don't know what to do .

Any advice anyone was in the same boat 

Please any help .

Think u

Join a swingers club and then you will both be happy .... when you both get back home until the next event. 

[Cadizfornia 12]

Cold blood. Don't do anything that could be to the detriment to you in the future. Do not take any decision in angry.

If she doesn't know that you are aware about all this, that would be the best situation, you have full control on the situation, (just need to control yourself, what is not easy at all, but at least, it's only about you)

My advice is to think about your future, and where do you want to be in 2-3 years, because you know? all this is going to go away, and if you where studying, you maybe are under 30, so you have all your life ahead.

 

Your life in 10-20 years could depends on what you do tomorrow, so, cold blood.

 

[LionessDeon 2,060]

Talk to your wife.  Is she regretful? Does she want to remain married and work things out? Are you willing to forgive her? Is she willing to change? 

Do you have bonafide marriage proof?

[BethyWink 96]

It all depends on what you two can agree you can live with.  If you can get over her being unfaithful, and she can get over the affairs, then you can try to work it out.  If you can not, you can start the procedures to leave.    Relationship advice is never black and white, and we are not in your relationship to give you an insight into this.   This is your relationship.  It is whatever you both can agree on. 

[Zad0 0]

On 2/19/2017 at 11:51 AM, Venus said:

 Interviewing will be lying since as you stated your relationship is not bonefied.

 

On 2/20/2017 at 9:26 AM, BethyWink said:

It all depends on what you two can agree you can live with.  If you can get over her being unfaithful, and she can get over the affairs, then you can try to work it out.  If you can not, you can start the procedures to leave.    Relationship advice is never black and white, and we are not in your relationship to give you an insight into this.   This is your relationship.  It is whatever you both can agree on. 

 

On 2/19/2017 at 11:48 AM, Transborderwife said:

You need a bonifide marriage to do the interview.  You have no path 

Is that meanot we have to go through the interview