Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 4)

[Sonshyne 2]

Hey VJ Family!!!

I hope all the mommies to be feeling are begininng to feel a little better today

Jax best wishes with your interview tomorrow

To the rest of the Yardies.... Wha gwaan??

[nyseness 0]

Good luck on the interview Jax and safe travels!!

[darlene 0]

Good luck on the interview Jax and safe travels!!

Ditto!!

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

I`m over the moon today, got my interview for May 30th :dance: :dance:

It`s at 8am, wondering whether to take my son or not....they say you don`t have to, but would solve getting someone to babysit....

[darlene 0]

I`m over the moon today, got my interview for May 30th :dance: :dance:

It`s at 8am, wondering whether to take my son or not....they say you don`t have to, but would solve getting someone to babysit....

Congratulations!!!

[Sonshyne 2]

I`m over the moon today, got my interview for May 30th :dance: :dance:

It`s at 8am, wondering whether to take my son or not....they say you don`t have to, but would solve getting someone to babysit....

Congrats That was fast

[Marie876 0]

I`m over the moon today, got my interview for May 30th :dance: :dance:

It`s at 8am, wondering whether to take my son or not....they say you don`t have to, but would solve getting someone to babysit....

Congrats That was fast

DITTO!!

[Sonshyne 2]

Kimbls..... I was going to try to make it to the Bay area on friday..... But with the issue of the freeway colapsing.... I know the traffic is going to be a nightmare on top of a nightmare I'm thinking about driving as close as I can get, and catching the bart.

[nyseness 0]

I`m over the moon today, got my interview for May 30th :dance: :dance:

It`s at 8am, wondering whether to take my son or not....they say you don`t have to, but would solve getting someone to babysit....

Congrats!!

[kimlbs 0]

Hello All!

Kelly...they put us through something similar and I just kept calling and calling until I finally got a doctor to transfer the info for $50.00. I think I called 150 doctors.....

BTW Kelly: Any luck with finding airfare from SFO to MBJ???.....dates are flexible...we just want some good deals!!! Looks like we are staying at Duane's parents house. They are building us a room and bathroom!!

Belly...I remember those days and any LDR is hard...particularly ones that cross Country Lines. Hang in there and stay strong.

Hope all the mommies are feeling better. Try sucking on peppermint for the nausea and/or peppermint tea. It really does help!

Jax-Good luck with the interview!!

Texas-I ditto what Dendan said!! I know it doe snot feel good now but remember that all thinsg happend for a reason and it was far better to have him out of your life now rather than living a lie in your face........Tough times will soon pass.......

Mindy- COME BACK!!!! I promise that everyoen will act better.....RIGHT EVERYONE?????

[kimlbs 0]

Kimbls..... I was going to try to make it to the Bay area on friday..... But with the issue of the freeway colapsing.... I know the traffic is going to be a nightmare on top of a nightmare I'm thinking about driving as close as I can get, and catching the bart.

Let me know....we are heading to the show about 9:30 so if you guys want a ride from Bart, call me...I will PM you my cell number.

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

Hi guys... I just wanted to drop in and see how everyone else was doing...Eric, I'm so glad that your wife finally made it...it gives me some sliver of hope that maybe things will work out for me and my fiance...speaking of which...I'm really here to vent....so bear with me...

I knew this whole denial thing was going to be hard on us. I knew to expect rough times, and in a sense, some form of change in our relationship, but I just wasn't prepared to what extent. Honestly, the last couple of months have been the most emotionally and mentally taxing I have ever experienced in my lifetime...I would never wish this kind of turmoil on my worst enemy. I know that we both still very much want to be together and we have every intention on getting married...its just the fact that we really won't be able to be together for another 3 years...what's making it even more difficult is the fact that a few of his friends have gotten married lately, and a couple of my friends have recently become mothers and are doing the whole family thing, and it's just been like, "why can't this be me?" "when will we ever get to experience this happiness?" We both have gone through great lengths to try not to let this whole thing affect how we are with each other, but for as much as we try, it doesn't seem to be working...We haven't been able to see each other for months because I work full time, am a full-time graduate student, and am completing my graduate internship now--20+ hours a week! On top of that, I will be relocating in June to NC, so I haven't had the time, energy, or $$ to go and see him...He always says that he understands why I can't come, but I know it bothers him when he asks when is the next time I'm coming, and all I can give him is an "i don't know"...his whole demeanor becomes so sad, which makes me feel even worse....lately, I've been afraid to call him (although I do and vice versa) because I never know how our conversation is going to end up...there's been yelling and crying and so many apologies, not because anyone has done anything in particular to one another, but just because we are so fed up with this whole thing. I know that God will not give you any more than you can bear, but honestly, I'm not sure if that's true. I talked to him this morning, and for once, it seemed like I had my baby back. He got moved to a permanent position at work and he feels really good about it, so hopefully this will make him feel a little better. A lot of our yelling has been a result of a lot of BS with the way things are going for him at work--how they make him work for weeks at a time b4 giving him a day off, how when it's time to get paid, there's always something mysteriously wrong with the computer system and they can't get their money on that day and so on....I know how frustrating that can be, an unfortunately there's nothing that I can do for him...which drives me even more crazy and leads to me feeling frustrated and sometimes lashing out as well...I don't know...I just feel like I'm in the middle of craziness at this point. I asked him if he thought we should push the wedding back, and he asked "what for?" He was like, if we did that, he felt like he would just die, because there's nothing else that he wants more. And I believe him...His mother even called me to tell me how down he's been and she was wondering what was going on...she's worried about him...and his best friend called the other night to check on me, and to tell me that he was doing his best to take care of him...I just wish that I could be with him right now and support him and hold him and let him know how much I love him...I tell him as much as I can, but sometimes you just need to "feel" the warmth of that person next to you....Sorry for making this so long, but I just needed someone to talk to...Thanks for listening (or not! lol) You guys have a great day

Tamisha

Have you guys not seen each other sinse the interview? Are you still getting your Masters in May? Can you go after you graduate? Is he still wanting the relationship? Things sound pretty busy for you , It sounds worse for him, If it were me. I would hi-tail it down here and see my man!!! I wish you both the best.

The interview was in December and I went back for a couple of days in Feb. I just found out that I may not get all of my internship hours in before the end of May which may push my internship back even further. I had planned to go down there mid-June and stay for about a month, before relocating to NC to work. I am working to licensure which means I need an additional 4 graduate level classes--AFTER the degree, and 2000 supervised hours...so, I'm not sure what is going to be going on...when I go in June, I don't think I will be able to make it back until its time for the wedding in Oct, unless I just make it a weekend trip on something. He still wants the relationship, that I don't doubt. When we talked today he was talking about the kind of socks he and the other groomsmen were going to wear with his suit--then he wanted to know if he could have a bachelor party!! (yet something else that's gonna drive me nuts!) I definitely want to be there, but there's just so much going on, I don't know if I'm going or coming...

[BelwinMills 0]

Tamisha

Hang in there!! I know it is hard. Eric has proven if you wait it can still be possible. Heck I have been waiting on my hubby to arrive for ever. 9 1/2 years come June 3rd. I understand with school keeping you not from going. I didn't visit my hubby for a year and a 1/2 trying to get my masters done and paid. How are the wedding plans coming? Do you have the colors picked out? All the best.

Why do flights from Chicago to MoBay have to leave so early I am so not a morning person

I am stressing about making it through immigration when they open your bags. So many goodies. They are mostly for my immigration officer friends. I am acting like I know no one when I get there. If all goes well May 30th Dwain will come home. I am not buying the ticket until we have the visa. He is quiting work on May 26th. Thanks for all the well wishes!!!! I can't believe this day has finally come.

Full report soon come

[Jamaica to CT 0]

Best wishes on your interview Jax, safe travels, and enjoy your second honeymoon!!

[darlene 0]

EAD card was in the mail today. That was so quick. Approved on Thursday and mailed on Friday. One down, one to go....