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DID U REALLY HAVE TO POST THIS IT IS OUT OF ORDER! OUT OF CONTROL! COULD YOU NOT HAVE LEFT THAT TO A PERSONAL MESSAGE WITH NICKY WE ALL DO NOT NEED TO SEE YOUR BUSINESS THIS IS HURTFUL AND I BELIEVE UR PURPOSLEY TRYIN TO RUB THIS IN AND WHY ARE U EVEN TELLING WHERE NICKY LIVES YOUR A MAD OOMAN

Wow!!!! Jalove I completely agree with you. Nicky I am so sorry you are going through this, you are in my prayers!!! I know I'm new to this but we are all here for you.

Remember ... sometimes when in pain...we do things that don't make sense. I know I have in pain sent out crazy letters to friends and family members telling all my sh** because I wanted to hurt HIM but ultimatly it just made me look foolish. Just remember all both women (if not more) are in pain and probably are just looking for support.

im wondering why lily would join VJ today just to air this business and tell nicky business is what upset me why today? why not give nicky a chance to have aired her business on a site that she frequents daily or keep the most personal details in a PM noone need know where nicky live or that his son is coming then to say give nicky love and support? did nicky vent her issue on here to ask for love and support she didnt post abt this or was even given the opportunity hence her statement of He's telling her that we were just friends, LOL. I have photos, text messages, etc. I've shared it all with Nicky -- but she's in a quandary as to what she should i just feel it a little bit much

OK...time for me to step in on this issue.

I told Lilly and Nicky what I figured out yesterday. And, yes, Marlita, it was because of you posting her pictures that I figured it out. I know Lilly from a couple of other sites and she had posted many pictures of Corey, in the exact same shirt he was wearing in one of those pictures yesterday. I did some research on some previous postings here and there and then I went to the ladies via PM's and told them what I thought. I sent each to the respective websites to verify for themselves. Turns out, I was right. They ended up wanting to talk to one another and after asking permission from both, I gave each the other's information. From there, they are working this triangle out.

Nicky is in denial. She's invested much time, energy, emotions, and money into this relationship and she doesn't see a clear cut answer on what to do. Lilly dumped Corey immediately. I believe Lilly's post was a way of working through her feelings. She loved this guy. If you would read some of her posts, she really loved him. And, he talked words of love and of building a future right back at her. They even discussed LIlly filing a visa for him. She asked me where to start a few months ago. To add insult to injury, Nicky and he were already engaged when Lilly met Corey. She was duped from the very beginning. Anyhow, I believe her posts are her way of trying to get over Corey and this situation. And, a way to show Nicky that he did this to her too......he carried on while Nicky filed for a visa for him and talked about their wedding and their lives together. She really wants Nicky to think about what she is still contemplating. Believe it or not, Lilly took an automatic liking to Nicky and her maternal instincts kicked in. She doesn't want to see her hurt again now or in the future.

Sometimes you have to do bold things to get the point across. That's all that was. Lilly cares enough to want to shock her into really thinking about it. And talking on the phone to her did not seem to be getting this point across.

One last thought for you, Nicky, if you are reading this......if there were two of you and all his family and friends were involved.........how many more could there be out there? Think about it.

Nicky......tune out the thoughts of money and pride and really, REALLY think about this. Please.

That is excatly the kind of person Shawn was telling everyone about last week, I don't know the man and don't want to be too harsh, but I'm wondering right now what his girlfriend in Jamaica would think about all of this. He seem to really like talking about the future to together with ladies he meets, he should have been married by now if he is that much the marrying type, there are women in Jamaica you know, but the thing about jamaican women is that they really don't marry bums.

The only thing this man loves are his sneakers and Jeans, and you can toss in a gold chain here and there. I see visa all over this one. Kick him to the curb Nicky, you can do better, but that is only my opinion.

I've shared my concerns with Nicky about my hunch that there are local women he is involved with -- and I gave her specific reasons why I thought what I thought. She can choose to ignore them if she wants, but the signs are there. The hair had been up on the back of my neck since my visit in August and I was desperately seeking the truth. I can handle anything as long as it's the truth. And, handle this . . . I will. I'm writing a letter to the Embassy with PROOF of my relationship with this man. Although it may not fall into the right hands in time for their interview, I pray that God will see fit to keep this bum in his own country . . . and that he stops preying on American women in search of a Visa. Believe me, Corey's very sweet, soft-spoken, and suave . . . almost innocent and naive acting. He could win over a charlatan with his childish good-looks and romantic swooning.

Silly me. I fell too -- and I'm a grown woman. But, knowing what I know now about him, I can walk away without hesitancy.

I know you have been hurt and the man is a liar but you have NO BUSINESS writing the embassy, I want Nicky to leave the man too but it's no one's business if she decide to stay with him. You are taking this a little to far. I know what went down is kinda crazy but your posts are becoming a little bit overbearing.

I appreciate the opinions expressed that I shouldn't write the Embassy . . . and hopefully, when my hurt and anger subside, I'll agree that it's inappropriate. Right now, I'm not in that space.

This man has devastated me, my teenage daughters, my family . . . and we didn't deserve any of it. Why should he walk scott free for his indiscretions? Why should he be allowed to prosper? And . . . his winfall, is Nicky's downfall.

I won't act in an emotional manner. I will give this much thought and consideration. Right now, I'm having a hard time telling what time it is. It's hard when somebody pulls the rug out from underneath you and you're left to deal with it.

Lilly,

Both you and Nicky are victims. You stated that you are not a mean vindictive woman; however, I beg to differ. Nicky did not hurt you- Corey did. Why be concerned about Nicky's welfare? You don't even know her! If Nicky decides to proceed with the interview, then that is her right. How dare you get in to a verbal warfare with her! How old are you again? In this case, the proper venue would have been to use the PM feature. Are you familiar? If not, I would be more than happy to send you step-to-step instructions.

I am sorry to hear that you spent money on a plane ticket (December). You have two options (1) Cancel the ticket. Use the remaining balance for a future trip. Check with VJ Member Luv Travlin. She is a travel agent. I am sure that she can assist you. (2) Go to Ocho Rios and forget about Corey. This website is supposed to be resourceful. If any thing, it has been a support system. It is not a place to air one's "dirty" laundry.

Mrs. Scott

Mean and vindictive? I don't see how you get either of those words out of her posts.

Why be concerned for Nicky's welfare? How could she not have compassion for someone in a similar situation. If you could do that, kudos to you. I could not. In this case, I could not let it pass.

I don't think there is verbal warefare going on. The only misstep I see in the whole thing would be the embassy letter. And, honestly, I don't completely disagree with it. I think I would probably do it myself.

Why is it that when something negative appears on this board it is rushed to sweep it under the rug? This is a realistic situation that happens all the time, more then we could even imagine. It may not be everyone's particular issue; but discussing it can open eyes and teach painful lessons to some.

I am learning how to talk about a very painful situation with courage and grace today.

Life's just a crazy ride on a run away train

You can't go back for what you've missed

So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right

You only get one trip

So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast

You only get one trip

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Agreed - very well said. It just bothers me that in situation like this people tend to blame one of the women involved, when they are both victims. I was hoping it wouldn't get ugly in this thread but looks like the war is already starting...

I also agree...they are both victims. We need to stop turning on each other and the victims. I also hope we can have this discussion without it turning into a war...the last thing the yardie thread needs is another all out war.

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DID U REALLY HAVE TO POST THIS IT IS OUT OF ORDER! OUT OF CONTROL! COULD YOU NOT HAVE LEFT THAT TO A PERSONAL MESSAGE WITH NICKY WE ALL DO NOT NEED TO SEE YOUR BUSINESS THIS IS HURTFUL AND I BELIEVE UR PURPOSLEY TRYIN TO RUB THIS IN AND WHY ARE U EVEN TELLING WHERE NICKY LIVES YOUR A MAD OOMAN

Wow!!!! Jalove I completely agree with you. Nicky I am so sorry you are going through this, you are in my prayers!!! I know I'm new to this but we are all here for you.

Remember ... sometimes when in pain...we do things that don't make sense. I know I have in pain sent out crazy letters to friends and family members telling all my sh** because I wanted to hurt HIM but ultimatly it just made me look foolish. Just remember all both women (if not more) are in pain and probably are just looking for support.

im wondering why lily would join VJ today just to air this business and tell nicky business is what upset me why today? why not give nicky a chance to have aired her business on a site that she frequents daily or keep the most personal details in a PM noone need know where nicky live or that his son is coming then to say give nicky love and support? did nicky vent her issue on here to ask for love and support she didnt post abt this or was even given the opportunity hence her statement of He's telling her that we were just friends, LOL. I have photos, text messages, etc. I've shared it all with Nicky -- but she's in a quandary as to what she should i just feel it a little bit much

OK...time for me to step in on this issue.

I told Lilly and Nicky what I figured out yesterday. And, yes, Marlita, it was because of you posting her pictures that I figured it out. I know Lilly from a couple of other sites and she had posted many pictures of Corey, in the exact same shirt he was wearing in one of those pictures yesterday. I did some research on some previous postings here and there and then I went to the ladies via PM's and told them what I thought. I sent each to the respective websites to verify for themselves. Turns out, I was right. They ended up wanting to talk to one another and after asking permission from both, I gave each the other's information. From there, they are working this triangle out.

Nicky is in denial. She's invested much time, energy, emotions, and money into this relationship and she doesn't see a clear cut answer on what to do. Lilly dumped Corey immediately. I believe Lilly's post was a way of working through her feelings. She loved this guy. If you would read some of her posts, she really loved him. And, he talked words of love and of building a future right back at her. They even discussed LIlly filing a visa for him. She asked me where to start a few months ago. To add insult to injury, Nicky and he were already engaged when Lilly met Corey. She was duped from the very beginning. Anyhow, I believe her posts are her way of trying to get over Corey and this situation. And, a way to show Nicky that he did this to her too......he carried on while Nicky filed for a visa for him and talked about their wedding and their lives together. She really wants Nicky to think about what she is still contemplating. Believe it or not, Lilly took an automatic liking to Nicky and her maternal instincts kicked in. She doesn't want to see her hurt again now or in the future.

Sometimes you have to do bold things to get the point across. That's all that was. Lilly cares enough to want to shock her into really thinking about it. And talking on the phone to her did not seem to be getting this point across.

One last thought for you, Nicky, if you are reading this......if there were two of you and all his family and friends were involved.........how many more could there be out there? Think about it.

Nicky......tune out the thoughts of money and pride and really, REALLY think about this. Please.

That is excatly the kind of person Shawn was telling everyone about last week, I don't know the man and don't want to be too harsh, but I'm wondering right now what his girlfriend in Jamaica would think about all of this. He seem to really like talking about the future to together with ladies he meets, he should have been married by now if he is that much the marrying type, there are women in Jamaica you know, but the thing about jamaican women is that they really don't marry bums.

The only thing this man loves are his sneakers and Jeans, and you can toss in a gold chain here and there. I see visa all over this one. Kick him to the curb Nicky, you can do better, but that is only my opinion.

I've shared my concerns with Nicky about my hunch that there are local women he is involved with -- and I gave her specific reasons why I thought what I thought. She can choose to ignore them if she wants, but the signs are there. The hair had been up on the back of my neck since my visit in August and I was desperately seeking the truth. I can handle anything as long as it's the truth. And, handle this . . . I will. I'm writing a letter to the Embassy with PROOF of my relationship with this man. Although it may not fall into the right hands in time for their interview, I pray that God will see fit to keep this bum in his own country . . . and that he stops preying on American women in search of a Visa. Believe me, Corey's very sweet, soft-spoken, and suave . . . almost innocent and naive acting. He could win over a charlatan with his childish good-looks and romantic swooning.

Silly me. I fell too -- and I'm a grown woman. But, knowing what I know now about him, I can walk away without hesitancy.

I know you have been hurt and the man is a liar but you have NO BUSINESS writing the embassy, I want Nicky to leave the man too but it's no one's business if she decide to stay with him. You are taking this a little to far. I know what went down is kinda crazy but your posts are becoming a little bit overbearing.

I appreciate the opinions expressed that I shouldn't write the Embassy . . . and hopefully, when my hurt and anger subside, I'll agree that it's inappropriate. Right now, I'm not in that space.

This man has devastated me, my teenage daughters, my family . . . and we didn't deserve any of it. Why should he walk scott free for his indiscretions? Why should he be allowed to prosper? And . . . his winfall, is Nicky's downfall.

I won't act in an emotional manner. I will give this much thought and consideration. Right now, I'm having a hard time telling what time it is. It's hard when somebody pulls the rug out from underneath you and you're left to deal with it.

Lilly,

Both you and Nicky are victims. You stated that you are not a mean vindictive woman; however, I beg to differ. Nicky did not hurt you- Corey did. Why be concerned about Nicky's welfare? You don't even know her! If Nicky decides to proceed with the interview, then that is her right. How dare you get in to a verbal warfare with her! How old are you again? In this case, the proper venue would have been to use the PM feature. Are you familiar? If not, I would be more than happy to send you step-to-step instructions.

I am sorry to hear that you spent money on a plane ticket (December). You have two options (1) Cancel the ticket. Use the remaining balance for a future trip. Check with VJ Member Luv Travlin. She is a travel agent. I am sure that she can assist you. (2) Go to Ocho Rios and forget about Corey. This website is supposed to be resourceful. If any thing, it has been a support system. It is not a place to air one's "dirty" laundry.

Mrs. Scott

Ok, I just caught up to what has been happening on the board. Nicky and Lilly I'm sorry u guys are going thru this b/c of some foreign minded man.

But, Mrs. Scott u said it best I totally agree with u on this...

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Mean and vindictive? I don't see how you get either of those words out of her posts.

Why be concerned for Nicky's welfare? How could she not have compassion for someone in a similar situation. If you could do that, kudos to you. I could not. In this case, I could not let it pass.

I don't think there is verbal warefare going on. The only misstep I see in the whole thing would be the embassy letter. And, honestly, I don't completely disagree with it. I think I would probably do it myself.

Why is it that when something negative appears on this board it is rushed to sweep it under the rug? This is a realistic situation that happens all the time, more then we could even imagine. It may not be everyone's particular issue; but discussing it can open eyes and teach painful lessons to some.

I am learning how to talk about a very painful situation with courage and grace today.

I have wondered the same thing as well.

Putting myself in Lillies shoes I don't think I could have held it together the way she has...I would be devastated, pissed, homicidal, upset, disappointed...you name it. She herself said that the she is so upset and hurt that she wants to write the embassy letter out of her feelings...she also said she won't do it irrationally and will give it a lot of thought. Give the girl a break. I would have had the embassy letter already written if I was her. Would I send it? I don't know...but it sure would be written...pics, email addy, phone number and home address of the cheater included. It is all part of the healing process. You can't tell me that many of you wouldn't have the same thoughts running through your heads.

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Agreed - very well said. It just bothers me that in situation like this people tend to blame one of the women involved, when they are both victims. I was hoping it wouldn't get ugly in this thread but looks like the war is already starting...

I also agree...they are both victims. We need to stop turning on each other and the victims. I also hope we can have this discussion without it turning into a war...the last thing the yardie thread needs is another all out war.

Who is blaming the women involved? (And I did not say that in a yelling manner at all). I must've just missed it.

Some jumped on Lilly for her words. Words, I think she deserves to express. And she is not jumping on Nicky. She is pretty much publically pleading with Nicky to stop, think, and listen. That's all. Something, I again agree with.

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So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right

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So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast

You only get one trip

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JG ~ I was just saying we need to be supportive of all involved and not be tearing each other down and arguing...just show some care and compassion (not speaking directly to you but to everyone in general). I agree...Lilly and all can express their feelings/words. Just please do so all in a nice manner so this discussion can stay civil and constructive.

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I think the situation is being address by some of the members "harshly" not b/c they don't want to hear the negatives about relationships but rather the manner it was said. Everyone needs to deal with their own personal issues unless they want to share it. Lilly can say whatever she wants it's her right and she was a victim in this situation, but did she have to call out Nikky the way she did? does Nikky know she was going to mention her name when she posted ? I am not blaming any of these women but the NASTY boy cause he's no man that has been playing with their emotions and future. If this were me I would not feel the need to involve Nikky in my comments unless I wanted to pour salt on the wound..IN MY OPINION ! Who's place is it to try and convince Nikky to get out of the relationship ? She's gonna do what she wants and by the grace of God she will do what is right for her. God doesn't like ugly and he (the boy) will get what is coming to him

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I'm not sure I wouldn't contact them.

Contact them for what Jomo? I see where Lily is coming from, but really EVERYONE has their own life to lead! Nicky is a grown woman and as such, if she feels it's in her best interest to marry Corey so be it! This is not Big Brother where people are forced to convert or do another person's bidding. Not to mention, the older I get the more I realize some lessons are better learned in the first person and not in the third!

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I think the situation is being address by some of the members "harshly" not b/c they don't want to hear the negatives about relationships but rather the manner it was said. Everyone needs to deal with their own personal issues unless they want to share it. Lilly can say whatever she wants it's her right and she was a victim in this situation, but did she have to call out Nikky the way she did? does Nikky know she was going to mention her name when she posted ? I am not blaming any of these women but the NASTY boy cause he's no man that has been playing with their emotions and future. If this were me I would not feel the need to involve Nikky in my comments unless I wanted to pour salt on the wound..IN MY OPINION ! Who's place is it to try and convince Nikky to get out of the relationship ? She's gonna do what she wants and by the grace of God she will do what is right for her. God doesn't like ugly and he (the boy) will get what is coming to him

Well, I think if I were involved, I would see it as my place to convince her otherwise. He's lying and she's listening. If he were saying, I made a mistake and I'm sorry, can we get past this, I would be more inclined not to take a stand with Nicky. But, for him to say, Lilly is lying.......well, I would argue my point to her too. Then, if she chose not to listen, then, at least my conscience would be clear.

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You can't go back for what you've missed

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So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast

You only get one trip

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I think the situation is being address by some of the members "harshly" not b/c they don't want to hear the negatives about relationships but rather the manner it was said. Everyone needs to deal with their own personal issues unless they want to share it. Lilly can say whatever she wants it's her right and she was a victim in this situation, but did she have to call out Nikky the way she did? does Nikky know she was going to mention her name when she posted ? I am not blaming any of these women but the NASTY boy cause he's no man that has been playing with their emotions and future. If this were me I would not feel the need to involve Nikky in my comments unless I wanted to pour salt on the wound..IN MY OPINION ! Who's place is it to try and convince Nikky to get out of the relationship ? She's gonna do what she wants and by the grace of God she will do what is right for her. God doesn't like ugly and he (the boy) will get what is coming to him

I agree. I wonder if Nikky knows her business is out there....

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I appreciate everybody's views and opinions on what you'd do differently or even the same . . . but until this is laid at your feet (like it was mine), you cannot say with certainty what you would or wouldn't do.

If you knew me . . . you would know that I don't create adversity -- that I despise it . . . and I also loathe people with a lack of integrity.

I hope that none of you have to experience what I've gone through in the past 24 hours ever in your lives. But, what God brings you to, he will bring you through. And -- you teach others how you want to be treated. (I hope you read this, Nicky.)

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Why is it that when something negative appears on this board it is rushed to sweep it under the rug? This is a realistic situation that happens all the time, more then we could even imagine. It may not be everyone's particular issue; but discussing it can open eyes and teach painful lessons to some.

I agree. I applaud all that have posted here in the past two Yardie forums (can you tell I've been here a long time? :wacko::lol:) as well with their issues concerning immigration and relationships. It's not the easiest thing to discuss but you never know who may find your posting a blessing and did some good in their situation.

Agreed - very well said. It just bothers me that in situation like this people tend to blame one of the women involved, when they are both victims. I was hoping it wouldn't get ugly in this thread but looks like the war is already starting...

I also agree...they are both victims. We need to stop turning on each other and the victims. I also hope we can have this discussion without it turning into a war...the last thing the yardie thread needs is another all out war.

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I think the situation is being address by some of the members "harshly" not b/c they don't want to hear the negatives about relationships but rather the manner it was said. Everyone needs to deal with their own personal issues unless they want to share it. Lilly can say whatever she wants it's her right and she was a victim in this situation, but did she have to call out Nikky the way she did? does Nikky know she was going to mention her name when she posted ? I am not blaming any of these women but the NASTY boy cause he's no man that has been playing with their emotions and future. If this were me I would not feel the need to involve Nikky in my comments unless I wanted to pour salt on the wound..IN MY OPINION ! Who's place is it to try and convince Nikky to get out of the relationship ? She's gonna do what she wants and by the grace of God she will do what is right for her. God doesn't like ugly and he (the boy) will get what is coming to him

Well, I think if I were involved, I would see it as my place to convince her otherwise. He's lying and she's listening. If he were saying, I made a mistake and I'm sorry, can we get past this, I would be more inclined not to take a stand with Nicky. But, for him to say, Lilly is lying.......well, I would argue my point to her too. Then, if she chose not to listen, then, at least my conscience would be clear.

It's not like these women knew each other from a whole in the wall...Why do I need to proove anything to Nikky..all I would say is "ur man is cheating with me, just to let u know" and move on...Lilly can cut her ties has she stated she has done and move on from..no more convincing needed...

That's just my 2cents and I AM NOT SIDING W/ANY OF THE LADIES !!!

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I think the situation is being address by some of the members "harshly" not b/c they don't want to hear the negatives about relationships but rather the manner it was said. Everyone needs to deal with their own personal issues unless they want to share it. Lilly can say whatever she wants it's her right and she was a victim in this situation, but did she have to call out Nikky the way she did? does Nikky know she was going to mention her name when she posted ? I am not blaming any of these women but the NASTY boy cause he's no man that has been playing with their emotions and future. If this were me I would not feel the need to involve Nikky in my comments unless I wanted to pour salt on the wound..IN MY OPINION ! Who's place is it to try and convince Nikky to get out of the relationship ? She's gonna do what she wants and by the grace of God she will do what is right for her. God doesn't like ugly and he (the boy) will get what is coming to him

I agree. I wonder if Nikky knows her business is out there....

I see what you are saying. Should she have called out Nicky? Probably not but I don't think it was done maliciously...more of a cry for help from those who know Nicky to help her through this time. She could have got her point across without naming names...but I don't think it was to hurt Nicky in anyway or "pour salt on the wound". Just my take on the situation.

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