Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 4)

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

In my opinion, Lilly wants to show the world what he is.

If something similar happened to me, this would be the TIP of the iceberg.

I don't blame her, apart from mentioning where Nicky lives if that's something that Nicky hasn't put out there.

Can't see why Lilly SHOULDN'T post it if it's true.

[SweetSugahDumplin 0]

im goin bananas!!! where is the VISA!!!! OH MY GOODNESS patience is not my virtue ladies! its been one week and a day

sorry im so rude hi everybody:) hope ur all having a great evening

Hang in there mi love. It soon forward.

Im hangin in there im trying~~~ hope its soon im so impatient i was even born early!!!!couldnt wait

[jamerican 2]

My hubby was in heaven last night our friend cooked us a real Jamaican meal. I think I finally learned how to cook one meal at least last night.

Does your husband cook?

No he does not cook. I cooked the meal hes friend taught me tonight and he loved it. My husband blew up the microwave so he is not aloud to cook its to scary.

OMG!! lol. My SO doesn't have a microwave in JA and I don't think he even knows how to use one. He's a great chef though...I'm the one that doesn't know how to cook. I'm just so used to my college way of eating but I'm going to try and learn the basics (and maybe more) before he comes. If any of you have any recipes, PLEASE send them my way

Here's a collection of almost 100 of my favorite Jamaican recipes

I found these on youtube....they are somewhat of a cooking class for jamaican items.

dumplins

ackee and saltfish

Okra and saltfish

festival

Jerk Pork

jerk chicken

Sorrell drink

Chicken patties

[SweetSugahDumplin 0]

My hubby was in heaven last night our friend cooked us a real Jamaican meal. I think I finally learned how to cook one meal at least last night.

Does your husband cook?

No he does not cook. I cooked the meal hes friend taught me tonight and he loved it. My husband blew up the microwave so he is not aloud to cook its to scary.

OMG!! lol. My SO doesn't have a microwave in JA and I don't think he even knows how to use one. He's a great chef though...I'm the one that doesn't know how to cook. I'm just so used to my college way of eating but I'm going to try and learn the basics (and maybe more) before he comes. If any of you have any recipes, PLEASE send them my way

Here's a collection of almost 100 of my favorite Jamaican recipes

I found these on youtube....they are somewhat of a cooking class for jamaican items.

dumplins

ackee and saltfish

Okra and saltfish

festival

Jerk Pork

jerk chicken

Sorrell drink

Chicken patties

oooh we gonna be cookin up a storm! i learned how to make dumplings lol thats easy now all i need is to learn to cornrow sorry canerow

[Marlita 0]

Hey all ... new to the Board . . . was brought here on an expected "journey" today . . .

Learned that my boyfriend is also Nicky "Salmon's" current fiance'. She last saw him in March. I met him in April and have been back to see him 3 times. He and I have been planning our future together . . . and I'm thankful that I was smart enough to make him wait a year before I filed for a Visa, or I'd be in the same position Nicky is.

I've struggled all day . . . have talked to Nicky several times. He's telling her that we were just friends, LOL. I have photos, text messages, etc. I've shared it all with Nicky -- but she's in a quandary as to what she should do . . .

Give her love and support, folks. Her financial investment over this lying and cheating man is only gonna increase when she brings him and his son over here to Florida and she has to support them for a long time. I say cut your losses now, Girl!

Here's a picture of Corey and I taken in August when I was last there to see him and his family (yes -- they ALL know about me).

Holy $%&*!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I feel like this is my fault cause I posted Nicky's pictures. I am so sorry to hear this yet I guess its good to know. Well Lilywight I am glad this news came about to you before you were truly vested in the relationship. Nicky my girl I am truly sorry for this situation you are facing. I pray for your strength thru these times.

[jamerican 2]

Hey all ... new to the Board . . . was brought here on an expected "journey" today . . .

Learned that my boyfriend is also Nicky "Salmon's" current fiance'. She last saw him in March. I met him in April and have been back to see him 3 times. He and I have been planning our future together . . . and I'm thankful that I was smart enough to make him wait a year before I filed for a Visa, or I'd be in the same position Nicky is.

I've struggled all day . . . have talked to Nicky several times. He's telling her that we were just friends, LOL. I have photos, text messages, etc. I've shared it all with Nicky -- but she's in a quandary as to what she should do . . .

Give her love and support, folks. Her financial investment over this lying and cheating man is only gonna increase when she brings him and his son over here to Florida and she has to support them for a long time. I say cut your losses now, Girl!

Here's a picture of Corey and I taken in August when I was last there to see him and his family (yes -- they ALL know about me).

Wow.......I am sorry to hear you're going through this.....

I guess this is why SOME men are so 'private' about their relationship.....While it's a matter of personal preference, I must admit I would always have the attitude that if he loves me and is willing to stand before God and man and call me his wife, he should be so much in love he wants to shout it from the rooftops.....

While none of us know you or Nicky, I have seen similar situations happen before and all I can say is it's hard for all parties.

The man will deny one woman and try to convince the other that the one he's denying is making it all up etc etc...The one who he proclaims his love for of course won't want to believe he could be so duplicitous and remains in denial......

Prayers going out to all parties involved.

I think you said it best....but one last thing.....

oh by the grace of god...it could be me .......This too shall pass and know that even if you don't know now why this has happened....you will know one day and you will be better for going through this. Stay strong and know that your prince is out there...he just hasn't found you yet.

[jamerican 2]

DID U REALLY HAVE TO POST THIS IT IS OUT OF ORDER! OUT OF CONTROL! COULD YOU NOT HAVE LEFT THAT TO A PERSONAL MESSAGE WITH NICKY WE ALL DO NOT NEED TO SEE YOUR BUSINESS THIS IS HURTFUL AND I BELIEVE UR PURPOSLEY TRYIN TO RUB THIS IN AND WHY ARE U EVEN TELLING WHERE NICKY LIVES YOUR A MAD OOMAN

Wow!!!! Jalove I completely agree with you. Nicky I am so sorry you are going through this, you are in my prayers!!! I know I'm new to this but we are all here for you.

Remember ... sometimes when in pain...we do things that don't make sense. I know I have in pain sent out crazy letters to friends and family members telling all my sh** because I wanted to hurt HIM but ultimatly it just made me look foolish. Just remember all both women (if not more) are in pain and probably are just looking for support.

[Tricia B 0]

as far as montego bay, i would suggest the following

the restaurant next door to margaritaville or the jazz cafe (one these two may have that cake option)

or the casino across the streetor the brewery

there's also the dragon court by bogue but that's chinese food

My hubby's bday is Sunday and I will be in JA with him. I am wanting to do something fun that day or at least go eat somewhere where he can get a surprise cake brought out to him and a happy bday song. Can anyone suggest a place in either Negril or Mobay.

Also if you have any other suggestions on a good bday excursion or idea for that day let me know.

Thanks

Oh, well happy birthday to your hubby on Sunday . Have a great time in JA and safe trip. I know how much you must miss him . I have no idea about places in Negril/MoBay (outside of the Pelican).

[SweetSugahDumplin 0]

DID U REALLY HAVE TO POST THIS IT IS OUT OF ORDER! OUT OF CONTROL! COULD YOU NOT HAVE LEFT THAT TO A PERSONAL MESSAGE WITH NICKY WE ALL DO NOT NEED TO SEE YOUR BUSINESS THIS IS HURTFUL AND I BELIEVE UR PURPOSLEY TRYIN TO RUB THIS IN AND WHY ARE U EVEN TELLING WHERE NICKY LIVES YOUR A MAD OOMAN

Wow!!!! Jalove I completely agree with you. Nicky I am so sorry you are going through this, you are in my prayers!!! I know I'm new to this but we are all here for you.

Remember ... sometimes when in pain...we do things that don't make sense. I know I have in pain sent out crazy letters to friends and family members telling all my sh** because I wanted to hurt HIM but ultimatly it just made me look foolish. Just remember all both women (if not more) are in pain and probably are just looking for support.

im wondering why lily would join VJ today just to air this business and tell nicky business is what upset me why today? why not give nicky a chance to have aired her business on a site that she frequents daily or keep the most personal details in a PM noone need know where nicky live or that his son is coming then to say give nicky love and support? did nicky vent her issue on here to ask for love and support she didnt post abt this or was even given the opportunity hence her statement of He's telling her that we were just friends, LOL. I have photos, text messages, etc. I've shared it all with Nicky -- but she's in a quandary as to what she should i just feel it a little bit much

[Tricia B 0]

oh i second the rock house in negril good food, nice ambiance and if you can stay there very romantic (i recommend the cornmeal porridge in the morning), i had a dreamy time there a few years back.

My hubby's bday is Sunday and I will be in JA with him. I am wanting to do something fun that day or at least go eat somewhere where he can get a surprise cake brought out to him and a happy bday song. Can anyone suggest a place in either Negril or Mobay.

Also if you have any other suggestions on a good bday excursion or idea for that day let me know.

Thanks

There are so many places in Negril. Sweet & Spice, great food, good prices. There's a great little romantic place right on the beach called Mom's Place, very inexpensive. Kuyaba is nice, but expensive. Rock House is always really nice, but expensive. Great food at Norma's...yet expensive....went there for my birthday and my best friend surprised me when I got back from the bathroom, she had "hired" 3 guys from the beach to sing happy birthday. Roots has GREAT food and jazz night is on Sunday's.

How about the Wild Thing has a GREAT excursion to Rhode's Hall Plantation..includes snorkeling, horseback riding if you wanted to and a great lunch. There's also the zipline tour through Chukka Adventures. I love the Black River Safari with the YS Falls. I've been all over that area.....gosh and have done so many different things.

Hope that helps.

Kelly

[Marie876 0]

DID U REALLY HAVE TO POST THIS IT IS OUT OF ORDER! OUT OF CONTROL! COULD YOU NOT HAVE LEFT THAT TO A PERSONAL MESSAGE WITH NICKY WE ALL DO NOT NEED TO SEE YOUR BUSINESS THIS IS HURTFUL AND I BELIEVE UR PURPOSLEY TRYIN TO RUB THIS IN AND WHY ARE U EVEN TELLING WHERE NICKY LIVES YOUR A MAD OOMAN

Wow!!!! Jalove I completely agree with you. Nicky I am so sorry you are going through this, you are in my prayers!!! I know I'm new to this but we are all here for you.

Remember ... sometimes when in pain...we do things that don't make sense. I know I have in pain sent out crazy letters to friends and family members telling all my sh** because I wanted to hurt HIM but ultimatly it just made me look foolish. Just remember all both women (if not more) are in pain and probably are just looking for support.

im wondering why lily would join VJ today just to air this business and tell nicky business is what upset me why today? why not give nicky a chance to have aired her business on a site that she frequents daily or keep the most personal details in a PM noone need know where nicky live or that his son is coming then to say give nicky love and support? did nicky vent her issue on here to ask for love and support she didnt post abt this or was even given the opportunity hence her statement of...He's telling her that we were just friends, LOL. I have photos, text messages, etc. I've shared it all with Nicky -- but she's in a quandary as to what she should i just feel it a little bit much

JALOVE - you have a point here

Nicky - Hang in there girl. We're here for support.

Marlita - In my opinion its not your fault. I'm glad I posted my pics up. If anyone recognizes my SO and knows of anything that you feel would be detrimental to our relationship, please, please let me know through a PM, post, anything!

Edited October 25, 2007 by Marie87

[Marie876 0]

If any of you have any recipes, PLEASE send them my way

I found these on youtube....they are somewhat of a cooking class for jamaican items.

dumplins

ackee and saltfish

Okra and saltfish

festival

Jerk Pork

jerk chicken

Sorrell drink

Chicken patties

Thanks girl!

[MSNELLY 0]

Hey all ... new to the Board . . . was brought here on an expected "journey" today . . .

Learned that my boyfriend is also Nicky "Salmon's" current fiance'. She last saw him in March. I met him in April and have been back to see him 3 times. He and I have been planning our future together . . . and I'm thankful that I was smart enough to make him wait a year before I filed for a Visa, or I'd be in the same position Nicky is.

I've struggled all day . . . have talked to Nicky several times. He's telling her that we were just friends, LOL. I have photos, text messages, etc. I've shared it all with Nicky -- but she's in a quandary as to what she should do . . .

Give her love and support, folks. Her financial investment over this lying and cheating man is only gonna increase when she brings him and his son over here to Florida and she has to support them for a long time. I say cut your losses now, Girl!

Here's a picture of Corey and I taken in August when I was last there to see him and his family (yes -- they ALL know about me).

I TAKE IT SOMEONE TOLD U SHE POSTED A PIC AND THAT IS WHY U CAME OVER HERE I THINK U ARE SO WRONG FOR PUTTING IT OUT THERE LIKE THAT U COULD OF KEPT THIS BETWEEN U AND NIKKI SINCE U ARE NEW TO THIS BOARD AND LET HER COME ON HERE AND PUT IT OUT THERE U ARE SO DAMN WRONG

Edited October 25, 2007 by MSNELLY

[Forever Young 1]

Hey all ... new to the Board . . . was brought here on an expected "journey" today . . .

Learned that my boyfriend is also Nicky "Salmon's" current fiance'. She last saw him in March. I met him in April and have been back to see him 3 times. He and I have been planning our future together . . . and I'm thankful that I was smart enough to make him wait a year before I filed for a Visa, or I'd be in the same position Nicky is.

I've struggled all day . . . have talked to Nicky several times. He's telling her that we were just friends, LOL. I have photos, text messages, etc. I've shared it all with Nicky -- but she's in a quandary as to what she should do . . .

Give her love and support, folks. Her financial investment over this lying and cheating man is only gonna increase when she brings him and his son over here to Florida and she has to support them for a long time. I say cut your losses now, Girl!

Here's a picture of Corey and I taken in August when I was last there to see him and his family (yes -- they ALL know about me).

I TAKE IT SOMEONE TOLD U SHE POSTED A PIC AND THAT IS WHY U CAME OVER HERE I THINK U ARE SO WRONG FOR PUTTING IT OUT THERE LIKE THAT U COULD OF KEPT THIS BETWEEN U AND NIKKI SINCE U ARE NEW TO THIS BOARD AND LET HER COME ON HERE AND PUT IT OUT THERE U ARE SO DAMN WRONG

WOW, I really don't know wuh fi seh bout dis, other than Nicky...Chica, I am REALLY REALLY sorry that ...A). You have to go through this phuckery with a man that you thought was true... and B). that Lily aired all of your business...like this!!! Just know that we REALLY do NOT judge here...we really just want to support you and let yuh know that we are here for you, if you should need us! You will always be safe here. Sistren, I know it's hard rightta now, but just know that God NEVER EVER gives you more than you can handle...NEVER!!! Thank god that you found out now, instead of later.

Now, I know NONE of this ish helps with the heart-breaking pain that you are feeling right now, but know that you are loved by us and we will support you in this next step...whichever way you decide to go!

Now Lily, I agree with JALOVE...why today Lily? I understand that you also must be feeling some kind of pain regarding this issue. However, in the future it's in the best interest of EVERYONE concerned if you would have just PM'ed Nicky and showed her your proof that way and let NICKY tell who she wanted and when or if she wanted! Look, I think you probably had good intentions, however, not everyone is the same. Put yourself in Nicky's shoes...she is a fairly new member just feeling her way around this visa process and her new found VJ family...in this situation would you want to be put on blast to PEOPLE WERE JUST GETTING TO KNOW?

The good thing Lily, is that Nicky does not have anything to fear from us. As I stated before we are here to support and help...not judge and pull-apart.

Blessed to you my friend, Nicky and don't forget prayer is the strongest tool we have in time like these!! You are most certainly in mine!

xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo-Gill

[lillywight 0]

I appreciate all of the posts and opinions about my post last night. I can understand how everybody feels and respect all of the responses.

No . . . I'm not a mean vindictive woman trying to hold on to this good-for-nothing man. I've been through this a time or two in my lifetime and I'm sick to death of men getting over on women. I have no issues letting go of the relationship. I can walk away with my head held high because I did nothing wrong.

My concern actually is for Nicky. She's gonna marry this cheating, lying man . . . and he will then be her cheating, lying husband!!! He will do this to her again . . . and again . . . and again. Infidelity is a disease. Some people have it and some people don't. Corey obviously HAS IT. I have reason to believe that there are "other women" ... and have had some friends in Ocho trying to find out for me for the past couple of months . . . (yes, I shared that with Nicky too).

Nicky and I spoke several times yesterday, and it was abundantly clear to me that she's believing Corey . . . and that she will continue her plans for the wedding . . . a wedding she's funded for a man she's supporting who she bought a Visa for. Her response . . . "I don't know what to do. I've already sent out the invitations!" Come on. You don't know what to do??? Have some self respect and love for yourself!!!

I would become a celibate monk if I could just get Nicky to open her eyes and SEE what the real deal is. Corey only wants a free ride and he will do whatever it takes to get one. Nicky is a wonderful woman with a big heart -- and Corey's taking advantage of it . . . People! His whole entire family KNEW there were 2 of us being played for a Visa!!! It's a coup for them! Money from the U.S.!!!!

Why did I "wait" until last night to post? I only found out yesterday afternoon about this situation and was directed here by a friend who wanted me to know that I too was being played.

Oh -- and by the way, Nicky's profile does indicate where she lives. I did not divulge anything she hasn't.

It's clear that Nicky's gonna do what Nicky's gonna do . . . but I would HOPE that her friends on this Board would love and care about her enough to help her see what's really going on here -- and the destruction to her life that's so very imminent -- financially and emotionally. I tried several times to talk to her yesterday, but she's only hearing what she wants to hear.

If you don't believe me about the relationship, all of my trip reports about my relationship with Corey are on toesindasand.com. They are entitled Bullet, Bullet, Connect , Where the River Meets the Beach , and A week at the Cottage. I am holding a ticket to return to Ocho to spend Corey's birthday with him on 12/2. Obviously, he hadn't received his interview date when I bought it . . . so he was STILL continuing the game on both of us!

I'm not ashamed for calling a spade a spade. I don't know Nicky . . . but I will do whatever I can to keep her from being used any further. If she, ultimately, makes the choice to marry him . . . so be it. I will at least know that I tried to give her all the information about this man that I could (and ALL of it is supported . . . I read text messages to Nicky that he sent me and she had the SAME ONES!). If Corey and his son come to Orlando, I will never become involved with their lives -- ever. Right now . . . my only mission is to save another woman from making a horrible mistake -- and I truly feel that marrying Corey would be devastating to Nicky's life.

This is ugly . . . ugly for her and for me . . . and for our families. We are all hurting. However, it's really a reflection on Corey himself. This could've been anybody on this Board!!! Wouldn't you want to know ALL the facts before you made a decision to marry somebody like this?????