Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 4)

[Marlita 0]

Okay our compound can be in Virginia . We can make this work We have artist, musicians,teachers, nurses, clerical and government workers what else do we need and who am I missing?

Oh yeah and most of our husbands can cook!!! The Yardie Compound

I vote for Atlanta

Well I'm in Southern Cali, anybody wanna come here?

I've been thinking, the Yardie compund is a really cool idea. But until we can settle on a location hows about we HOUSE SWAP! Kinda like that show Wife Swap, except were not exchanging husbands and wives, were swapping homes for a weekend. If you want to take a quick weekend trip to visit sunny LA, I'd swap my place with you. I'm always down to travel the country and see different states. And how cheap of a trip would that be? Only have to pay for airfare.

[Yaads 0]

Okay our compound can be in Virginia . We can make this work We have artist, musicians,teachers, nurses, clerical and government workers what else do we need and who am I missing?

Oh yeah and most of our husbands can cook!!! The Yardie Compound

I vote for Atlanta

Ohhhh this is sounding good and promising...

I will vote for Atlanta or Chicago...though I have never been to either so really I am up for anything Wow I didn't really committ/vote for anything did I

[*JG* 2]

Okay our compound can be in Virginia . We can make this work We have artist, musicians,teachers, nurses, clerical and government workers what else do we need and who am I missing?

Oh yeah and most of our husbands can cook!!! The Yardie Compound

I vote for Atlanta

Oh, I so love Chicago.....My vote!

Ohhhh this is sounding good and promising...

I will vote for Atlanta or Chicago...though I have never been to either so really I am up for anything Wow I didn't really committ/vote for anything did I

[Shemmy 4]

Okay our compound can be in Virginia . We can make this work We have artist, musicians,teachers, nurses, clerical and government workers what else do we need and who am I missing?

Oh yeah and most of our husbands can cook!!! The Yardie Compound

I vote for Atlanta

Ohhhh this is sounding good and promising...

I will vote for Atlanta or Chicago...though I have never been to either so really I am up for anything Wow I didn't really committ/vote for anything did I

I would love to visit Chicago but it's to cold to live......that's what I'm trying to get away from.

[Yaads 0]

Okay our compound can be in Virginia . We can make this work We have artist, musicians,teachers, nurses, clerical and government workers what else do we need and who am I missing?

Oh yeah and most of our husbands can cook!!! The Yardie Compound

I vote for Atlanta

Well I'm in Southern Cali, anybody wanna come here?

I've been thinking, the Yardie compund is a really cool idea. But until we can settle on a location hows about we HOUSE SWAP! Kinda like that show Wife Swap, except were not exchanging husbands and wives, were swapping homes for a weekend. If you want to take a quick weekend trip to visit sunny LA, I'd swap my place with you. I'm always down to travel the country and see different states. And how cheap of a trip would that be? Only have to pay for airfare.

I don't own a house or anything but if you are up for coming to an apt in the middle of hicksville 100+ miles from any notable city....LET'S SWAP I think that is a GREAT idea but I don't really have a location anyone would really want to come too

Okay our compound can be in Virginia . We can make this work We have artist, musicians,teachers, nurses, clerical and government workers what else do we need and who am I missing?

Oh yeah and most of our husbands can cook!!! The Yardie Compound

I vote for Atlanta

Ohhhh this is sounding good and promising...

I will vote for Atlanta or Chicago...though I have never been to either so really I am up for anything Wow I didn't really committ/vote for anything did I

I would love to visit Chicago but it's to cold to live......that's what I'm trying to get away from.

That is so true! What about Texas...anyone ever been there? Or maybe Arizona...that way we please all age groups as they have retirement communites and family housing

[brownnskinn 0]

Thanks for all the love and support

Just wanted to point something out...we are only separating...I am a firm believer in the marital vows and not divorcing but I also believe that God didn't mean for you to be in a harmful situation (both physical and emotional)

I hope and pray that we are able to work things out and that our marriage can be restored even greater than I can imagine...but you do have to have two willing participants and right now there is only one...

Thanks again everyone

You are soo sweet, and if he knows like we all know he'll get his stuff together cause you deserve sooo much better, and can do much better.

[Yaads 0]

Thanks for all the love and support

Just wanted to point something out...we are only separating...I am a firm believer in the marital vows and not divorcing but I also believe that God didn't mean for you to be in a harmful situation (both physical and emotional)

I hope and pray that we are able to work things out and that our marriage can be restored even greater than I can imagine...but you do have to have two willing participants and right now there is only one...

Thanks again everyone

You are soo sweet, and if he knows like we all know he'll get his stuff together cause you deserve sooo much better, and can do much better.

Thanks

[Shemmy 4]

Thanks for all the love and support

It feels really good to get it all off my chest and not have to keep pretending that everything is "just peachy"...I have already heard from someone that I really helped them out by telling my story so it really does make it all worth it. Plus knowing that I have the support of you all is extremely worth it as well.

Just wanted to point something out...we are only separating...I am a firm believer in the marital vows and not divorcing but I also believe that God didn't mean for you to be in a harmful situation (both physical and emotional)

I hope and pray that we are able to work things out and that our marriage can be restored even greater than I can imagine...but you do have to have two willing participants and right now there is only one...

Thanks again everyone

Jamie, your post will help more people than you'll ever know...trust me .

[Marlita 0]

Thanks for all the love and support

It feels really good to get it all off my chest and not have to keep pretending that everything is "just peachy"...I have already heard from someone that I really helped them out by telling my story so it really does make it all worth it. Plus knowing that I have the support of you all is extremely worth it as well.

Just wanted to point something out...we are only separating...I am a firm believer in the marital vows and not divorcing but I also believe that God didn't mean for you to be in a harmful situation (both physical and emotional)

I hope and pray that we are able to work things out and that our marriage can be restored even greater than I can imagine...but you do have to have two willing participants and right now there is only one...

Thanks again everyone

You make a great point here Jamie. Those vows you take in the eyes of God are strong and powerful when BOTH people hold to them. Yes it is not good to divorce, but God also doesnt call us to live in agony either. I read your story and it touched my heart dearly. I know how draining it is to live with a man JUST like that. In my situation I was not married, but we were together for so long that I honored our relationship as a marriage,...he did not.

After reading this post I thought of a scripture that stood out to me, and I wanted to share it with you. I Corinthians 7:10-11; 7:15, the latter being the kicker.

Keep strong in your faith, God will give you the answers to make the best decision for YOURSELF.

[nyseness 0]

Oh my Jamie. I'm am truly sorry for all that has happen to you as well. I don't blame you for wanting to work it out. You too have been together for years but not only that he is your husband. You are a strong woman so keep your head up and hope everything works out for the best. Sometimes ppl don't realize what they have until it's gone. We're here to support you no matter what...((((hugs))))

[Yaads 0]

Thanks again...I am so grateful for all the support

Future VJ Compound

Ok so this place is AWESOME! It is in Texas but it is 80 acres and take a look at the pics…can we say Bashment headquarters Plus Texas is warm and there is direct flight service via Houston to JA...Come on people the writting is on the wall

[nyseness 0]

I have a tax question too. I efiled online with softwear I purchased, however I haven't mailed any copies of the return. The softwear never said I had to, anyone know if I need to send anything in to the state or the IRS, I suppose they need a copy of the w2??

What is an ITIN number?

Dee - I have been filing my own taxes every since college when I learn how to do them and I always use those online tax services. You don't have to mail the w-2 when you do electronic filing. The IRS can always obtain those records from the employer (with the employer #). It's imperative that those #'s are correct.

ITIN is an Individual Taypayer Identification Number used to tax purposes only. It's for ppl who does not qualify for a social security # and needs to file a US tax return.

Miss Jones - If I remember correctly amended returns are supplement to the original return. For the interview I would recommend you sending your husband both. Make you get a tax transcript prior to the interview as well. Try calling IRS @ 800-829-1040 about your ITIN application b/c I'm not sure how that works w/an amended return.

Thanks again...I am so grateful for all the support

Future VJ Compound

Ok so this place is AWESOME! It is in Texas but it is 80 acres and take a look at the pics…can we say Bashment headquarters Plus Texas is warm and there is direct flight service via Houston to JA...Come on people the writting is on the wall

It's beautiful..but way out of my pocket book reach..

[Yaads 0]

Thanks again...I am so grateful for all the support

Future VJ Compound

Ok so this place is AWESOME! It is in Texas but it is 80 acres and take a look at the pics…can we say Bashment headquarters Plus Texas is warm and there is direct flight service via Houston to JA...Come on people the writting is on the wall

It's beautiful..but way out of my pocket book reach..

Yeah but figure another million to build some nice houses and divide that by 20 = $120,000 each couple

[Dwarf_Ogress 0]

Future Mrs.... when i went to the interview all they wanted was 1 year!!! but like darlene said better to be over prepared!!!

about the co-sponser yes they need to fill out the 1-864...you need form them...bank statments, letter form their employer, and a copy of their birth certificate...all that info is with the form....you don't need to get it noterized either

Ah-ha! It was you nannygirl who had posted that before! Thanks!

Thanks to everyone else too for answering my questions!

[nyseness 0]

Question:

I have been looking for my 2004 W-2 for quite some time now but can't seem to locate them. Do you guys think my 2004-2006 tax transcripts and 2005-2006 W-2's would be enough for the interview?