Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 4)

[Sonshyne 2]

Good morning Yardies,

I'm here at work watching the clock.... I am on my way to JA tonight

[darlene 0]

Good morning Yardies,

I'm here at work watching the clock.... I am on my way to JA tonight

Finally bringing your honey home. Have a safe trip both ways.

[darlene 0]

Finally got the RFE for the vaccination supplement. It only took them 2 plus months to notice it. Sent if overnight yesterday so they will get it today. Now we will see how long it takes. Still no movement on the EAD.

It is nice to see the positive vibe coming back to this thread. My thoughts and prayers are always with everyone going through the good and the no so good times. Hang in there!

[Marie876 0]

Good morning Yardies,

I'm here at work watching the clock.... I am on my way to JA tonight

Yay! Have a safe flight

[Sonshyne 2]

Good morning Yardies,

I'm here at work watching the clock.... I am on my way to JA tonight

Finally bringing your honey home. Have a safe trip both ways.

Thanks Darlene

Good morning Yardies,

I'm here at work watching the clock.... I am on my way to JA tonight

Yay! Have a safe flight

Thanks to you too Marie

[Texas Bound 0]

Congrats to those who are welcoming their bundles of joy.

[jlvr 1]

Good morning Yardies,

I'm here at work watching the clock.... I am on my way to JA tonight

Have a good trip! Are you turning right back around or are you staying for a few days?

Unfortunately, I think that this forum has outlived it's phase of positiveness and helpfulness (as far as I am concerned) and is now doing more harm than good. While I won't be coming back, I will definitely update my timeline as applicable so as to help those who follow after us.

I'm sorry you're leaving

Ladies, LISTEN UP! We need to turn this thread back around!! The Yardies are droppin off like flies We want everyone to be comfortable saying whatever they want to say - share, vent, cry, brag, ask questions, WHATEVER! NO MORE NEGATIVE COMMENTS Do you guys agree?

You do realize that these are two contradictory statements?

[nannygirl82 0]

Good morning Yardies,

I'm here at work watching the clock.... I am on my way to JA tonight

Have a good trip! Are you turning right back around or are you staying for a few days?

Unfortunately, I think that this forum has outlived it's phase of positiveness and helpfulness (as far as I am concerned) and is now doing more harm than good. While I won't be coming back, I will definitely update my timeline as applicable so as to help those who follow after us.

I'm sorry you're leaving

Ladies, LISTEN UP! We need to turn this thread back around!! The Yardies are droppin off like flies We want everyone to be comfortable saying whatever they want to say - share, vent, cry, brag, ask questions, WHATEVER! NO MORE NEGATIVE COMMENTS Do you guys agree?

You do realize that these are two contradictory statements?

why?????

[nannygirl82 0]

sonshyne.....when are you guys getting married???

texas....how are things with you guys???

Darlene....i am taking mike to get his done on friday for the price of 295...she said that includes everything...i told her i have his vac. card and chest exrays and she said bring all that in and the price should go down....i am thinking ya it better....it is such a scam!!! you can only pay in cash....

[jlvr 1]

Good morning Yardies,

I'm here at work watching the clock.... I am on my way to JA tonight

Have a good trip! Are you turning right back around or are you staying for a few days?

Unfortunately, I think that this forum has outlived it's phase of positiveness and helpfulness (as far as I am concerned) and is now doing more harm than good. While I won't be coming back, I will definitely update my timeline as applicable so as to help those who follow after us.

I'm sorry you're leaving

Ladies, LISTEN UP! We need to turn this thread back around!! The Yardies are droppin off like flies We want everyone to be comfortable saying whatever they want to say - share, vent, cry, brag, ask questions, WHATEVER! NO MORE NEGATIVE COMMENTS Do you guys agree?

You do realize that these are two contradictory statements?

why?????

Because if everyone is comfortable saying whatever they want to say, that includes negative comments.

[Yaads 0]

Just because something you say is “negative” doesn’t mean it has to be said b!tchy, condesending, mean, cruel, judgemental, hurtful, offensive, demeaning, degrading, rude, mean-spirited, aggressive, destructive, detrimental,distressing, harmful, malicious, spiteful, hateful, unkind, upsetting, wounding, antagonistic, bad-natured, petty, vengeful, venomous, vicious, insulting, insinuating, wicked or evil.

Plenty of things can be said that are “negative” in a much nicer, helpful, friendly, affirming, life giving way.

Back in the day we all sure as hell didn’t agree on everything and we all didn’t see eye to eye but we were family and best of friends. We had each others back through EVERYTHING. We were out to be helpful and supportive. Lets get back to that.

Realize that this visajourney is emotional and frustrating and all those other emotions. There will be ups and downs and success and failures and of course numerous challenges. I know that I have said many a thing out of pure adrenalin and emotions. I probably didn’t say it “politically correct” and nice and rosy, I didn't think of how every single person could interpret it or misconstrue what I was saying. I just spoke from emotions and from the heart. That is how friends and family work. No need to be PC or censor your true feelings.

Please everyone lets just be respectful. Remember also that to some this is nothing more than a forum to ask visa questions but too others it is a lifeline of support and a group of family. It means a lot to some people and we would like it to continue (and get back to) a place where people can feel SAFE and LOVED.

Jamie

[*JG* 2]

Everyone sees everything differently. It's hard to please everyone with what you say.

I always hate when people say they want you to give them advice or your opinion; but when it differs from theirs, they take offense.

[darlene 0]

sonshyne.....when are you guys getting married???

texas....how are things with you guys???

Darlene....i am taking mike to get his done on friday for the price of 295...she said that includes everything...i told her i have his vac. card and chest exrays and she said bring all that in and the price should go down....i am thinking ya it better....it is such a scam!!! you can only pay in cash....

You don't need to get a whole physical done again. They should only be transcribing his vaccination card to their form and if he needs any other shot. Bert got 2 shots and they did the correct form for free.... If they insist on another physical I would call around.

[ChristineJames 0]

Everyone sees everything differently. It's hard to please everyone with what you say.

I always hate when people say they want you to give them advice or your opinion; but when it differs from theirs, they take offense.

Exactly!!!

But I still don't know who or what was said that was so destructive to the thread. It don't matter. We got other things to talk about. (lol....like Im even in the same boat as yall). I'm starting to think I'm nuts!!!!! lol

[*JG* 2]

Everyone sees everything differently. It's hard to please everyone with what you say.

I always hate when people say they want you to give them advice or your opinion; but when it differs from theirs, they take offense.

Exactly!!!

But I still don't know who or what was said that was so destructive to the thread. It don't matter. We got other things to talk about. (lol....like Im even in the same boat as yall). I'm starting to think I'm nuts!!!!! lol

I KNOW you are nuts. But, I love you anyhow.

Having a hard time seeing you as Christine James, Jill. What is that?