Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 4)

[JA Tam 7]

ur right Gill. we talked about alot of things b4 he came, with help from the VJ fam. I saw alot of experiences posted and I'D tell him about them. He's like how u know..I say it happened to my friend

Our nightly conversations start out like this, "I was on VJ today and...." He has gotten so use to it by now

[*JG* 2]

Everyone I know says the program is all that and a bag of chips

Roy STILL thinks it a great thing -- even though he has been here for over a year and sees how much things cost. He STILL believes the "tales" he was told about the "program" -- give me a break......that's exactly what I want to do to him sometimes -- break a frickin' bottle over his head in hopes of getting him to snap out of it.

You know, the more I talk to you, the more I see a lot of similarities. We should probably not get together when one of us is every in one of those angry moods. Or if we ever do, the men should probably stay home!

ur right Gill. we talked about alot of things b4 he came, with help from the VJ fam. I saw alot of experiences posted and I'D tell him about them. He's like how u know..I say it happened to my friend

Our nightly conversations start out like this, "I was on VJ today and...." He has gotten so use to it by now

OMG.........I say this nearly every single day. It doesn't end with the visa, girl!

[JA Tam 7]

Our nightly conversations start out like this, "I was on VJ today and...." He has gotten so use to it by now

OMG.........I say this nearly every single day. It doesn't end with the visa, girl!

I know it doesn't...

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Our nightly conversations start out like this, "I was on VJ today and...." He has gotten so use to it by now

OMG.........I say this nearly every single day. It doesn't end with the visa, girl!

I know it doesn't...

oH LORD IT DOESN'T !!

[SweetSugahDumplin 0]

did I say I did ? do u ever think why someone of these ppl go the illegal route..they make it almost impossible for anyone to get a visa. Don't get me wrong, I don't agree with braking laws and going against rules, but if they grant a couple extra work visas so ppl can get out of the country and provide better for their families then maybe fraud wouldn't be so high. If u look at it alot of ppl who leave JA is to come make money that in JA u have to work a whole year and go back home to better than what they had. That's all I'm saying. they lock up plenty of people in this country everyday for having weed on them do they get a blood test to see if they're using? They get fined depending on the quantity and released back into society, are they still going to USE ILLEGAL drugs ?

Fi real Aliengirl..dem a seh arite u waan come inna wi country (the bed of roses0 we ago mek u pay out u ####### and them mek u beg..out a order

Well, do you really expect the Embassy to let anyone and everyone have a visa? I don't blame them one bit. If someone tests positive for drug use, it's safe to assume they're going to continue to use drugs when they come to the U.S. - which is ILLEGAL! So why would they let them have a visa?

Can I ask you guys something about the work visas? Does anyone know anything about them?

Reason I ask.....we have some friends who have come to the US on those work programs. They are forever calling and saying they are hungry and need us to send them some cash. How do they pay these people? Do you guys know if housing is charged against salary? And, what kind of preparation is needed on the part of the applicants?.....I mean, like cash reserves or something? It just seems to me, the people we know are ill prepared to come on these programs.

Anyone know anything about these?

Only thing i know is that my fiances ex has one of those they sent her to florida i think she works in a hotel but works more hours than we normally do and she gets paid nine dollars an hour

[Forever Young 1]

ur right Gill. we talked about alot of things b4 he came, with help from the VJ fam. I saw alot of experiences posted and I'D tell him about them. He's like how u know..I say it happened to my friend

hAHAHA..I bet u do..so than can STOP callin ur darn PHONE ..ahahhaaaa

You hit the nail on the head. Solved the problem by not answering the phone anymore. On Sunday, after a particularly frustrating day, I told him if one person called and asked for money yesterday, I was going to take the (insert favorite cuss word) phone and drive over it with my car!!!!!

Yuh a turn Bad gyal now, Jomo?...you are too dyam funny! But I hear you! I already had that conversation with Ken too! "You and I shall not be working fi support the whole of your brethen dem!" He understood that much! I got..."Yuh MAD!!!" from him, but we'll see.

I really read this thread and try to explain stuff that may become an issue from now...in the hopes that we can lessen some of the problems when 'im reach! Like Bob says..."Time will tell"

Fi real!!! Last night our topic of conversation was poor Empress' issue!! He doesn't really smoke...but I wanted to reiterate...just in case! Again...I got..."Ooman,yuh Mad a who? Nuh suh, mi sorry fi deh Sistren, she deserve better than dat. But dat nuh guh reach we!!! I need fi inna deh States wid mi wife & family!!"

I am just so grateful that people here share the good as well as the bad...so others can learn from them!

Edited September 11, 2007 by Deyoungting

[JA Tam 7]

Fi real!!! Last night our topic of conversation was poor Empress' issue!! He doesn't really smoke...but I wanted to reiterate...just in case! Again...I got..."Ooman,yuh Mad a who? Nuh suh, mi sorry fi deh Sistren, she deserve better than dat. But dat nuh guh reach we!!! I need fi inna deh States wid mi wife & family!!"

I am just so grateful that people here share the good as well as the bad...so others can learn from them!

Totally agree. Called hubby at lunchtime and told him. He said the same thing.

[SweetSugahDumplin 0]

Fi real!!! Last night our topic of conversation was poor Empress' issue!! He doesn't really smoke...but I wanted to reiterate...just in case! Again...I got..."Ooman,yuh Mad a who? Nuh suh, mi sorry fi deh Sistren, she deserve better than dat. But dat nuh guh reach we!!! I need fi inna deh States wid mi wife & family!!"

I am just so grateful that people here share the good as well as the bad...so others can learn from them!

Totally agree. Called hubby at lunchtime and told him. He said the same thing.

I am stressing now over the second hand weed smoke i know u guys said not to worry but if around it all day with friends i cant see how it would not enter ur system his friend was just smoking in the car i ask him not too! he still did and fiance said nothing which kkinda piss me off! its like he dont think and hes so stubborn he think he know it all sometimes but something so serious as passing ur medical and gettin the visa so we can be togher id stay as far away from tht stuff as possible

[*JG* 2]

Fi real!!! Last night our topic of conversation was poor Empress' issue!! He doesn't really smoke...but I wanted to reiterate...just in case! Again...I got..."Ooman,yuh Mad a who? Nuh suh, mi sorry fi deh Sistren, she deserve better than dat. But dat nuh guh reach we!!! I need fi inna deh States wid mi wife & family!!"

I am just so grateful that people here share the good as well as the bad...so others can learn from them!

Totally agree. Called hubby at lunchtime and told him. He said the same thing.

I used this same topic when Andre was in Jamaica....it was Jilly....um Christine James who I used as an example. I actually told him if he did that to me, I would fly down there and kill him....I didn't work this hard to get him that far to be turned away for that reason. I meant it too!

Which is why I like to see the good, the bad, and the ugly on here. We can all learn something from everyone.

Edited September 11, 2007 by Jomo's girl

[JA Tam 7]

I am stressing now over the second hand weed smoke i know u guys said not to worry but if around it all day with friends i cant see how it would not enter ur system his friend was just smoking in the car i ask him not too! he still did and fiance said nothing which kkinda piss me off! its like he dont think and hes so stubborn he think he know it all sometimes but something so serious as passing ur medical and gettin the visa so we can be togher id stay as far away from tht stuff as possible

Yuh anywhere near him? ***Not condoning violence*** but give him one good lick What is he thinking? Him nuh realize yu telling him this for a reason? If I were him, I would not take any chances.

[*JG* 2]

Fi real!!! Last night our topic of conversation was poor Empress' issue!! He doesn't really smoke...but I wanted to reiterate...just in case! Again...I got..."Ooman,yuh Mad a who? Nuh suh, mi sorry fi deh Sistren, she deserve better than dat. But dat nuh guh reach we!!! I need fi inna deh States wid mi wife & family!!"

I am just so grateful that people here share the good as well as the bad...so others can learn from them!

Totally agree. Called hubby at lunchtime and told him. He said the same thing.

I am stressing now over the second hand weed smoke i know u guys said not to worry but if around it all day with friends i cant see how it would not enter ur system his friend was just smoking in the car i ask him not too! he still did and fiance said nothing which kkinda piss me off! its like he dont think and hes so stubborn he think he know it all sometimes but something so serious as passing ur medical and gettin the visa so we can be togher id stay as far away from tht stuff as possible

I never even thought of that part of the issue until Andre ran screaming out the room one night when we were on the phone. Turns out his friends lit up around him. Glad he had more common sense there then I did to think of it.

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sO TRUE..I didn't know about the 3yr ban until I got on here..which I was frantic and reschdule the interview. I didn't believe me they test for ganja.."mi no tink so, only HIV and dem ting deh" yeah, told him empress's story he could not believe it and felt so bad for her...

[JA Tam 7]

Fi real!!! Last night our topic of conversation was poor Empress' issue!! He doesn't really smoke...but I wanted to reiterate...just in case! Again...I got..."Ooman,yuh Mad a who? Nuh suh, mi sorry fi deh Sistren, she deserve better than dat. But dat nuh guh reach we!!! I need fi inna deh States wid mi wife & family!!"

I am just so grateful that people here share the good as well as the bad...so others can learn from them!

Totally agree. Called hubby at lunchtime and told him. He said the same thing.

I am stressing now over the second hand weed smoke i know u guys said not to worry but if around it all day with friends i cant see how it would not enter ur system his friend was just smoking in the car i ask him not too! he still did and fiance said nothing which kkinda piss me off! its like he dont think and hes so stubborn he think he know it all sometimes but something so serious as passing ur medical and gettin the visa so we can be togher id stay as far away from tht stuff as possible

I never even thought of that part of the issue until Andre ran screaming out the room one night when we were on the phone. Turns out his friends lit up around him. Glad he had more common sense there then I did to think of it.

Looks like you put the fear of God into him

[Forever Young 1]

Fi real!!! Last night our topic of conversation was poor Empress' issue!! He doesn't really smoke...but I wanted to reiterate...just in case! Again...I got..."Ooman,yuh Mad a who? Nuh suh, mi sorry fi deh Sistren, she deserve better than dat. But dat nuh guh reach we!!! I need fi inna deh States wid mi wife & family!!"

I am just so grateful that people here share the good as well as the bad...so others can learn from them!

Totally agree. Called hubby at lunchtime and told him. He said the same thing.

I used this same topic when Andre was in Jamaica....it was Jilly....um Christine James who I used as an example. I actually told him if he did that to me, I would fly down there and kill him....I didn't work this hard to get him that far to be turned away for that reason. I meant it too!

Which is why I like to see the good, the bad, and the ugly on here. We can all learn something from everyone.

Good for you, Bad Gyal Jomo ! Yuh dyam right fi have told him that! Trust me I pretty much said the same thing last night!! If 'im eva!!!! This is no easy process and to go through the whole thing fi git denied due to GANJA!!! <Surrrrrps> -'im nuh see mad yet!!!

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Fi mi..just tink him did ag have "enough" time to stop b4 the medical..look we was scheduled and didn't even know about it. Him an him bitters...mi did a go dash him an di bitters off a building dem smoke a road so mi neva worry bout 2nd hand..but di 1st was the problem

Edited September 11, 2007 by kimmykashi