Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 4)

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

She a act like mi a tek her man..a dat..cause him a seh she a gwaan like she a him ooman and not him modda

bwaay she nuh easy a rass....

but hear wah, nuh matta weh she duh, nuh gi har nuh reason fi seh yuh disrespect har....mek she stay deh an gwaan all shi wah, but nuh stoop to har level.

Caws nex ting yuh a guh hear seh a yuh a tun har son mine fram har.

Just respon to har foolishess wid politeness.

that's exactly what my father is saying but it's so hard u know and mi really bite mi tongue cause I'm not the one at all. It really upsets me cause all these yrs we've have a descent relationship u know..even when she do sey her foolishness..but mi leave it up to him fi deal wid..a fi him modda

bwaay, mi stay like yuh, mi nuh inna di biting tongue business, but sometimes yuh haffi juss suffa it. Good ting seh Kashi ketch di drift, him nuh look like him a guh put up wid di foolishness.....

Sometimes yuh feel yuh know people fi how much years, but den yuh realize seh yuh nuh know dem at all....Den again, maybe di reason she a gwaan suh is she feel har guilt a bit har seh yuh duh more fi him dan she duh, and right now him nuh need har fi nutting...she juss a try lay awn di guilt trip ting fi try mek sure seh she remain part a unu lives.....Hopefully she check harself before things get nuh worse, caws di way she a guh, yuh husband a guh get mad....

[SupportOAFJF 0]

She a act like mi a tek her man..a dat..cause him a seh she a gwaan like she a him ooman and not him modda

bwaay she nuh easy a rass....

but hear wah, nuh matta weh she duh, nuh gi har nuh reason fi seh yuh disrespect har....mek she stay deh an gwaan all shi wah, but nuh stoop to har level.

Caws nex ting yuh a guh hear seh a yuh a tun har son mine fram har.

Just respon to har foolishess wid politeness.

that's exactly what my father is saying but it's so hard u know and mi really bite mi tongue cause I'm not the one at all. It really upsets me cause all these yrs we've have a descent relationship u know..even when she do sey her foolishness..but mi leave it up to him fi deal wid..a fi him modda

bwaay, mi stay like yuh, mi nuh inna di biting tongue business, but sometimes yuh haffi juss suffa it. Good ting seh Kashi ketch di drift, him nuh look like him a guh put up wid di foolishness.....

Sometimes yuh feel yuh know people fi how much years, but den yuh realize seh yuh nuh know dem at all....Den again, maybe di reason she a gwaan suh is she feel har guilt a bit har seh yuh duh more fi him dan she duh, and right now him nuh need har fi nutting...she juss a try lay awn di guilt trip ting fi try mek sure seh she remain part a unu lives.....Hopefully she check harself before things get nuh worse, caws di way she a guh, yuh husband a guh get mad....

Ur right...she is guilty and him know how she stay u know...u made poor choices and her kids suffa fi it..and I AM gonna kill her with kindness...it is her own guilt

[Empress 0]

Kim just make sure YOU stay out of it. Betta yet, join her. Be like I told him to call you uno I don't know what wrong with him sometimes. You don't want to give her any reason to say anything bad about you. She will forgive her son but she may never forgive you and that's just unecessary problems. Hang in there and give tanks, like I said, you don't have to live with her. lol

Anyway how is it having him here? Details please

JALOVE, just have hubby call a few labs in Mobay anyone of them should be able to do a drug test for him. And he should definately avoid second hand smoke as much as possible. If they are truly his friends they will respect the fact that this is his future and will not smoke around him. Wait until he actually has an interview date and then schedule him for the pre test. If he's clean, proceed to schedule the medical if not, call and have the interview changed for 2-3 months later.

[*JG* 2]

Kim just make sure YOU stay out of it. Betta yet, join her. Be like I told him to call you uno I don't know what wrong with him sometimes. You don't want to give her any reason to say anything bad about you. She will forgive her son but she may never forgive you and that's just unecessary problems. Hang in there and give tanks, like I said, you don't have to live with her. lol

Anyway how is it having him here? Details please

JALOVE, just have hubby call a few labs in Mobay anyone of them should be able to do a drug test for him. And he should definately avoid second hand smoke as much as possible. If they are truly his friends they will respect the fact that this is his future and will not smoke around him. Wait until he actually has an interview date and then schedule him for the pre test. If he's clean, proceed to schedule the medical if not, call and have the interview changed for 2-3 months later.

I tried that whole stay out of it thing a few times. Eventually, I couldn't hold my tongue and jumped right in with my opinions. Voicing my opinions really made my MIL step back and realize I wasn't going to be walked all over, nor let her do that to her son anymore.

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

Im on a roll with the questions today... thanks for all your replies. One more concern i have. Chris does not smoke weed BUT his two brother and friend do and he works in close proximity to them allll dayyyy oh boy....will this show up in his medical? I recall readin somwhere in this thread abt pre testing not sure where i saw it cant find it but does anyone know where he can get this done in Mobay area? or should i be worried ???

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They do random drug tests where I work, they said　for second hand smoke to show up on a test, would be the equivalent of being one of 8 people in a phone box where the other 7 were smoking for 24 hours.....

[SweetSugahDumplin 0]

Im on a roll with the questions today... thanks for all your replies. One more concern i have. Chris does not smoke weed BUT his two brother and friend do and he works in close proximity to them allll dayyyy oh boy....will this show up in his medical? I recall readin somwhere in this thread abt pre testing not sure where i saw it cant find it but does anyone know where he can get this done in Mobay area? or should i be worried ???

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They do random drug tests where I work, they said　for second hand smoke to show up on a test, would be the equivalent of being one of 8 people in a phone box where the other 7 were smoking for 24 hours.....

Them guys smoke allll dayyy long i neva in my life seen anything like it !

[Jamaica to CT 0]

Best wishes to everyone interviewing tomorrow!!

Congratulations Rhonda. What a relief

[SweetSugahDumplin 0]

found more info on the police record someone sent me a link http://www.jamaicapolice.org.jm/ccn_faq.html

HOW TO OBTAIN A POLICE RECORD:- Persons who require a Police Record should visit the Ministry of National Security at the Mutual Life building at 3 Oxford Road, Kingston 5, Mondays through Fridays between 9 am and 2pm. Applicants will need to provide two (2) certified passport size photographs, a valid Jamaican Passport, a processing fee of JA$1,000.00 for regular service or JA$2,000.00 for express service. The regular service sees the completion of the process in 21 days while the express, in 3 . After the application is processed he/she is issued with a receipt which is to be taken to 79 East Street, where the applicant is fingerprinted. At the end of the above specified period, applicants should return to 79 East Street where the Police Record may be collected

HOW TO OBTAIN A POLICE RECORD - Persons living abroad:- If the person applying for the record is living abroad then he/she will need to furnish the person applying for the record on his/her behalf, with finger prints, a certificate of character from a Notary Public/Lay Magistrate, two (2) certified passport size photographs and a letter of consent authorising the application. These documents are to be taken to the new Mutual Life building at 3 Oxford Road, Kingston 5.

[Sonshyne 2]

Best wishes on the upcoming interviews

We found a house and our offer was accepted

Congrats Rhonda now you can relax and get ready to enjoy your trip to JA

[Sonshyne 2]

However, my analness is more towards forcing him to become as independent as possible. I don't need another child to take care of and I make sure he knows it......has always known it. Mi nuh ez, ya kno.

Sounds like me.

Mi nuh ez, ya kno. I get told this almost every day...

Still know word from MYdestiny, I pray that all is well.

Edited August 14, 2007 by Sonshyne

[12/11/2006 0]

But stop, a wah gwaan pon VJ today

Husband beater !

A pure foolishness dat! People weird..crazy....sick

[Jengles 0]

We found a house and our offer was accepted Thank goodness. Tony is leaving for Jamaica at 6am and I'm leaving on Saturday. I wanted to be able to relax and if I was going to be homeless soon, I wouldn't have relaxed much!

Now I just have to worry about packing for JA and THEN packing and moving my whole house Hopefully, the timing of everything will go smoothly. Thanks for all of your support.

Congrats girl. Packing and moving is a Biii@@@! I still has stuff in boxes in my garage since I bought my house and moved in in December 2005. My heart goes out to you. Do not drag anything you won't use to the new place. But you must know that. LOL

Claire

I got you beat..try Jan 1998..

Mrs Jengles;

First fall project for Mr. Jengles....Clean out the garage. LOL LOL

Oh he already told me he's throwing everything away...i don't even know whats in my basement anymore...but i'm fine with it...as long as i'm not doing the work

[Shemmy 4]

The time to file would have been several years ago when you didn't even need to have an appointment. When you had all your docs together you just showed up at the embassy between certain times on certain days for your interview. Oh to have gone through the process then

that's for sure. We had it easy...the only complaint I had was the for the K1 went from $110 to $165 right before I applied. No appointment at the Embassy, drop off packages or marriage certificate. The new changes and prices make me

Rhonda - good luck on finding your new house.

Good luck on interviews tomorrow.

[Empress 0]

Tomorrow August 14

Prayers are in order for:

Sarah & Marlon

Kkholiday and Beau

Jay & Donna

May nothing but good news be reported!

time flies when your addicted to VJ lol

[JA Tam 7]

Tomorrow August 14

Prayers are in order for:

Sarah & Marlon

Kkholiday and Beau

Jay & Donna

May nothing but good news be reported!

time flies when your addicted to VJ lol

For real...We'll be praying for our VJ'ers who are interviewing tomorrow. May God be with them and we know they are well prepared for the interview.