Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 4)

[Dwarf_Ogress 0]

I am not crazy!

I just work alot and most of the time when I am free I can't call Marlon because he is sleeping! We both know how expensive it is to call each other so we keep it to a minimum. Since I got my home phone I have been calling him more, about 3 times a week due to the interview approaching. When I went to Jamaica I stayed with him both times and he paid for my food and expenses while I was there. I will remove my siggy as obviously I am getting some flack for it.

[kingstonjamaica 3]

I am sure the school fees vary by thousands in regards to what school you attend and where it is located. I found this little bit of info from a website.

Education is expensive in Jamaica. For instance, to have their child attend a Jamaican high school, the family must pay tuition (“school fees”); plus, the family must bear the full cost of transportation, books, uniforms, and school supplies. Depending upon which high school a student attends (determined by the results of the GSAT—Sixth Grade Achievement Test), the cost for one year of high school (including school lunches) ranges from about $1,250 to $2,750 (U.S.).

Link

Wow...that's kinda expensive. Thanks for all your responses.

My "adopted" daughter in JA wants to finish high school. She's 17 with an one year-old daughter. I was wondering if we could help her financially. I spoke with her briefly last night and she said it will cost around $900 (US) and one math book cost $5800 We got disconnected so I'll more info this weekend. Thanks again.

The cost for one year of high school is no where near $1250(US) THe average school fee cost about $10000(JA) Parents don't give kids more than $500 per day and that is if you travel from, lets say ST Thomas to Kingston for schol. They should be home by 4pm anyways. some schools have a book rental system because books change with the grade. However CXC syudents will have to buy their books, but each book cost less than $2500(JA) $5800 for a math book is ridiculous. That can buy 3 CXC books 1 Math, 1 physics and 1 social Studies. If one Year of High School really cost $80something (JA) ( school fee, books lunch and bus fare) what would happen to the parent who works minimum wage and has two kids in high school???? That's totally unbelievable.

[Marie876 0]

Wow..I haven't been on in awhile. Most of you probably don't even know me, lol. I just got done reading through 20 pages and it looks like a lot has happened.

I was in Jamaica for 2 weeks and got to spend a lot of time with my boyfriend. I miss him sooo much! We're still debating between the CR1 and the K1. I prefer the K1 because I want him here with me asap. I just need to realize it will take some time.

I start my last year of college at the end of the month and I'm anxious to get it over with. I'm only 20 and not sure when I'll start my VisaJourney but I know the time will come when its right.

I'll keep reading posts and gaining more knowledge from everyone's experiences. Congrats to the recent approvals and best wishes to those interviews coming up!

Marie

[clairern 0]

I am not crazy!

I just work alot and most of the time when I am free I can't call Marlon because he is sleeping! We both know how expensive it is to call each other so we keep it to a minimum. Since I got my home phone I have been calling him more, about 3 times a week due to the interview approaching. When I went to Jamaica I stayed with him both times and he paid for my food and expenses while I was there. I will remove my siggy as obviously I am getting some flack for it.

No baby, don't do that we will miss you. I don't think it was meant in a bad way. We were just wondering how you go so long without talking to Marlon. I for one know how expensive the phone bill can be my home and cell phone bills have increased exponentially since I started talking with Michael, even though I bought him a megaphone. When I don't hear from him the whole day I feel so empty. It was was good ribbing. No offence meant. We know we have to overcome obstacles to be with our loved ones. In the end the prize will be worth the sacrifices you make. I know because I am a single mother of a 17 yo who is starting college next week and the expense is killing me. I am sorry if you felt offended.

So "Please don't go!!!!!!!!

Claire

[Empress 0]

I am not crazy!

I just work alot and most of the time when I am free I can't call Marlon because he is sleeping! We both know how expensive it is to call each other so we keep it to a minimum. Since I got my home phone I have been calling him more, about 3 times a week due to the interview approaching. When I went to Jamaica I stayed with him both times and he paid for my food and expenses while I was there. I will remove my siggy as obviously I am getting some flack for it.

while I don't think anyone was judging you by their remarks please dont let others' opinions get under your skin. You don't have to explain to anyone why you do or don't do certain things in your relationship. You and Marlon are the only ones who know what is best for your relationship and whatever that is needs no justification. I honestly think people were just really shocked but not in a good or bad way...simply shocked. And I doubt it very much that they intended to hurt your feelings.

When I read your sig I was actually impressed. When I called my former cell company to send me a copy of my bills and went over them...I said to myself most of these calls were completely unnecessary, in retrospect. And I wish I would have been able to control my impulse phone calls; one of my calls was $81 just because I didn;t use a phone card and refused to hang up. If I could get back some of that money now I don't even want to think about it. So I really commend you for having a good handle on your finances and discipline to stick to a bugdet.

don't let anyone get you down you have too much to worry about in these next days.

[brownnskinn 0]

The cost for one year of high school is no where near $1250(US) THe average school fee cost about $10000(JA) Parents don't give kids more than $500 per day and that is if you travel from, lets say ST Thomas to Kingston for schol. They should be home by 4pm anyways. some schools have a book rental system because books change with the grade. However CXC syudents will have to buy their books, but each book cost less than $2500(JA) $5800 for a math book is ridiculous. That can buy 3 CXC books 1 Math, 1 physics and 1 social Studies. If one Year of High School really cost $80something (JA) ( school fee, books lunch and bus fare) what would happen to the parent who works minimum wage and has two kids in high school???? That's totally unbelievable.

So how much is that in US money. $160 a year for the school fee?

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

I am sure the school fees vary by thousands in regards to what school you attend and where it is located. I found this little bit of info from a website.

Education is expensive in Jamaica. For instance, to have their child attend a Jamaican high school, the family must pay tuition (“school fees”); plus, the family must bear the full cost of transportation, books, uniforms, and school supplies. Depending upon which high school a student attends (determined by the results of the GSAT—Sixth Grade Achievement Test), the cost for one year of high school (including school lunches) ranges from about $1,250 to $2,750 (U.S.).

Link

Wow...that's kinda expensive. Thanks for all your responses.

My "adopted" daughter in JA wants to finish high school. She's 17 with an one year-old daughter. I was wondering if we could help her financially. I spoke with her briefly last night and she said it will cost around $900 (US) and one math book cost $5800 We got disconnected so I'll more info this weekend. Thanks again.

The cost for one year of high school is no where near $1250(US) THe average school fee cost about $10000(JA) Parents don't give kids more than $500 per day and that is if you travel from, lets say ST Thomas to Kingston for schol. They should be home by 4pm anyways. some schools have a book rental system because books change with the grade. However CXC syudents will have to buy their books, but each book cost less than $2500(JA) $5800 for a math book is ridiculous. That can buy 3 CXC books 1 Math, 1 physics and 1 social Studies. If one Year of High School really cost $80something (JA) ( school fee, books lunch and bus fare) what would happen to the parent who works minimum wage and has two kids in high school???? That's totally unbelievable.

I agree. Ask her for the names of the books and check prices. Here are some book prices, $5800 sounds too much.

http://www.consumeraffairsjamaica.gov.jm/p..._downtown02.htm

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

and here

http://www.consumeraffairsjamaica.gov.jm/BLVD.htm

[JA Tam 7]

Hubby was just called to come pick up his PASSPORT !! ) hurraaaayyyy !!

Kimmy,

Silly question, but I just wanted to clarify. Your hubby didn't have to go to the courier service to have them deliver his passport? If he did. can he get the money back that he paid?

[BelwinMills 0]

Hubby was just called to come pick up his PASSPORT !! ) hurraaaayyyy !!

Kimmy,

Silly question, but I just wanted to clarify. Your hubby didn't have to go to the courier service to have them deliver his passport? If he did. can he get the money back that he paid?

In my situation. You go across the street with your pink sheet and pay courier to get it delivered. Around us 7 bucks. No you can't get the money back. Then they call you at the post office to pick it up when it is delivered.

Congrats Kimmy!!

[BelwinMills 0]

I have a question for Kimmy or BelwinMills (or any other CR1/IR1 person who already has their visa)

My husband told me last night that in the interview letter from the embassy it tells him to be prepared to pay $345 for the visa and $40 for security. But I know I paid for this already. Is this just a generic letter or do we have to pay more money? I have the letters from the NVC saying they have received payment for the visa, do we just show this at the interview? What did you guys do?

thanks

You only pay 7 dollars USA or 550JA to have the visa sent. Your right you already paid these fees.

[BelwinMills 0]

Wow..I haven't been on in awhile. Most of you probably don't even know me, lol. I just got done reading through 20 pages and it looks like a lot has happened.

I was in Jamaica for 2 weeks and got to spend a lot of time with my boyfriend. I miss him sooo much! We're still debating between the CR1 and the K1. I prefer the K1 because I want him here with me asap. I just need to realize it will take some time.

I start my last year of college at the end of the month and I'm anxious to get it over with. I'm only 20 and not sure when I'll start my VisaJourney but I know the time will come when its right.

Hi

I'll keep reading posts and gaining more knowledge from everyone's experiences. Congrats to the recent approvals and best wishes to those interviews coming up!

Marie

Hi Marie great to see you again. I hope all is well. Are you thinking about filing soon?

This is my suggestion but I believe the CR1 visa is a great choice. Why I do is when your man gets here he will only have to wait about a month and 1/2 at most for green card and soc card. Then he can work and help financial. With the K-1 visa your man will have to wait longer. My husband wanted to go to school and we got all the forms right in time to get him in school and apply for financial aide. My hubby has only been here 2 months and has a couple job interviews lined up. He is getting quite bored doing nothing and can't wait to start school and get a job. In our situation I think he would start missing JA if he had nothing to do for months. I understand many can't wait that long for their SO to get here. If you want to shorten the time to the Cr-1 use James Shortcuts, have your senator send it off, and use the marriage certificate you received at the wedding (when you get the official one then send a copy of that one in). His family could attend the marriage ceremony in Jamaica. We then could have a cheap reception in the states a year later. Remember this is a suggestion and why I choose the CR1.

I am not crazy!

I just work alot and most of the time when I am free I can't call Marlon because he is sleeping! We both know how expensive it is to call each other so we keep it to a minimum. Since I got my home phone I have been calling him more, about 3 times a week due to the interview approaching. When I went to Jamaica I stayed with him both times and he paid for my food and expenses while I was there. I will remove my siggy as obviously I am getting some flack for it.

I understand Sarah. I use to work days and my husband always worked nights. We only talked about 2 mins per day. I talked to his mom more.

[Empress 0]

Wow..I haven't been on in awhile. Most of you probably don't even know me, lol. I just got done reading through 20 pages and it looks like a lot has happened.

I was in Jamaica for 2 weeks and got to spend a lot of time with my boyfriend. I miss him sooo much! We're still debating between the CR1 and the K1. I prefer the K1 because I want him here with me asap. I just need to realize it will take some time.

I start my last year of college at the end of the month and I'm anxious to get it over with. I'm only 20 and not sure when I'll start my VisaJourney but I know the time will come when its right.

I'll keep reading posts and gaining more knowledge from everyone's experiences. Congrats to the recent approvals and best wishes to those interviews coming up!

Marie

Hi Marie

I got married really young and trust me I wish I had waited. We're still together and all, but it was just too rushed and completely unnecessary to get married so soon. My advice would be to wait and get to know each other more and really see what kind of man he is. Also I know how distracting a love like this can be when you're in school. Getting married and filing the paper work will be even more distracting. Waiting to get news, calling NVC daily is just not something that goes well with writing papers.

If it's possible wait and see if he can get a visitors visa or maybe even a student visa.

I know it's difficult. But married is a big step so really think long and hard about all of the consequences good and bad before you make a decision.

Good luck

[Dwarf_Ogress 0]

Thank you so much ladies for making me feel better! I do apologize, this whole visa process has me stressed out to the point that I have skipped 2 periods. I went to the doctor and I am taking the pill to try to regulate me. I have also been under financial stress, I just signed the paperwork yesterday to file for Bankruptcy, it was the best option for me. I'm not too happy about it but what can you do? I know that it will not affect the visa or Marlon so I am fine with it and the law firm started my case with no money down and only $210.00 a month, they were more than fair! I tried the credit help agencies but they were unable to offer me a fair or good deal. At least now when a creditor calls I can refer them to my lawyer and that will take a HUGE load off! So thanks again for being here for me, I couldn't possibly get through this visa process without my yardie family!

BIG HUGS to all of you!

[12/11/2006 0]

I am sure the school fees vary by thousands in regards to what school you attend and where it is located. I found this little bit of info from a website.

Education is expensive in Jamaica. For instance, to have their child attend a Jamaican high school, the family must pay tuition (“school fees”); plus, the family must bear the full cost of transportation, books, uniforms, and school supplies. Depending upon which high school a student attends (determined by the results of the GSAT—Sixth Grade Achievement Test), the cost for one year of high school (including school lunches) ranges from about $1,250 to $2,750 (U.S.).

Link

Wow...that's kinda expensive. Thanks for all your responses.

My "adopted" daughter in JA wants to finish high school. She's 17 with an one year-old daughter. I was wondering if we could help her financially. I spoke with her briefly last night and she said it will cost around $900 (US) and one math book cost $5800 We got disconnected so I'll more info this weekend. Thanks again.

The cost for one year of high school is no where near $1250(US) THe average school fee cost about $10000(JA) Parents don't give kids more than $500 per day and that is if you travel from, lets say ST Thomas to Kingston for schol. They should be home by 4pm anyways. some schools have a book rental system because books change with the grade. However CXC syudents will have to buy their books, but each book cost less than $2500(JA) $5800 for a math book is ridiculous. That can buy 3 CXC books 1 Math, 1 physics and 1 social Studies. If one Year of High School really cost $80something (JA) ( school fee, books lunch and bus fare) what would happen to the parent who works minimum wage and has two kids in high school???? That's totally unbelievable.

I agree. It is not that expensive to go to school in JA, especially depending on where you live.