Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 4)

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Kimmy,

So you're done for 10 years right? Or is it 2 years green card?

U know I don't know...that's what I was trying to find out. I thought he is suppose to get a 10yr since we've been married over 2 yrs..I don't know....so if it is the 2yr..we have to file AGAIN..for something..I don't wanna

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CONGRATS KIMMY!

I Was in class earlier and couldn't get my mind off of you. I was so nervous. I'm so happy for you guys. Never thought I could feel this happy for a stranger

Is like..."if 1 a wi get through, is like di whole a wi get through". My heart just fill up with happiness fi Kimmy.

Thank you girls....I thanks for all the help and support plus when my emotions were crazy ....!!! seriously !!

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CONGRATS KIMMY!

I Was in class earlier and couldn't get my mind off of you. I was so nervous. I'm so happy for you guys. Never thought I could feel this happy for a stranger

Is like..."if 1 a wi get through, is like di whole a wi get through". My heart just fill up with happiness fi Kimmy.

Thank you girls....I thanks for all the help and support plus when my emotions were crazy ....!!! seriously !!

So Kimmy, are you going to kick your friend out now? Well, not kick her out...but your husband is coming home....

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CONGRATS KIMMY!

I Was in class earlier and couldn't get my mind off of you. I was so nervous. I'm so happy for you guys. Never thought I could feel this happy for a stranger

Is like..."if 1 a wi get through, is like di whole a wi get through". My heart just fill up with happiness fi Kimmy.

Thank you girls....I thanks for all the help and support plus when my emotions were crazy ....!!! seriously !!

So Kimmy, are you going to kick your friend out now? Well, not kick her out...but your husband is coming home....

ahhahaaa...u r tooo funny...yeah we had a talk yesterday....and I ask how much longer r u planning on staying..cause he should be here next week...cause she is takin her daughter to Jamaica so she said give her a week after she gets back ..yeah cause i can't have him feeling uncomfortable in his own place...Plus her daughter who is 15 mths terrorizes my baby and she won't claut her back...

she almost jook out mi pickney eye..and all her mom said was Shada be nice..u don't know how i wanted to smack her real hard...she really has a problem the kid...she is wayyyyy aggressive...she needs to bring it up with her Doc

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Kim did you ever talk to her about contributing to the household? I know now you prolly don't care since the hubby is coming all these things seem so minor.

I just don't like i when people take your kindness for granted.

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Kim did you ever talk to her about contributing to the household? I know now you prolly don't care since the hubby is coming all these things seem so minor.

I just don't like i when people take your kindness for granted.

Yeah i told her...I really can't support her and the baby..cause that means more money out of my pocket that i don't have. We went to target and I picked up snacks for my baby and town house crackers she loves those..they're damn near $3 but she likes them so I buy them...she know her kid likes them and u know she walked past them..I was like WHAT !....and I bought capri suns they were on sale....and I said why don't u get some for the baby..she said she rather get tropicana which she bought 2 boxes, but who's drinking the capri suns now..yup her kid....u know once she see's Kimora with hers she gonna want one...I'm struggling just like u, I extended my home to u not my pocket..so she should be there only 1 more week after she gets back from JA..

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^^^ u see that kinda thing would send me through the roof. I would be like " From you got here you haven't spent a dime on anything. You are really selfish because you know I don't have money like that and you clearly expect me to buy things for me and my daughter plus you and yours. I am really disappointed because I didn't expect you to act like this. I let you live with me becaue you needed somewhere to stay but not becuase I can afford to support you. I am tired of being kind because it's being taken for granted. If your daughter likes Caprisun go buy some for her. Sorry for being mean but I can't afford to buy double of everything it's just not in my budget. You know I am also trying to save money for the next couple of months when my husband gets here before he finds a job. Try thinking about me a little and what I am going through."

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^^^ u see that kinda thing would send me through the roof. I would be like " From you got here you haven't spent a dime on anything. You are really selfish because you know I don't have money like that and you clearly expect me to buy things for me and my daughter plus you and yours. I am really disappointed because I didn't expect you to act like this. I let you live with me becaue you needed somewhere to stay but not becuase I can afford to support you. I am tired of being kind because it's being taken for granted. If your daughter likes Caprisun go buy some for her. Sorry for being mean but I can't afford to buy double of everything it's just not in my budget. You know I am also trying to save money for the next couple of months when my husband gets here before he finds a job. Try thinking about me a little and what I am going through."

Well said..and that's what I told her. She was whaling for the capri sun I was like give her one. Come on already

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good cuz some people really need to be told about themselves sometimes.

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good cuz some people really need to be told about themselves sometimes.

When mi realize wah she do, i took a step back. She gave me money to pay for stuff she was getting and I gave her $2 change back..and u know she took it...she didn't even say that's ok u doing enough for...then I opened my eyes..

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OMG !! I am so excited for all u guys that r coming up for interviews...r u guys all going to the interviews ? That's one thing I wanted to do....

Kimmy

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good cuz some people really need to be told about themselves sometimes.

When mi realize wah she do, i took a step back. She gave me money to pay for stuff she was getting and I gave her $2 change back..and u know she took it...she didn't even say that's ok u doing enough for...then I opened my eyes..

Kimmy, not to add fuel to the fire, but watch to see if within these next couple of days if she is making a move to sort out her living situation. It would be better for her to sort it out before she goes to JA, so when she comes back she will either already be somewhere else, or moving out of your place. I can see that week being stretched out and you don't want that strain on your relationship with your hubby. There might be tension in the house when he comes if he sees her child hurting his baby girl in anyway. He is not going to take it too well.

Good luck to all those with upcoming interviews. We are praying for you

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good cuz some people really need to be told about themselves sometimes.

When mi realize wah she do, i took a step back. She gave me money to pay for stuff she was getting and I gave her $2 change back..and u know she took it...she didn't even say that's ok u doing enough for...then I opened my eyes..

Kimmy, not to add fuel to the fire, but watch to see if within these next couple of days if she is making a move to sort out her living situation. It would be better for her to sort it out before she goes to JA, so when she comes back she will either already be somewhere else, or moving out of your place. I can see that week being stretched out and you don't want that strain on your relationship with your hubby. There might be tension in the house when he comes if he sees her child hurting his baby girl in anyway. He is not going to take it too well.

Good luck to all those with upcoming interviews. We are praying for you

Yeah she says if she takes her daughter to JA she can move around better..but we're def not having her there when he gets home ...NO WAY

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OMG !! I am so excited for all u guys that r coming up for interviews...r u guys all going to the interviews ? That's one thing I wanted to do....

Kimmy

I'm not but I wish I could! Had it been on the 7th as the embassy originally told me then I could have but being it's the 14th, I have to be at work, it's the start of a new semester in college = busy, busy!

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Man I feel like a tard! Marlon texted me yesterday to let me know that he got the package from me with all the forms. He also told me to call him ASAP as there were errors! He was really cool about it (one of the many reasons I love him)! On the DS-156 I signed under applicant! And I failed to submit the DS-157!!!! OMG! And he was like send them to me overnight and I was like baby, I have no money! So he is WUing me some money so I can send these forms to him. AND... he applied for his non-impediment form on JUNE 18 and has NOT received it yet!!!! #######?!?! So he asked me to bombard them with emails as he NEEDS that form. *sigh* Ok, that's it for now, thanks for allowing me to vent!