help with the red fleg issue

[doodlebug 3]

How do you print out text messages? All my bill says is that I had an international text message but it doesn't show what the message was exactly....and quite frankly I'm not sure I want anyone reading them anyways.

[Aymerlu 3]

How do you print out text messages? All my bill says is that I had an international text message but it doesn't show what the message was exactly....and quite frankly I'm not sure I want anyone reading them anyways.

LOL Doodle! I was thinking the same thing! If anyone had've every intercepted those messages........

[deemabrouk 0]

well that is Basicallly What i meant.. International Text messages on the Bills.. about 1 million of them.. BUT You could always forward your text messages to your email.. I have done that before - but not for this..

[MDSMIF 0]

I don't have much to add except dress nice, be polite, answer question the best you can and most important be professional. If you have any evidence at all organize it. Put you evidence in such a way that it is easy for them to review. Also don't be afraid to email them with these same questions you ask here. Before the interview, I emailed and called them so much they know me and my fiancee by time she had her appointment. At least this way they know you care.

By the way, I was told they don't look at most of the evidence anyway. Mostly they care about calls and pictures......

[Ban Hammer 13,659]

I know one CO in Casa who did say that Ims were no good as proof because you can type them up yourself. I'm gonna send 'em anyway.

which is why i did screenshots of my archive - it showed a pattern of conversation every day, along with random screenshots of those daily convos. if you do the same, print such to a color printer

[lisaf 0]

which is why i did screenshots of my archive - it showed a pattern of conversation every day, along with random screenshots of those daily convos. if you do the same, print such to a color printer

yup , I even printed screen shots of my VJ messages... when we were in different time zones , we would log on to read and leave each other messages for when the other came on..

also kept email receipts of any gifts sent online (and then the mailed invoice )for birthdays etc. Things like, godiva, barnes and noble, vicotias secret

Another point, I also printed emails from friends and family over the 3 years. Anything where we were discussing our plans, or they were asking after him. How was my holiday going when I as here, then later about wedding plans etc.. If you are an email packrat like me, go back through emails from family and friends, and your sent emails...there's a gold mine out there!

[Together4ever 1]

We didn't submit IMs at all. There were copies of phone bills and letters sent each way including post marked envelopes. I think photos rank fairly high as proof. The lack of IMs didn't hurt us at all.

[jade2004 0]

okay guys...here is my list of things that i could put my finger on last night after all of your help...now just if i can get it all in some kind of order.

1) Photos from my trip (pictures with him and family)

2) Wedding photos

3) Wedding video (i know they don't want this but I am sending the CD anyway)

4) Affidavits from 3rd parties (one letter from his relative in California that actually did fly to Jordan and witnessed our wedding party; then also 2 more letters)

5) Cell phone records of text message back and forth from the past year

6) Some of the copies of text messages from him and his family to me (thanks--never thought of sending them to email to print them out)

7) Phone card transactions for the past 120 days

8) Copy of the email to the phone card company requesting transactions further back

9) Copy of the email sent with me trying to aquire the lost IM's

10) Letter from ex-husband stating our true seperation date prior to our actual divorce date

11) Ring receipts

12) Plane ticket stubs

13) Notebook that I kept when in Jordan (contains notes to each other and my arabic words that he wrote for me which we studied every night)

14) ATM receipt from Jordan

15) Menu from our favorite restaurant in Jordan (also the cc statement in which it was paid for)

16) Tickets from our visits to places

17) Letter, cards, and poems from me

18) A couple of letters from him to me

19) Credit card statement for wedding dress, plane tickets, phone cards, etc

20) Bank statements showing transactions that I made while in Jordan

21) Blog and picture comments left by him on my webpage

OMG....I still don't feel like this is enough....all i think about, dream about...RED FLAGS, RED FLAGS...no RED FLAGS

**I am only 6 years older than him so that isn't an issue

**now if I can only get skinny

[Sofiyya 1,687]

**now if I can only get skinny

Let's get busy wiping out those stereotypes

[jade2004 0]

hehe...yeah, i wished...

My friend always says, "skinny people are out of style now"....lol

Wished I could be as confident as her though

[Sofiyya 1,687]

hehe...yeah, i wished...

My friend always says, "skinny people are out of style now"....lol

Wished I could be as confident as her though

Your friend and I are on the same wavelength. I never wanted to be skinny and curvy is coming back! Woo Hoo!

[Ban Hammer 13,659]

hehe...yeah, i wished...

My friend always says, "skinny people are out of style now"....lol

Wished I could be as confident as her though

Your friend and I are on the same wavelength. I never wanted to be skinny and curvy is coming back! Woo Hoo!

mo cushion for da pushin

[doodlebug 3]

hehe...yeah, i wished...

My friend always says, "skinny people are out of style now"....lol

Wished I could be as confident as her though

yeah regarding that what do i do, write a letter like:

"dear Sir/ Madame,

Just wanted to let you know that currently I have a wee bit too much "junk in the trunk" but before you dismiss us because of this red flag I wanted to alert you to the fact that this actually is in style now and my husband is very fond of said "junk".

Thank you,

doodlebug"

[jade2004 0]

OMG...Doodle!!! I LOVE it....now that is the type of letter i would like to send!!!!

[chiquita 0]

wouldn't we all!!!!!!!

love it

just love it

chi