CR1 reaffirmed in Ghana (split topic)

[Jenilyn and Awal 22]

5 hours ago, nyala62 said:

Yesoooooo, God will see you all through soon.

Ameen my friends 

[trustG 74]

7 hours ago, nyala62 said:

Yesoooooo, God will see you all through soon.

Amen my brother. 

[luviscoming1 14]

16 hours ago, Ebunoluwa said:

Lying about having children would be a misrepresentation and incur a ban, on paper or verbally.
Children must be listed in forms and forms are cross checked for consistent data.

But i didnt say LIE.  I said only if they ASK then you must present the childrens birth certificates.  Thats it!!  I am only addressing the birth certificate question....not anything more.  

[Boohene102314 18]

8 hours ago, nyala62 said:

Yesoooooo, God will see you all through soon.

Yesooooo, YES!!!!!  A lot of stress will be over for us.  This will make us stronger in order to deal with the next challenges life will bring.  Bless everyone on this beautiful day!

[Jenilyn and Awal 22]

Ameen 

 

[trustG 74]

1 hour ago, Boohene102314 said:

Yesooooo, YES!!!!!  A lot of stress will be over for us.  This will make us stronger in order to deal with the next challenges life will bring.  Bless everyone on this beautiful day!

Amen same to u 

[chris_trina 22]

On 8/10/2017 at 7:19 AM, Boohene102314 said:

@chris_trina Greetings sister.  I would suggest writing a lengthy account about how you met, how you are living your lives while being apart and/or visits.  An emotional personal statement from you would even help you get some stuff off of your chest.  I started off ranting and then I went back and arranged it more civilly.  If you have a lawyer, don't rely on them to speak up for you; make sure you express yourself in your own words.  The people at the Embassy lie very easily apparently, so you have to defend your love against their unreasonable outlook.  What did the embassy say the first time you had an NOIR?   Of course, gather all the legal documentation, etc and I would suggest getting affidavits from family, friends, coworkers,etc. to acknowledge your relationship.  I even had my ex-husband write an affidavit for my NOIR rebuttal.  I am praying for you and your husband that you stay strong and grow together as you continue your journey.  

Thank you, Im glad you responded I appreciate all help. 

[chris_trina 22]

On 8/10/2017 at 7:19 AM, Boohene102314 said:

@chris_trina Greetings sister.  I would suggest writing a lengthy account about how you met, how you are living your lives while being apart and/or visits.  An emotional personal statement from you would even help you get some stuff off of your chest.  I started off ranting and then I went back and arranged it more civilly.  If you have a lawyer, don't rely on them to speak up for you; make sure you express yourself in your own words.  The people at the Embassy lie very easily apparently, so you have to defend your love against their unreasonable outlook.  What did the embassy say the first time you had an NOIR?   Of course, gather all the legal documentation, etc and I would suggest getting affidavits from family, friends, coworkers,etc. to acknowledge your relationship.  I even had my ex-husband write an affidavit for my NOIR rebuttal.  I am praying for you and your husband that you stay strong and grow together as you continue your journey.  

Thank you, I think I will get all my family members to write affadavits because they have been going this with since 2013. Last year my mother past she had wrote letter for us I used this in last 130 during this time she past. I think its a good idea to write another letter of how met and our issue and trying to overcome the visa issues..

[Ebunoluwa 6,136]

4 hours ago, luviscoming1 said:

But i didnt say LIE.  I said only if they ASK then you must present the childrens birth certificates.  Thats it!!  I am only addressing the birth certificate question....not anything more.  

Some may take your words wrongly. They already know who has kids in Ghana if it was truthfully disclosed on the forms, if it wasn't then that's a problem. Why would they have to find out when disclosed already ? They know.

You said and I quote:

" And be careful with that because if they find out he has kids in Ghana that can be a red flag.  So I personally wouldnt tell them that he has kids staying in Ghana. "

 

 

[Boohene102314 18]

2 hours ago, chris_trina said:

Thank you, I think I will get all my family members to write affadavits because they have been going this with since 2013. Last year my mother past she had wrote letter for us I used this in last 130 during this time she past. I think its a good idea to write another letter of how met and our issue and trying to overcome the visa issues..

You are welcome.  You will overcome the issues that they are causing.  I will be praying for you and your family.

[luviscoming1 14]

1 hour ago, Ebunoluwa said:

Some may take your words wrongly. They already know who has kids in Ghana if it was truthfully disclosed on the forms, if it wasn't then that's a problem. Why would they have to find out when disclosed already ? They know.

You said and I quote:

" And be careful with that because if they find out he has kids in Ghana that can be a red flag.  So I personally wouldnt tell them that he has kids staying in Ghana. "

 

 

Well I hope I made myself clear in my last comment, which was to bring the BC anyhow, just in case they ask.  Period!!   Is this better for you!!!

My initial comment did not take any consideration of any previous forms noting that he did have kids.  If I realized that then I would not have said it.  So let it go ....okay!  And please don't say that I am a LIAR!  Because that is one thing that I am not.  THANK YOU!!!!  and have a good day!

[trustG 74]

15 minutes ago, luviscoming1 said:

Well I hope I made myself clear in my last comment, which was to bring the BC anyhow, just in case they ask.  Period!!   Is this better for you!!!

My initial comment did not take any consideration of any previous forms noting that he did have kids.  If I realized that then I would not have said it.  So let it go ....okay!  And please don't say that I am a LIAR!  Because that is one thing that I am not.  THANK YOU!!!!  and have a good day!

@luviscoming1 & @Ebunoluwa  I'm sorry my question has caused misunderstanding we're all trying to help each other get through successfully with the process, so please  let's continue with the loving and caring we show to each other on this forum. Thanks once again I'm sorry. 

Edited August 11, 2017 by trustG

[Ebunoluwa 6,136]

12 minutes ago, luviscoming1 said:

Well I hope I made myself clear in my last comment, which was to bring the BC anyhow, just in case they ask.  Period!!   Is this better for you!!!

My initial comment did not take any consideration of any previous forms noting that he did have kids.  If I realized that then I would not have said it.  So let it go ....okay!  And please don't say that I am a LIAR!  Because that is one thing that I am not.  THANK YOU!!!!  and have a good day!

I did not say you are a liar do not add words to my post. What you posted made no sense and advising not to disclose kids is lying. I did not say you personally did do that. No reason to get your feathers ruffled, be clear when you post. Meaning something other than what your words convey can cause problems for others. You can clarify without an attitude.

[luviscoming1 14]

8 minutes ago, Ebunoluwa said:

I did not say you are a liar do not add words to my post. What you posted made no sense and advising not to disclose kids is lying. I did not say you personally did do that. No reason to get your feathers ruffled, be clear when you post. Meaning something other than what your words convey can cause problems for others. You can clarify without an attitude.

Too late!!  I already have an attitude.

 

My account will be deactivated.  I was hoping to stick around to see all of you be joined with your soul mates but it looks like that wont happen.  So I wish you all the best and my prayers are with you!

 

God Bless!!

 

 

[Ebunoluwa 6,136]

30 minutes ago, trustG said:

@luviscoming1 & @Ebunoluwa  I'm sorry my question has caused misunderstanding we're all trying to help each other get through successfully with the process, so please  let's continue with the loving and caring we show to each other on this forum. Thanks once again I'm sorry. 

You did nothing wrong by asking a question. I made sure people would not misunderstand and start not disclosing children who are to follow
later.
The poster does not like to be corrected for clarification and decided to get offended instead and that is her choice.