Question about applying for K1 visa without a lawyer..

[JoeMama 0]

first thing:

NEVER EVER EVER go to the ex's house or related house.

Here's an odd one for ya! Whenever my ex and I had split up. She moved across the street to her father's home. I never bothered her. Let alone, when she filed for the divorce not long after, she stated in the court petition how abusive I was to her and my daughters. A judge bought that ####### and ordered my children to be taken from me. She brought the cops over at 1am on a school night and had them pulled out. Of course, they missed school that morning. By 11am that same day, they were back at my home. When I went to court, I disspelled all the lies she stated in her petition. Even the mediator called her a liar and told her he didn't buy what she shoveling. Now, you know why I made the comment about what your ex-mother-in-law can choke on?

I can relate with your past and present situation niceguy. My fiancee' is something else! My girls are really looking forward to actually having a real mother-figure back in their lives.

As I always say, "Everything always evens out". I'm happy for ya man!

[poppscc 0]

first thing:

NEVER EVER EVER go to the ex's house or related house.

I cant help you resolve your situation, but you can look at www.deltabravo.net for some good advice for dealing with your ex.

if it's only a misdemeanor, get it expunged if possible. Good luck on your journey, sounds like a lot of hard work is ahead for you.

lol, thanks. This however is all from the past. I actually pick my child up from my ex-mother in law twice a week now. I learn to forgive, even though is VERY hard considering the circumstances. If my income now is what matters, I guess it would be better to "not" file with a co-sponsor. I was under the impression that the last 3 years were necessary. I would even get Married in the Phils and file K3 if I had to. My fiancee and I are both veryn patient and very much in love, and willing to do anything it takes. Thanks for all the advice everyone

I'm basically in the same situation as you, except that I took advice from deltabravo (sparc) members and I have custody of my son more than my ex! She comes to me to pick up my son, not the other way around. It's fine that you go to your ex's house or mother's house, but DO NOT GO INSIDE.

It's not about forgiveness, it's about protecting your future. Of course you know by now that the laws dont favor you... learn, fight, win.

good luck to you.

[niceguy26 0]

niceguy26,

If you want good answers you need to provide good information. Incomplete information is not good information.

Yodrak

I make enough money NOW, but not 2006

excuse me, but from what I have read in several places, you show your past 3 tax returns. This is all NEW information to me. Excuse me for my ignorance

[athena_ny 1]

If you don't file it, you won't be approved. Time to get a second job.

He said he has a cosponsor. No second job needed.

[Yodrak 7]

niceguy26,

You do show your past 3 tax returns. Or at some consulates 1 tax return. You also show your current income - letter from employer that includes mention of your salary or recent pay statements or both.

Someone - including myself - should have thought to ask about the missing bit of critical information sooner.

Yodrak

niceguy26,

If you want good answers you need to provide good information. Incomplete information is not good information.

Yodrak

I make enough money NOW, but not 2006

excuse me, but from what I have read in several places, you show your past 3 tax returns. This is all NEW information to me. Excuse me for my ignorance

Edited April 4, 2007 by Yodrak