K1 visa for the second time for the same person in less than 1 year

[Russ&Caro 1,549]

Can ALL my posts please be deleted from this thread...I didn't think I was going to start a war on here by stating a different opinion then everyone else.

The entire thread shifted onto what I said and forgot about the OP I just stated a difference of opinion.

Thanks

Rather than delete all your posts, you could use this as a lesson learned.

One lesson I learned long ago on public forums is that if I jump in on every thread that I think I might have something valid to say, then I'm jumping in way, way, way too often. Here's my rule of thumb and I apply it in every forum I participate:

1. Reject the idea of posting on over 50% of the times that I think I might want to say something, before I even write 1 word.

2. Of the posts where I write 1 or more words, reject the idea of actually clicking submit on more than 50% of those posts.

This means I actually submit less than 25% of the posts where I initially think it would be a good idea to post.

Why do I throttle my posting production in this way? Because: 1) Others will respond with better posts, 2) Often I am wrong.

[SunflowerSweet 1,321]

Can ALL my posts please be deleted from this thread...I didn't think I was going to start a war on here by stating a different opinion then everyone else.

The entire thread shifted onto what I said and forgot about the OP I just stated a difference of opinion.

Thanks

I don't think that the problem necessarily is that your opinion is different, it's that it's not relevant for the OP's case since the CBP officer already admitted him to the US and serves no purpose other than to convolute the situation and cause confusion about a path to adjustment that from what information was provided, is fully available to OP.

I think that while there are situations where opinions can be helpful on VJ, if a question or situation can be resolved with facts and procedure alone, it's not really helpful to share such opinions. This is especially true when they can border on inflammatory and/or accusatory.

I agree with Russ&Caro that you should try and learn from this, as it seems like a common issue.