years ago, fiance now married

[tirzaray 4]

I have a question! I filed for k-1 visa fiance, he got to united states, however I decided i did not want to marry him, although he knew before he came. His family and he were aware that I had changed my mind, although i or we went through the process. Never pretended to hurt him, he decided, or thought I would change my mind and that I had cold feet. Well long story short, not the case. Found out he had married a 2nd time, which he did not report when I filed. I reported his 1st marriage to american woman but did divorce (legal), although difficult in Morocco but he managed to get it. Then he married another american woman. She came to U.S., was going to file but unfortunately never had the chance because she passed away but he NEVER did report this 2nd marriage. She was way older than him, just like I am. Anyhow, he left my house 2 weeks before he needed to go back. A friend helped him and now he is married, has a baby and they have a lawyer to fix his status. How in the world is this possible? He lied to immigration both in morocco and here in the states. Would he be able to get legality in the united states? He left his luggage, clothes, document and it was here I found out. Do i send document where? He even got as far as menacing me by saying that women like me get hung because I did not want to marry him.What can I do, do I send these papers to Vermont?, where?

[Ontarkie 14,221]

~~Moved to Effects of Major Family Changes, from K1 P&P- As similar topics are discussed here.~~

[Unlockable 7,314]

When you say you "went through the process" did you mean you actually married him?

[JR loves JR 196]

Here's what I think you said. Correct me if I'm wrong. You filed for a k-1 which was approved. He came to the USA and lived with you (?) but you never married? He then moved out and left some of his documents (including a 2nd marriage license?) at your home? And he never returned to his country? And you believe that the new wife didn't petition him and his last entry to the USA was your K-1?

[EM_Vandaveer 2,408]

If you never married him, how is his immigration status your concern? Move on.

[Rebecca616 38]

So you told him you did not want him to come because you didn't want to get married but the visa was approved and he came anyway but married somebody else and is now having a baby and has an attorney to change his status? If he came to the US on a K-1 visa through YOU, he can only marry you. There isn't anyway he can change his status without you....I don't know if im fully understanding whats being asked or the situation for that matter.

Edited November 8, 2016 by Rebecca616

[EM_Vandaveer 2,408]

So you told him you did not want him to come because you didn't want to get married but the visa was approved and he came anyway but married somebody else and is now having a baby and has an attorney to change his status? If he came to the US on a K-1 visa through YOU, he can only marry you. There isn't anyway he can change his status without you....I don't know if im fully understanding whats being asked or the situation for that matter.

I think you are understanding it right. His status could be fixed, but it most likely will include him leaving the US and later coming back on a spousal visa. However, I still don't understand how any of it is OP's concern given she has never married the man.

[Eric-Pris 1,606]

OP,

Let it go. It's not your concern.

[Boiler 45,486]

He married and divorced

Remarried and she died before she could petition him

OP petitioned him on a K1, he comes, does not marry moves in with someone else.

Revenge is best served cold seems to be the issue.

[Villanelle 4,122]

This was difficult to read. But it does make sense. Just to echo what others have already stated:

He was married and divorced (this was reported on his K1 paperwork)

He was married a second time and it ended due to the death of his spouse a USC (this was NOT reported on his K1 and she did NOT know about this until now)

They filed a K1 and he used it to enter the US, they did not marry and before his 90 days was up he left her home. He has since married (for the 3rd time) a USC and has a child and they have hired a lawyer and are filing paperwork for him.

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rose_ttig-

He can file through his current spouse but as someone else already stated he will need to leave the US and be processed at a consulate overseas. There are also waivers involved. None of this involves you or impacts you or is any of your concern.

HOWEVER- you do have the right to report it. And it can be argued as either the moral obligation to report the fraud committed on his previous K1 (the omission of his previous marriage) OR unhealthy vengeance / form of revenge by a scorned lover. So consider why you are reporting it before you do so. Where you report it does not matter- simply send a letter to USCIS including his A# and the info. Please make sure you explain it clearly as your post here was pretty confusing.

[Meg&Andrew 297]

So you new you didn't want to be with him, or marry him, but yet you allowed him to come to the US on a K1? You are as much to blame as he is. Sorry.

[tirzaray 4]

So you new you didn't want to be with him, or marry him, but yet you allowed him to come to the US on a K1? You are as much to blame as he is. Sorry.

This has nothing at all to do with revenge, no, he moved out of my home 1 week before 90 day permit because I had told him I did not want to marry him (before he even came). Also, he managed to hack my private emails, emailed all my friends on FB, yahoo, everywhere and told them I treated him bad (which I never did and had no reason to treat anyone like that). Was not looking for him, had no reason but on my FB I saw someone close to him had looked into my profile and it was probably someone related to him so I peaked into it and saw what I was NOT looking for, his wife and baby. There is obviously a reason he talked bad about me and it was because he wants to prove to his immigration lawyer that it was me the reason we didn't get married by treating him bad because that is exactly what his wife said, well not the lawyer but her. She has no clue about my life only what he has fed people which is nothing but all lies. He will want to prove he is the victim here and that I am looking for revenge, no nothing like that. I certainly want to do what is right and that is not letting anyone stay in this country illegally, although it is not my job, it is the immigration services but I am a responsible citizen of my country and want to do the right thing if it not too late. Please do not think I am a person that seeks revenge, no, no reason too, because he had a plan all along, that's the reason he came anyway, though didn't want to marry him. According to what his wife left on my FB was that their lawyer had already filed for his legal status, and if that is the case, well, be it, I was only looking for suggestions, advices and or opinions.

[aaron2020 11,651]

You have been given lots of suggestions, advices, and opinions. Let it go, he's not your problem.

You stated you don't want revenge but just to be a good citizen by going after him so he doesn't get a green card. People are going to find it hard to believe you. If it looks like a duck, it's a duck.

Edited November 13, 2016 by aaron2020

[Villanelle 4,122]

This has nothing at all to do with revenge, no, he moved out of my home 1 week before 90 day permit because I had told him I did not want to marry him (before he even came). Also, he managed to hack my private emails, emailed all my friends on FB, yahoo, everywhere and told them I treated him bad (which I never did and had no reason to treat anyone like that). Was not looking for him, had no reason but on my FB I saw someone close to him had looked into my profile and it was probably someone related to him so I peaked into it and saw what I was NOT looking for, his wife and baby. There is obviously a reason he talked bad about me and it was because he wants to prove to his immigration lawyer that it was me the reason we didn't get married by treating him bad because that is exactly what his wife said, well not the lawyer but her. She has no clue about my life only what he has fed people which is nothing but all lies. He will want to prove he is the victim here and that I am looking for revenge, no nothing like that. I certainly want to do what is right and that is not letting anyone stay in this country illegally, although it is not my job, it is the immigration services but I am a responsible citizen of my country and want to do the right thing if it not too late. Please do not think I am a person that seeks revenge, no, no reason too, because he had a plan all along, that's the reason he came anyway, though didn't want to marry him. According to what his wife left on my FB was that their lawyer had already filed for his legal status, and if that is the case, well, be it, I was only looking for suggestions, advices and or opinions.

Since you are maintaining this is about doing whats 'right' morally and preventing illegal activity- I will offer you some free insight here:

Lets start with your statement of I saw someone close to him had looked into my profile... I have to call BS on that. Theres no way of knowing who has looked at your profile on FB. Please dont insult our intelligence here. Regardless- it does not matter, not one little bit what he told his wife, his lawyer, his priest, his doctor, his barber- anyone, about you or your relationship. It will not impact his ability to adjust with his new wife.

USCIS is going to adjudicate his petition based on his current marriage on its own merits. Yes, they will look at his history, yes they will see he entered the US on a K visa intending to marry you. Yes they probably will question him on why he did not marry you. Obviously he is going to tell them the relationship did not work out. This is not a lie. What more he chooses to say about the relationship (inflated claims of poor treatment on your part) would be his decision. Any statements he makes he would either need proof of- or they would be evaluating them based on his word and character. Besides having common sense Officers are also trained interrogators. Theyve heard and seen it all. Hes already going in with one strike against him some would say as he entered on a K, did not marry and then conveniently found the love of his life nearby soon afterwards... All of this is also speculation as you have no idea what he is going to say or has said to USCIS anyway. If you feel so strongly at the mere thought of someone potentially lying to USCIS and them not detecting it you can write a letter explaining your side of the relationship. However even if USCIS has your side and his side and they do not match, it does not mean they will assume he is the liar and deny him.

Moving on- the omission of the second wife from the K paperwork. There are different kinds of omissions. Its late here and Im tired and I dont really feel like searching for the technical term. Some one else can if they feel like it. But basically there are different types of omissions. Ones that would change the decision and ones that wouldnt. In my opinion a previous deceased wife would not have changed the K approval. One can argue it could show a pattern of previous immigrant intent- however any lawyer worth their fee would be able to bypass that if it came down to it.

So bottom line there is nothing 'illegal' here. Sure there could be extra hurdles if the info came to light that could cause the process to be slower and more costly. But nothing that would ultimately stop him. So if your goal is to STOP illegal activity - there is no way for you to know that there is in fact any going on right now (you dont know what he submitted, its contents, his statements etc). You can certainly impede his process by reporting PAST omissions on your K packet. If you consider that 'doing the right thing' even late- then do it. You dont need anyones permission or blessing. You are the one who has to look yourself in the mirror each day and be happy with what you see looking back.

[TBoneTX 45,284]

The term might be "material misrepresentation."