Irrational Paranoia Re Interview

[truffles 2]

As the date of my interview approaches ever nearer the same tense concern is coming back to me that i had for the medical ( I really should know better huh!).

Friday 13th April - what a start!.....anyways....there are a multitude of possible hitches waking me up in my sleep!

When my fiance filled the 129f - the question about how he met me was filled in as " met whilst on holiday in Devon" ...which was when we first met in person but only after spending several months chatting via yahoo games then exchanging email address then phone numbers - my concern is when i get asked the how did you meet question i feel my response should be " we met in person when we both took holiday after 7 months of email,phone conversation and internet contact " would this seem too concocted

My fiance says if they question the details tell them he interpreted the form as asking for details of the meeting face to face - he beleive it really wont be a problem

Anyone come up against any real issues or am i being a masochist here?

[no name 1]

As the date of my interview approaches ever nearer the same tense concern is coming back to me that i had for the medical ( I really should know better huh!).

Friday 13th April - what a start!.....anyways....there are a multitude of possible hitches waking me up in my sleep!

When my fiance filled the 129f - the question about how he met me was filled in as " met whilst on holiday in Devon" ...which was when we first met in person but only after spending several months chatting via yahoo games then exchanging email address then phone numbers - my concern is when i get asked the how did you meet question i feel my response should be " we met in person when we both took holiday after 7 months of email,phone conversation and internet contact " would this seem too concocted

My fiance says if they question the details tell them he interpreted the form as asking for details of the meeting face to face - he beleive it really wont be a problem

Anyone come up against any real issues or am i being a masochist here?

Read some threads here:

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...te=%2Binterview

Edited March 28, 2007 by devilette

[*JG* 2]

As the date of my interview approaches ever nearer the same tense concern is coming back to me that i had for the medical ( I really should know better huh!).

Friday 13th April - what a start!.....anyways....there are a multitude of possible hitches waking me up in my sleep!

When my fiance filled the 129f - the question about how he met me was filled in as " met whilst on holiday in Devon" ...which was when we first met in person but only after spending several months chatting via yahoo games then exchanging email address then phone numbers - my concern is when i get asked the how did you meet question i feel my response should be " we met in person when we both took holiday after 7 months of email,phone conversation and internet contact " would this seem too concocted

My fiance says if they question the details tell them he interpreted the form as asking for details of the meeting face to face - he beleive it really wont be a problem

Anyone come up against any real issues or am i being a masochist here?

Just be as honest as possible...........say what you want to say.......

The face to face meeting is probably what they are mostly looking for.....but, I would say exactly what you said. It rings of the truth and that is DEFINATELY what they are looking for.

Stop stressing. It really isn't as bad as you are imagining it to be.

[flutter95 4]

I wouldn't worry about it either!

We put when we met in person too - we talked for awhile online first too. And explain that if asked! However,I was not asked any relationship related questions!

Good luck

[PCKAA 0]

Please don't worry at all. I was really nervous too, and as long as all your evidence is up together to PROVE you have met and have a legitimate relationship, you have nothing to worry about. They didn't even ask to see my evidence, but it was a comfort knowing i could pull it out if i needed to.

Read some of the Embassy reviews online here - it will really help you to understand what you will go through on the day.

I'm glad I did that before I went, as I knew what would happen on the day, and could read some of the questions previously asked.

Seriously - DO NOT WORRY !!

[TimsDaisy 0]

He answered just fine since the I-129f is concerned with when you met IN PERSON for the in-person meeting requirement! Don't stress! You're almost there :)

[britty 1]

they asked me to confirm my now husband's full name. Thats it. Do not worry it will be fine.

[rebeccajo 14]

What is wrong with saying you met on the Web?

It is important to disclose all the details of how a couple meets - the Web brought the availability of 'marriage brokers' to everyday individuals (not just the wealthy) - hence IMBRA.

I described in our I129F that we first met online. At the interview, my husband told the CO the same, and was querried as to what website.

There's no reason to give a play-by-play of your relationship when at the consular window. Just say something easy like "We met online, chatted a few months, then I visited him over here". If the CO needs further details, he or she will ask.

[KogI 0]

Everything will be fine. I understand you, I was panicking myself. Breath in, breath out. Relax.