Is #TeacherBae’s Dress Too Tight for School?

[We Keep Receipts 9,238]

It's football season, and it's homecoming week. So all week, there is some type of dress up day. Yesterday was Wednesday...Wacky Wednesday. Dress as wacky as you want.

I try to be funny and compliment people who are participating by wearing mismatched clothes. "Hey, I've never seen you look better." Things like that.

So, I pass by a new teacher and throw out, "Hey, looking good today." Then, I realize, she's not participating, she's just wearing a dress with really bright floral patterns.

I'm waiting to get called to HR.

I learned this a long time ago. When you compliment a woman in your workspace, there's a way to do it without coming off creepy, but it's not exactly easy.

I don't do this now since I'm with J (I enjoy breathing and WITSEC doesn't move fast enough if she's gotten hold of the lady's SSN) but, if you take the time to follow up your compliment with an observation that adds to it.

Like say, she has a nice dress on. Instead of saying looking good today, you should take a good look at her accessories. Like that color with your earrings really brings that to life. Then you smile and leave. That way you don't linger and look like a stalker. Nothing wrong with being nice, just be mindful of how you come off. That can make all the difference.

Disclaimer. No one on the island of Oahu has ever gotten this kind of compliment from me. That is all.

[Randyandyuni 2,682]

I guess I am a pack of 1, I think she could be more discerning in her dress for the classroom, her jeans attire is appropriate for a day at the park, for school I think not. Her dress is also very appropriate for a date or dinner with friends, again overly dressy and tight for a day in class. If I am a rather well endowed man is it appropriate if it looks like I am wearing a codpiece? I think the mothers would pass out from screaming over that scenario. There is nothing wrong with her attire her choice of location to wear it is wrong for me. If she was dresses like that at a funeral it's ok? If the answer to that is yes, I'll withdraw my complaint.

[Teddy B 17,252]

i don't see any outfits in those pictures that are inappropriate. as long as she's following the dress code, she can't help how her body fills out the clothes she's wearing. if you crack down on her for form fitting clothes, then you'll have to also crack down on overweight employees who don't wear baggy clothes to hide their rolls..

The CABA's will revolt! You'll have to pry their Juicy Couture's from their cold dead sausage fingers!

[Janelle2002 3,865]

I learned this a long time ago. When you compliment a woman in your workspace, there's a way to do it without coming off creepy, but it's not exactly easy.

I don't do this now since I'm with J (I enjoy breathing and WITSEC doesn't move fast enough if she's gotten hold of the lady's SSN) but, if you take the time to follow up your compliment with an observation that adds to it.

Like say, she has a nice dress on. Instead of saying looking good today, you should take a good look at her accessories. Like that color with your earrings really brings that to life. Then you smile and leave. That way you don't linger and look like a stalker. Nothing wrong with being nice, just be mindful of how you come off. That can make all the difference.

Disclaimer. No one on the island of Oahu has ever gotten this kind of compliment from me. That is all.

You sound experienced at giving compliments. I need to see you in my office at home. ???

Anyway, you better not be giving compliments???? good to see you are making it through my very strict rules. Living under a CABA isn't easy??

[Janelle2002 3,865]

I guess I am a pack of 1, I think she could be more discerning in her dress for the classroom, her jeans attire is appropriate for a day at the park, for school I think not. Her dress is also very appropriate for a date or dinner with friends, again overly dressy and tight for a day in class. If I am a rather well endowed man is it appropriate if it looks like I am wearing a codpiece? I think the mothers would pass out from screaming over that scenario. There is nothing wrong with her attire her choice of location to wear it is wrong for me. If she was dresses like that at a funeral it's ok? If the answer to that is yes, I'll withdraw my complaint.

If the dress is black, sure she can wear it. Lol. Really, if it shows the prints of your under garments, it's not appropriate. But they can't blast her for being shapely and force her to wear paper bags. Me personally I couldn't wear a dress like that at work without a suit jacket, I just wouldn't feel comfortable. I don't need people seeing my wired bra

Edited September 15, 2016 by Janelle2002

[smilesammich 10,727]

I guess I am a pack of 1, I think she could be more discerning in her dress for the classroom, her jeans attire is appropriate for a day at the park, for school I think not. Her dress is also very appropriate for a date or dinner with friends, again overly dressy and tight for a day in class. If I am a rather well endowed man is it appropriate if it looks like I am wearing a codpiece? I think the mothers would pass out from screaming over that scenario. There is nothing wrong with her attire her choice of location to wear it is wrong for me. If she was dresses like that at a funeral it's ok? If the answer to that is yes, I'll withdraw my complaint.

the teachers i know have casual day (or teacher workdays) where they can wear jeans, a dress code clears up any confusion so far as if you are over or under dressed.

is it appropriate for an employer to require a man to wear baggy pants to hide is possible codpiece? i thought saggy crotch meant gangsta, we don't want to send the wrong message to the kids.

the issue is with her employers, so her choice in funeral attire is neither here nor there.

seriously, if its that big a deal for parents or other teachers or students - uniforms for all..then they just have to hem and haw over how uniforms might cling in certain spots. i don't think a uniform would help this woman give off a less curvy look, unless them make her wear one a few sizes too big.

[Teddy B 17,252]

You sound experienced at giving compliments. I need to see you in my office at home. ???

Anyway, you better not be giving compliments???? good to see you are making it through my very strict rules. Living under a CABA isn't easy??

What chapter of the CABA handbook are you at with Marv?

[Randyandyuni 2,682]

and that's my point, modesty is appropriate in certain circumstances, in the classroom is one of them. Personally, I think she has a rocking body, but that's all I see (That could be on me), I do not see a gifted teacher, I see a beautiful women that wishes to show off her body. My X wife had a beautiful body but dressed in a manner that was reflective of her work environment.

[Janelle2002 3,865]

What chapter of the CABA handbook are you at with Marv?

I have the extreme radical CABA book. Steep learning curve. Chapter 2! Thou shall not look at, speak to, smile at, compliment, assist, hold the door for, work out with, sit on an exercise machine next to another woman.

We are almost finished. Chapter 3 thou must wear side blinders up next!

[Randyandyuni 2,682]

from the article:

Instagram, proudly showing off a few fitted, bodycon dresses.

purposeful not the result of a curvy body. posted to instagram so she was not dressing for self satisfaction but display

[smilesammich 10,727]

and that's my point, modesty is appropriate in certain circumstances, in the classroom is one of them. Personally, I think she has a rocking body, but that's all I see (That could be on me), I do not see a gifted teacher, I see a beautiful women that wishes to show off her body. My X wife had a beautiful body but dressed in a manner that was reflective of her work environment.

wait a minute, you can look at a teacher and tell if she's gifted or not by what she's wearing? you look at a teacher and if she has curves and a nice body, in your mind, she is nothing more than eye candy - no substance? that isn't really fair. why do women have to dress so people making such judgements come to the correct conclusion about their character, skill, achievements?

i think, if you had a rocking body like this woman, you'd soon find that there's just no winning. when you're beautiful like that - there are always going to be people who assume narcissism and vanity are your biggest traits.

[Teddy B 17,252]

I have the extreme radical CABA book. Steep learning curve. Chapter 2! Thou shall not look at, speak to, smile at, compliment, assist, hold the door for, work out with, sit on an exercise machine next to another woman.

We are almost finished. Chapter 3 thou must wear side blinders up next!

You're teaching him good Janelle! I bet Marv is looking forward to chapter 5 "Boys night out my behind" and my favorite chapter 7 "Sports are yucky let's go shopping".

[Janelle2002 3,865]

You're teaching him good Janelle! I bet Marv is looking forward to chapter 5 "Boys night out my behind" and my favorite chapter 7 "Sports are yucky let's go shopping".

Ow you didn't like "Run my bathwater and Rub my feet?"

????

Edited September 15, 2016 by Janelle2002

[Teddy B 17,252]

Ow you didn't like "Run my bathwater and Rub my feet?"

????

[Randyandyuni 2,682]

wait a minute, you can look at a teacher and tell if she's gifted or not by what she's wearing? you look at a teacher and if she has curves and a nice body, in your mind, she is nothing more than eye candy - no substance? that isn't really fair. why do women have to dress so people making such judgements come to the correct conclusion about their character, skill, achievements?

i think, if you had a rocking body like this woman, you'd soon find that there's just no winning. when you're beautiful like that - there are always going to be people who assume narcissism and vanity are your biggest traits.

I cannot tell whether she is a gifted teacher based on her clothes, earlier someone said she was educator of the month, I used that to imply she was a gifted educator, perhaps she is the least mediocre, best of the worst.

I am looking at a woman who is wearing body contouring clothing and publicly posting her picture to social media, she is the one objectifying herself, there is no need for me to do so. My comment was meant to show that she is choosing to wear provocative clothing that purposefully reveals her figure. Her display is not the result of a curvy body, she chooses to have a look that accentuates her body shape, again I have no problem with her right to do so, I question her judgement on where she chooses to wear these clothes.