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Harpa: Not sure never bought ice or any drug in thailand, but the facility I am going to put her in is on an island 100+ miles offshore. Not saying drugs cant be snuck in, but it is going to be harder. She is going to be staying in a bungalow with her mom and her kids and she will be in from 4 to 6 months. If she gets in bangkok and dont want to go, the police can detain her, test her for drugs and force her into treatment. The reason you send her back is so you can force her into long term treatment even if she dont want to go at first.

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First off, her friends are not going to protect her. They are scared shitless of me. The thai counterpart has already been paid a visit from people I lnow in the thai police. She is on the run for human trafficking. She is no longer working "escort/massage" here because the people she worked for is scared shitless of me. They would already be un jail if the pasadena police would follow up with arrests. My PI handed them an arrestable case, but nothing has been done.

I agree about the rehab facility that is why she is going to a facility in Thailand that is ranked in the top ten in the world and was recommended through MAYO clinic in Phoenix.

As far as the life change, that is up to her. I can only do so much, but she cannot take her I 693 test until she gets clean. I know a lot of people disagree with my idea that she is a victim, but she did not use and was not involved in prostitution for the 6 years I knew her prior to having our 2 children, it was only after she went to work for a Thai owned japanese restaurant in Chicago. Within in a month she was on meth heavy, had a personality change and had started working for a "sexy massage" shop. I am not done with them yet, hell is where I am going to put them.

So you are going let her conditional green card lapse and send back to Thailand for treatment?

You know that she has to disclose her drug / prostitution history, should you decide to petition her again?

Done with K1, AOS and ROC

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So you are going let her conditional green card lapse and send back to Thailand for treatment?

You know that she has to disclose her drug / prostitution history, should you decide to petition her again?

We will have to cross that bridge when we get to it. For now it is about getting her clean and having more tools to do so.

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Is she willing to get on a plane to Thailand to get treatment?

I understand that your family is in a terrible situation with her recent actions, but I'm not sure what you are hoping to gain by refusing to sign the I-751. If you are hoping that by not applying for the I-751, then she will be deported, I'm afraid that isn't going to work. The chances that she will be deported are so slim that they are almost non-existent. By not applying for the I-751, she will just become one of the many millions of people here without legal status.

You're not going to be able to force a deportation, you can't force her into treatment, and you can't force her on an airplane either. Unfortunately, she will have to willingly seek treatment, either here or in Thailand.

If she leaves the country without removing conditions, you will need to petition for again as others have stated.

I hope your family is not in turmoil for much longer. Best wishes to you.

Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Hungary
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She can file an I-751 on her own with a divorce waiver, no need for your signature.

She does not have to be divorced at the time of filing. Once USCIS gets to her file (several months after filing), they'll issue an RFE for a divorce decree.

Even if no I-751 is filed or one is filed but gets denied, this does NOT mean automatic deportation for her, merely a loss of her LPR status.

You seem to think that you have complete control over her immigration status/potential deportation. You are wrong.

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Entry on VWP to visit then-boyfriend 06/13/2011

Married 06/24/2011

Our first son was born 10/31/2012, our daughter was born 06/30/2014, our second son was born 06/20/2017

AOS Timeline

AOS package mailed 09/06/2011 (Chicago Lockbox)

AOS package signed for by R Mercado 09/07/2011

Priority date for I-485&I-130 09/08/2011

Biometrics done 10/03/2011

Interview letter received 11/18/2011

INTERVIEW DATE!!!! 12/20/2011

Approval e-mail 12/21/2011

Card production e-mail 12/27/2011

GREEN CARD ARRIVED 12/31/2011

Resident since 12/21/2011

ROC Timeline

ROC package mailed to VSC 11/22/2013

NOA1 date 11/26/2013

Biometrics date 12/26/2013

Transfer notice to CSC 03/14/2014

Change of address 03/27/2014

Card production ordered 04/30/2014

10-YEAR GREEN CARD ARRIVED 05/06/2014

N-400 Timeline

N-400 package mailed 09/30/2014

N-400 package delivered 10/01/2014

NOA1 date 10/20/2014

Biometrics date 11/14/2014

Early walk-in biometrics 11/12/2014

In-line for interview 11/23/2014

Interview letter 03/18/2015

Interview date 04/17/2015 ("Decision cannot yet be made.")

In-line for oath scheduling 05/04/2015

Oath ceremony letter dated 05/11/2015

Oath ceremony 06/02/2015

I am a United States citizen!

Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: India
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like the op said , she has just 14 days to file divorce waiver. i think his plan about i751 might work and comes from his heart for her greater good. op follow your intuition . may be it will work to get her clean and back in your life.

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I realize she can file without me, but they are not going to grant it if I have not signed it right? Acording to the law, the fact that she is a drug addict and a part time prostitute of which I have evidence of, would make it extremely difficult for her to make a challenge on any basis. Her immigration status is my only tool and I am doing so with complete agreement from her parents. My attorney already explained that her involvement and the evidence I have of her involvement in solicitation will preclude her from being able to mount any defense. Just wanted a second opinion.

Are you planning on sending the "evidence" to immigration for them to deny her ROC? If they find out about the prostitution and/or drug addiction, you better start packing because you will be moving to Thailand since she will probably not be granted a US visa with a prostitution and drug addiction history. I say "probably" because anything is possible with the US government.

Also, sending somebody to Thailand to recover from drugs and prostitution? The place with the worst vices on earth. Now, I have heard it all.

Why not just pick up and move to a different state? I'm sure her "friends" wouldn't follow.

You can only help so much. At some point, she has to want to get better. If she doesn't, are you going to ruin your life and your kids lives to "try" to help your wife when she clearly doesn't want it? File for custody, cut her loose, and let nature take its course.

 
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