Creating the Bona Fide Relationship packet!

[BethyWink 96]

I am starting to put together my hubby and my packet of bonafide relationship, and have a few questions as we do not live together, we do not have bank records or any of those items, but we do have travel records, texts, and photos (And are actually wine club members at a club out here)

How much is TOO much?! I think sending a years worth of texts is a bit too much, but how much to actually show we are legit?

With pics: Is it okay to send pics of me with his parents and him not photoed and vise versa?

Thanks!!

[LionessDeon 2,060]

Select a few pages from over a span of time, not every page of the last 12 months. Select a page here and there from the past year.

Not every photo has to have you both in it. (someone had to take the picture right). But, I would also include some that do have both of you in it.

[Penguin_ie 5,997]

Send a small selection now, and bring more to the interview. Concentrate on time spent together how many/ how long the visits were.

For example, for the texts, send a list of how many textx each day/ each week, no more than a page or two, and then perhaps select one text per month of relationship, concentrating on those where you plan a life together.

For photos, print out 4-6 on a piece of paper with a short explanation under each what it shows. Definitely show you met the parents.

[JenniferNangel 137]

Since I talked to my husband mostly on whatsapp I did a screen shot of how many messages we had from our conversation as well. I gave way more evidence than I thought I should ,I believe over 60 photos on top of many conversations between me and him and also my family (I'm stil aboard) I know a lot of people say only a few photos is necessary and I probably over did it but I hope it will be worth it for us. Also both me and my husband wrote a letter of the evolution of our relationship (I think it's called ) and my mother wrote a letter saying she had knowledge of our relationship/marriage

We also don't have bank accounts but we plan on getting a joint account once we get to USA

Hope that helps you good luck