Husband Deportation

[Deagle 508]

I am not happy anymore with him and I want to divorce him. I told him that I want a divorce but I didnt file yet, I asked him to sleep on couch and not on same bed with me or to find somewhere to live. He said he will look to find some place. When he said that I felt that he didnt love me since the beginning because if he did then he wouldn't be fine with looking for places, he should be begging me for another chance or to do what I want to so he can stay married to me.

If YOU really loved him and cared for him then why would you tell him to sleep on couch and find a place to go? All what he said was ok. This is like you are shooting someone with a gun and blaming them for dodging the bullet, or blaming them for not get killed with it while YOU are the one who shot them first!!

I believe his chances are high to ROC on his own.

[Avery Cates 1,141]

I do have depression and anxiety since I was 19 and I am medication since then.

Depression and anxiety makes it so you can't work?

That doesn't make you special.

That makes you useless.

He won't be deported. You think you're the first googly-eyed weirdo that wants to be spiteful against someone using their immigration status?

There's only one thing to take away from all this. He's realized he can do without you. Maybe you'll come to understand that too.

[Merrytooth 5,748]

I do have depression and anxiety since I was 19 and I am medication since then. He fails to understand that I need special treatment and he always tell me that staying home alone all day will only make me feel worse, which I believe it's insensitive to say that for me.

I know, I made him PR and I want to take that back.

My only concern is that I don't want to be his sponsor for the next 7-8 years, under the I-864.

Learn to work on yourself and your illnesses. You can't expect special treatments from everybody FOREVER.

People will be burnout, having constantly to tiptoe around your feelings, mood swings.

Sponsor for I-864?

Your spouse is the hardworking one here.

Don't worry, he becoming a public charge is very unlikely.

You should be the one to worry who will pay your bills once he leaves you.

[usmsbow 801]

He sounds like the kind of immigrant we want in this country. Works hard, is financially prudent, and seems to care about his family and friends.

[Love To Teach 161]

I think you are a troll. Why did you think you imported a slave to work for you while sit on your tail and play princess? If I was him, I would run away from such a self-absorbed baby. No way would a normal person put up with you. Too bad if you have "anxiety" and "social" problems. I can see why with your narcissistic personality. The poor guy is working his fanny off to support your queen bee lifestyle. I think he's the crazy one for staying more than one minute with you. He is lucky if you divorce him. This can only be a made-up story...

Edited August 12, 2016 by Love To Teach

[Avery Cates 1,141]

This can only be a made-up story...

While I half suspect this is a good ol' fashioned ship toast, there are also really useless people such as this out there, so it's hard to say for definite.

[EmilyW 1,450]

He sounds like the kind of immigrant we want in this country. Works hard, is financially prudent, and seems to care about his family and friends.

This a thousand times.

[Unlockable 7,315]

Try increasing your medication.

[lady_america 1]

Depression and anxiety makes it so you can't work?

That doesn't make you special.

That makes you useless.

He won't be deported. You think you're the first googly-eyed weirdo that wants to be spiteful against someone using their immigration status?

There's only one thing to take away from all this. He's realized he can do without you. Maybe you'll come to understand that too.

He knows that he can file ROC without me, and that bothers me a lot.

Learn to work on yourself and your illnesses. You can't expect special treatments from everybody FOREVER.

People will be burnout, having constantly to tiptoe around your feelings, mood swings.

Sponsor for I-864?

Your spouse is the hardworking one here.

Don't worry, he becoming a public charge is very unlikely.

You should be the one to worry who will pay your bills once he leaves you.

I don't know how I will be paying my bills, but I cant stand him anymore. He offered me to stay untill I find a job instead of just leaving now so he can support me financially. But I don't want his help I just want him out of this house.

He sounds like the kind of immigrant we want in this country. Works hard, is financially prudent, and seems to care about his family and friends.

Honestly he is all what he said. He is the immigrant this country wants but not the husband that I WANT!!

While I half suspect this is a good ol' fashioned ship toast, there are also really useless people such as this out there, so it's hard to say for definite.

I am not useless, I was traumatized when I was 7 years old and it still affects my life till now. Do not judge me, I am not happy with how I am either and I am not happy for not having a healthy social or career life.

[EmilyW 1,450]

So you're not happy and now you want to make someone else unhappy? You want to ruin his life?

In short, you can't have him deported. He's not just for Christmas, you know. Let him divorce you and find someone worthy of him and move on with your life.

[Merrytooth 5,748]

Everyone has fun with this friday night drama before the Mod locks this thread.

[lady_america 1]

Please, let's just focus on one point. What are his chances to ROC by himself?

[Avery Cates 1,141]

I am not useless, I was traumatized when I was 7 years old and it still affects my life till now. Do not judge me, I am not happy with how I am either and I am not happy for not having a healthy social or career life.

Time to get over it, Kenny Krybaby.

Please, let's just focus on one point. What are his chances to ROC by himself?

Pretty excellent. It will be a slam dunk.

[Deagle 508]

Looks like you wanted a Sugar daddy not a real responsible, rational husband & head of household.

[EmilyW 1,450]

Please, let's just focus on one point. What are his chances to ROC by himself?

So long as he can prove he entered the marriage in good faith, an excellent chance. So you won't be able to drag him down.