Filing tax with a rich spouse

[lifegoeson123 3]

This thread really upsets me. I wish you were not believing everything this man is telling you. But I understand your position. people can be very deceiving especially to delicate loving and caring souls . Hes using you for his own selfish financial benefit. Maybe you clean his house, watch his kids, care for him, sleep with him, whatever, but it sounds like he is being so selfish and using you for only your services to him. To me it sounds like a mail order bride is what he originally planned, and I hope he reads this thread!!! This is why the K1-Visa's are so hard to be approved with out a mutual bonifide relationship. It protects you as the immigrant from abuse and neglect and it protects the United State Citizen. But he has flipped the tables on you, Please I hope that you leave this man immediately. File your taxes yourself, use that extra 3 thousand to get a lawyer and tell the lawyer what this man is doing to you to break the visa terms and conditions, and I am sure any lawyer would have a great time suing the ####### out of guy that makes 450k salary for FREE!!!. Go spend your tax return on a establishing a better life. American lawyers will love to pick up your case and support you and sue a rich man!! You have rights too. No matter what lies he tries to feed you. I was in a very abusive relationship for 17 years, and I wasted half my life with a man that was selfish and was using me to his benefit, I left him finally 3 years ago, and my life has never been better and I feel so much better about my self and my confidence has thrived. You are strong woman and I am glad you are starting to catch on and asking questions about this man to give you some awareness of the abuse he is entailing upon you.

I hope I did't offend you, but I just think that you deserve better! Seriously and Good Luck!

Thanks so much. I hope your life is much better now. Well, he doesnt beat me or violent to me but he is just very mean and doesnt care about me.

My question is if it s better to file tax together as a proof of 10 year green card?

Somehow he still brings me to the US. I feel so bad if I sue him. I just want to have freedom and start new life asap. Im never with him for his money because it is not mine

Thanks.

[ziggyzaazaa 14]

I think the best advice i can give you is to have him file his taxes together with you as you are both married, although that is only my opinion, not fact. When you go to "your" job and give "your" employer the W-4 Form, You should claim the exemptions on your personal pay so that zero taxes are being taken out since he will be the one with the high tax liability responsibility and not you. Its not your fault he makes so much money! Thats his problem, you didn't marry him to fix his financial mental instabilities. If he cant accept you as his wife and treat you fairly and feel the need to financially take care of you when he brought you to this country with minimal resources, he is not treating you right and he is selfish. You should claim the most exemptions possible so you have more money in your hands throughout the year, if then when he does the taxes at the end of the year and he asks you why your not claiming your whole paycheck to the IRS, tell him your not working to support his financial mess! Your his wife and he should be treating you fairly. But yes, you should file as married if you want to show proof of your marriage, but either way, there are many other ways to prove of your marriage for green card purposes. I wouldn't solely depend on how the taxes are filed to determine your fate. Good luck!

[Merrytooth 5,748]

Thanks so much. I hope your life is much better now. Well, he doesnt beat me or violent to me but he is just very mean and doesnt care about me.

My question is if it s better to file tax together as a proof of 10 year green card?

Somehow he still brings me to the US. I feel so bad if I sue him. I just want to have freedom and start new life asap. Im never with him for his money because it is not mine

Thanks.

It is OK to file taxes separately. What matters is that you both filed as married to one another -> Married filing separately.

If you are not happy with your married life, you are free to leave.

Your spouse is not putting a gun to your head to stay together.

[lifegoeson123 3]

It is OK to file taxes separately. What matters is that you both filed as married to one another -> Married filing separately.

If you are not happy with your married life, you are free to leave.

Your spouse is not putting a gun to your head to stay together.

But I have 2 year green card only. Next year I will file for 10 year green card

[charmander 692]

You and your husband both need to file married. Whether it is married filing jointly or married filing separately is up to you. Do not file single or head of household as long as you are married.