He slept all night outside, cheating yes

[zaynab 4]

Talk to him and tell him that you suspect he is cheating. Suggest counseling to open communication between you both and if he

refuses move on. You do need to learn how to communicate your thoughts to him.

Assuming is not enough, you need facts. Let him know that you will not be disrespected with him sneaking in and not telling you

ahead of time where he is going or the marriage is over.

I'm not suspecting i'm pretty sure he did something yesterday, its impossible for somebody to have under clothes messed up , and water in clothes while there was no raining in the middle of the morning unless there is something wrong,

i think he has nothing to say , that's why he do not want to talk

[Nin&Way 69]

I'm so sorry for you...really..there's nothing more disrespectful than someone that doesn't answer to your questions. There's no point in continuing that. You could have an heart attack for nothing. Just move on. That's it. Move on. If he can't even tell you why he behaves like this towards you ...there's no point. You made the right thing.

[nooha 16]

if am u i will think the same way, some kind of people are very difficult to deal with, he is the one supposed to come talk to u today and ask for forgiveness, he gave no unswer since he came back and packing his things, waw, what he is waiting for u to do to him ?

[zaynab 4]

I'm so sorry for you...really..there's nothing more disrespectful than someone that doesn't answer to your questions. There's no point in continuing that. You could have an heart attack for nothing. Just move on. That's it. Move on. If he can't even tell you why he behaves like this towards you ...there's no point. You made the right thing.

Thanks for your understanding, he will probably sleep all day with a aloud sound like a baby , was too tired at point he didn't went to his job, the job like he says always he need it very badly, i always think more than twice before i take any decision in my life, i knew he is very difficult when i moved to USA, he was hiding everything behind tchat over computer , when i came to USA i found out he just like the international women and he doesn't care about them when he have them.

in my first day -first night- few minutes after my arrival in USA , i was under shock, he slept outside the bed room because he said i was speaking very loud with my family over phone telling them i'm safe in USA, that day he was in kitchen and i was in the bedroom, and he complained about my voice,

1 month and half after, i asked him if he can leave me some money in case if i need to take a bus or need to buy something small while i'm outside house without him , he refused and was fighting with me like a professional , that time i know with who i'm ,

anytime where there is any argument if i ask him or i want to talk to him to stop the fight he turn up the TV volume or close his ears with something, sometimes he sing over my talk, this is the man i was living with

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[Cheezees 1,514]

Really? He would sing over your talking? LOL! I don't mean to laugh but that is some very original immature behaviour. It is wonderful that you're leaving this behind. Good riddance!

[zaynab 4]

Really? He would sing over your talking? LOL! I don't mean to laugh but that is some very original immature behaviour. It is wonderful that you're leaving this behind. Good riddance!

Yes really , singing is one one of his tools,

Playing with the features of the face to bother and create anxiety

Closing his ears

TV Volume up

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Edited August 9, 2016 by zaynab

[Ontarkie 14,227]

Yes really , singing is one one of his tools,

This is funny my ex did this too. Only made him look like a fool.

You don't need to be disrespected at all, cheating or not he's no good.

[Nin&Way 69]

Thanks for your understanding, he will probably sleep all day with a aloud sound like a baby , was too tired at point he didn't went to his job, the job like he says always he need it very badly, i always think more than twice before i take any decision in my life, i knew he is very difficult when i moved to USA, he was hiding everything behind tchat over computer , when i came to USA i found out he just like the international women and he doesn't care about them when he have them.

in my first day -first night- few minutes after my arrival in USA , i was under shock, he slept outside the bed room because he said i was speaking very loud with my family over phone telling them i'm safe in USA, that day he was in kitchen and i was in the bedroom, and he complained about my voice,

1 month and half after, i asked him if he can leave me some money in case if i need to take a bus or need to buy something small while i'm outside house without him , he refused and was fighting with me like a professional , that time i know with who i'm ,

anytime where there is any argument if i ask him or i want to talk to him to stop the fight he turn up the TV volume or close his ears with something, sometimes he sing over my talk, this is the man i was living with

Really sometimes you think you can understand your loved one, but you finally find out that there's nothing you can do after all, than hurting yourself. When I have a fight with my bf, it drives me nuts that he doesn't talk to me or answer to me when I call, or like he just shut off of me...I can throw myself from an edge. So, for days? Weeks? No no...thats...unbearable. Really. Frustrating.

Anyway you left him, or he left you whatever...just try to figure out what would be your next move now. It's not easy I can imagine but...you have to. For your own sake. Start working out, draw,write...do something that would make you forget these things even for a couple minutes..that would become hours..then days months...years...so you can smile again. :-)

[zaynab 4]

This is funny my ex did this too. Only made him look like a fool.

You don't need to be disrespected at all, cheating or not he's no good.

Yes you right , cheating or no he is no good

cheating is not forgivable in my religion at all that's why i'm not going to forget what he did and will never be the same , even if he speaks he is not going to tell he was cheating, i don't know what funny story he will says -IF HE SPEAKS-

[Cheezees 1,514]

This is funny my ex did this too. Only made him look like a fool.

You don't need to be disrespected at all, cheating or not he's no good.

Unbelievable!

[zaynab 4]

Really sometimes you think you can understand your loved one, but you finally find out that there's nothing you can do after all, than hurting yourself. When I have a fight with my bf, it drives me nuts that he doesn't talk to me or answer to me when I call, or like he just shut off of me...I can throw myself from an edge. So, for days? Weeks? No no...thats...unbearable. Really. Frustrating.

Anyway you left him, or he left you whatever...just try to figure out what would be your next move now. It's not easy I can imagine but...you have to. For your own sake. Start working out, draw,write...do something that would make you forget these things even for a couple minutes..that would become hours..then days months...years...so you can smile again. :-)

Thanks for your comment

I will have a big difficulty to trust again, i doubt i will be able to trust again, probably i will when i heal because i feel he made me sick , i imagine if i have no computer now what could i do? my family don't like to bother them with my problems, but they have to know , this is serious

[Ontarkie 14,227]

Yes you right , cheating or no he is no good

cheating is not forgivable in my religion at all that's why i'm not going to forget what he did and will never be the same , even if he speaks he is not going to tell he was cheating, i don't know what funny story he will says -IF HE SPEAKS-

Cheating is unforgivable for me also, and you're right he wouldn't admit it. Cheaters rarely ever do.

[begood 8]

zaynab leave this man, if he loves u he should think about u and ur feelings, it looks like he wants to makes u crazy mad he wants u to have an heart attack, what kind of man is he? i remember u are from dubai, nice people

if he was in dubai u can have a divorce as quick as possible , if u show evidence of him cheating on u,

[zaynab 4]

Cheating is unforgivable for me also, and you're right he wouldn't admit it. Cheaters rarely ever do.

yes he will never admit he is cheating

zaynab leave this man, if he loves u he should think about u and ur feelings, it looks like he wants to makes u crazy mad he wants u to have an heart attack, what kind of man is he? i remember u are from dubai, nice people

if he was in dubai u can have a divorce as quick as possible , if u show evidence of him cheating on u,

Thanks, yes I'm

[begood 8]

do u have any kids with him?