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On the mainland? Yes. Over here? That can't get you a decent house in the bad neighborhood.

least the obama's earned their 1.7 mill. unless obama or michelle's parents gave them a cool mill to start?

I saw what you did there :goofy:

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Canada
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My thoughts on this:

As much as I personally can't stand the guy, or the type of campaign he's running or his "stance" on immigration (I'm mostly bothered by the fact that what he thinks is a stance is just a mountain of evidence of extreme lack of knowledge about this whole thing, which is crazy-making), I think that the focus on this story is hugely misguided. There is a LOT of criticism to levy but it's not this specific type.

First, it seems likely that she was de-facto living and working on a B1/B2 visa until 1996. Her own words about going back to get her visa stamped and now photographic evidence of some sort of modelling work before her H1B timeline really points to this. Also, the fact that the Illegal Immigration Reform and Immigrant Responsibility Act of 1996 got passed in, er, 1996, and is when she got the H1B also should raise a "lookie here" to anyone familiar with immigration.

But the issue is that the IIRAIRA was passed in large part to put a stop to exactly that kind of thing. Edit to add: border runs became impossible-- they started tracking exits at that point. It was still illegal but incredibly common with much less penalties than now and they gave everyone time to "get right" by getting the right visa which is what she did. Or, more accurately, I suspect, her *modeling agency* did. I would pay good money that whoever was running that place just took the cheap route of "what you can get away with" (which is getting the girls B1/B2s and having them border run) vs what is "technically legal". The girls probably had no clue, and still don't (I bet she does now). Now, ignorance of the law is not an excuse for breaking the law, and they would have told her at the embassy in Slovenia that she can't work. But. Who really thinks of modeling as "work"? Not meaning you don't need talent or whatever but that she's not employed in the sense that we all think of it. Or maybe she wasn't paid at all. Put up in some guy's apartment (creepy) and going on "job interviews" where her photos are taken (legal), but that the agency then sells.... wouldn't be the first time foreigners have been exploited due to their immigration status and lack of knowledge of the law. Right? Especially in the modeling world. She's probably lucky she didn't wind up on a stripper's pole somewhere trying to "earn" her passport back (given that time-frame and her region of origin I'd say she's definitely lucky).

Could this all be in my over-active imagination? Sure. But all of the pieces of her story and timeline and the known abuses in the entertainment industry are really pointing to "worked on a B visa, switched to H1B once immigration reform came through and made visa runs impossible, likely mostly the modeling agency's doing, and they're not famous for their human rights practices so... anyone's guess"

So now, excuses, excuses, yes, I know. BUT, this is real life here. This type of thing can and does happen ALL THE TIME (don't even get me started on the lawyers/travel agents overseas who charge folks an arm and a leg to do the DS-160 for a B2 and then lie all over the thing trying to give their client the best shot at the B2 and therefore *their* best shot at selling full price airfare for a 10% commission). So the criticism that can be levied isn't "HAHA this guy married "AN ILLEGAL" it's "how in the world is he married to someone who has been through this process, and possibly the really difficult position above and still have next to zero knowledge of immigration in general and clearly zero empathy or understanding for people with irregular paths to being in this country".

That, to me, is the issue.

Thank you Catherine, you are right on.

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Perhaps all who file the I-129F in hopes of a K-1 visa should be required to prove, at the USCIS and consular levels, that they have the fees for Adjustment of Status already allocated and placed in a separate, otherwise-untouchable bank account.

I can get behind this. With all the horror stories we see on VJ of people caught in limbo, whether by unforeseen circumstances or a spouse who is enjoying withholding filing for AOS, an AOS escrow account is not a bad idea.

Of course we want everyone to be reunited as soon as possible. But being ready to be reunited -- emotionally, financially, socially, even residentially! -- is an important part of the process. I was a DCF CR-1 person, and I am thankful every single day that when we entered, we didn't have another bureaucratic hurdle with more $$$$$$ to surpass. We could get on with settling into the US, which was pretty tough for us both, given the very long period of time I hadn't been living in the States. He was a wreck even waiting for the green card to arrive in the mail; I can't imagine what it would have been like had we to do an AOS. Hey, maybe we would have broken up sooner when I realised all his nuttiness in the UK wasn't solved by moving to another country. :lol:

As to Melania, I'm going to give her the benefit of the doubt. She was young and her affairs were being managed by others. I don't cast any blame on her. All I see is the irony of the situation if -- if! -- it turns out she violated the terms of her visa, whatever it was.

Edit to add: and what Catherine said (which I hadn't read before posting this), because that was spot on.

Edited by Killary

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Perhaps all who file the I-129F in hopes of a K-1 visa should be required to prove, at the USCIS and consular levels, that they have the fees for Adjustment of Status already allocated and placed in a separate, otherwise-untouchable bank account.

Not bad, but I don't see this step being doable for them. I for one, can never understand those who bring the fiancés here, marry, and then never just get around to filing. It's not even just claims of ''having a dire emergency'' which drained saved funds.. but simply not even having the money in the first place. The fee is a chunk, I'll agree if you're on a tight budget.. but this is you and your spouse's legal lives and future together. It's an important part to me of them remaining here, and helping to protect them.. it shouldn't be an after-thought.

I'll agree with Catherine that I don't think Melania was entirely smart about her immigration dealings in the US.. but I've just read a report that states she got her green card based on marriage in 2001, before she met Trump (another conflicting statement from her). So... she married someone unknown to stay here, and then traded in a new scuzzy model? ;-) Who is the potential mystery guy? Inquiring minds want to know. http://thehill.com/blogs/ballot-box/presidential-races/290608-immigration-lawyer-raises-questions-about-melania-trumps

Our Journey Timeline  - Immigration and the Health Exchange Price of Love in the UK Thinking of Returning to UK?

 

First met: 12/31/04 - Engaged: 9/24/09
Filed I-129F: 10/4/14 - Packet received: 10/7/14
NOA 1 email + ARN assigned: 10/10/14 (hard copy 10/17/14)
Touched on website (fixed?): 12/9/14 - Poked USCIS: 4/1/15
NOA 2 email: 5/4/15 (hard copy 5/11/15)
Sent to NVC: 5/8/15 - NVC received + #'s assigned: 5/15/15 (estimated)
NVC sent: 5/19/15 - London received/ready: 5/26/15
Packet 3: 5/28/15 - Medical: 6/16/15
Poked London 7/1/15 - Packet 4: 7/2/15
Interview: 7/30/15 - Approved!
AP + Issued 8/3/15 - Visa in hand (depot): 8/6/15
POE: 8/27/15

Wedding: 9/30/15

Filed I-485, I-131, I-765: 11/7/15

Packet received: 11/9/15

NOA 1 txt/email: 11/15/15 - NOA 1 hardcopy: 11/19/15

Bio: 12/9/15

EAD + AP approved: 1/25/16 - EAD received: 2/1/16

RFE for USCIS inability to read vax instructions: 5/21/16 (no e-notification & not sent from local office!)

RFE response sent: 6/7/16 - RFE response received 6/9/16

AOS approved/card in production: 6/13/16  

NOA 2 hardcopy + card sent 6/17/16

Green Card received: 6/18/16

USCIS 120 day reminder notice: 2/22/18

Filed I-751: 5/2/18 - Packet received: 5/4/18

NOA 1:  5/29/18 (12 mo ext) 8/13/18 (18 mo ext)  - Bio: 6/27/18

Transferred: Potomac Service Center 3/26/19

Approved/New Card Produced status: 4/25/19 - NOA2 hardcopy 4/29/19

10yr Green Card Received: 5/2/19 with error >_<

N400 : 7/16/23 - Oath : 10/19/23

 

 

 

Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Canada
Timeline
Posted (edited)

I can get behind this. With all the horror stories we see on VJ of people caught in limbo, whether by unforeseen circumstances or a spouse who is enjoying withholding filing for AOS, an AOS escrow account is not a bad idea.

Of course we want everyone to be reunited as soon as possible. But being ready to be reunited -- emotionally, financially, socially, even residentially! -- is an important part of the process. I was a DCF CR-1 person, and I am thankful every single day that when we entered, we didn't have another bureaucratic hurdle with more $$$$$$ to surpass. We could get on with settling into the US, which was pretty tough for us both, given the very long period of time I hadn't been living in the States. He was a wreck even waiting for the green card to arrive in the mail; I can't imagine what it would have been like had we to do an AOS. Hey, maybe we would have broken up sooner when I realised all his nuttiness in the UK wasn't solved by moving to another country. :lol:

As to Melania, I'm going to give her the benefit of the doubt. She was young and her affairs were being managed by others. I don't cast any blame on her. All I see is the irony of the situation if -- if! -- it turns out she violated the terms of her visa, whatever it was.

Edit to add: and what Catherine said (which I hadn't read before posting this), because that was spot on.

The double irony on Visa Journey is that if Melania was asking for advice on this site given the apparent conditions,would have been met with howls of accusations about her illegal stay...seems to be OK if you are a prospective first lady slash central European model slash pinup object d'art Edited by Rob L

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The double irony on Visa Journey is that if Melania was asking for advice on this site given the apparent conditions,would have been met with howls of accusations about her illegal stay...seems to be OK if you are a prospective first lady slash central European model slash pinup object d'art

I agree with you about the double standards for sure but the advice would be "cut it out before you get caught and come back with a proper visa" which she did. That's not possible anymore because they track exits now, so the only option is to leave and take your punishment or stay illegal. No one will (or is permitted to) advise remaining illegal, and that, I think, is where a lot of piling on comes from.

I just realized that if my theory is true, she'd have had to lie about working on B1/B2 to get H1B right? And we don't know how she got the GC but if she didn't adjust through marriage, illegal work isn't forgiven (and misrepresentation never is?). Hrm.

Also holy all the misunderstandings on social media "she had a visa she was legal" or "Slovenia is in visa waiver program she didn't need a visa to move here" ::headsmack:: these are the folks who want to deport 11 million people, 5 million of whom "have visas".

Marriage/ AOS Timeline:

23 Dec 2015: Legal marriage

23 Jan 2016: Wedding!

23 Jan 2016: "Blizzard of the Century", wedding canceled/rescheduled (thank goodness we were legally married first or we'd have had a big problem!) :sleepy:

24 Jan 2016: Small "civil ceremony" with friends and family who were snowed in with us. December was a bit of a secret and people had traveled internationally and knew we *had* to get married that weekend, and our December legal marriage was nothing but signing a piece of paper at our priest's kitchen table, without any sort of vows etc so this was actually a very special (if not legally significant) day. (L)

16 Apr 2016: Filed for AOS and EAD/AP (We delayed a bit-- no big rush, enjoying the USCIS break)

23 Apr 2016: Wedding! Finally! :luv:

27 Apr 2016: Electronic NOA1 for all 3 :dancing:
29 Apr 2016: NOA1 Hardcopy for all 3
29 Jul 2016: Online service request for late EAD (Day 104)
29 Jul 2016: EAD/AP Approved ~3 hours after online service request
04 Aug 2016: RFE for Green Card (requested medicals/ vaccination record. They already have it). :ranting:
05 Aug 2016: EAD/AP Combo Card arrived! (Day 111)
08 Aug 2016: Congressional constituent request to get guidance on the RFE. Hoping they see they have the form and approve!

K-1 Visa Timeline:

PLEASE NOTE. This timeline was during the period of time when TSC was working on I-129fs and had a huge backlog. The average processing time was 210+ days. This is in no way predictive of your own timeline if you filed during or after April 2015, unless CSC develops a backlog. A backlog is anything above the 5-month goal time listed on USCIS's site

14 Feb 2015: Mailed I-129f to Dallas Lockbox. (L) (Most expensive Valentine's card I've ever sent!)

17 Feb 2015: NOA1 "Received Date"
19 Feb 2015: NOA1 Notice Date
08 Aug 2015: NOA2 email! :luv: (173 days from NOA1)

17 Aug 2015: Sent to NVC

?? Aug 2015: Arrived at NVC

25 Aug 2015: NVC Case # Assigned

31 Aug 2015: Left NVC for Consulate in San Jose

09 Sep 2015: Consulate received :dancing: (32 days from NOA2)

11 Sep 2015: Packet 3 emailed from embassy to me, the petitioner (34 days from NOA2).

18 Sep 2015: Medicals complete

21 Sep 2015: Packet 3 complete, my boss puts a temporary moratorium on all time off due to work emergency :clock:

02 Oct 2015: Work emergency clears up, interview scheduled (soonest available was 5 business days away--Columbus Day was in there)

13 Oct 2015: Interview

13 Oct 2015: VISA APPROVED :thumbs: (236 days from NOA1)

19 Oct 2015: Visa-in-hand

24 Oct 2015: POE !

15 Dec 2015: Fiance's mother's B-2 visa interview: APPROVED! So happy she will be at the wedding! :thumbs:

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Ecuador
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wealth; [...] can afford to bribe consulates so willing

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Edited by TBoneTX

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

Posted (edited)

Perhaps all who file the I-129F in hopes of a K-1 visa should be required to prove, at the USCIS and consular levels, that they have the fees for Adjustment of Status already allocated and placed in a separate, otherwise-untouchable bank account.

i understand why this is a responsible/sound idea. but to be honest, if i had to have the aos money prior to filing the k1, i don't know how I would have made that work. coming out of a divorce, no child support - my son and I lived with a friend for a year to save up to get back on my feet, get my own home again, visits to canada, and preparing for the time when my husband would be here but unable to work. when i drove up to montreal to get him and activate his visa, a gd nj deer totalled my car. suddenly we had an onslaught of unexpected expenses. but we still went through with the process. when it came time to file for aos, we took out a loan to cover it. no way would we ever want to live with the stress of not filing aos. six years in, we're slowly building from the ground up. my point being, aos isn't a necessity at the very beginning of the process. even with unforseen circumstances if you're committed to the process, you will find a way to file or there should be a emergency stay or additional financial review if a couple gets to that point and has serious obstacles. marriage based immigration's bottom line can't be the fees. imo. Edited by smilesammich
Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Israel
Timeline
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I'm with val on that one.

09/14/2012: Sent I-130
10/04/2012: NOA1 Received
12/11/2012: NOA2 Received
12/18/2012: NVC Received Case
01/08/2013: Received Case Number/IIN; DS-3032/I-864 Bill
01/08/2013: DS-3032 Sent
01/18/2013: DS-3032 Accepted; Received IV Bill
01/23/2013: Paid I-864 Bill; Paid IV Bill
02/05/2013: IV Package Sent
02/18/2013: AOS Package Sent
03/22/2013: Case complete
05/06/2013: Interview Scheduled

06/05/2013: Visa issued!

06/28/2013: VISA RECEIVED

07/09/2013: POE - EWR. Went super fast and easy. 5 minutes of waiting and then just a signature and finger print.

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05/06/2016: One month late - overnighted form N-400.

06/01/2016: Original Biometrics appointment, had to reschedule due to being away.

07/01/2016: Biometrics Completed.

08/17/2016: Interview scheduled & approved.

09/16/2016: Scheduled oath ceremony.

09/16/2016: THE END - 4 year long process all done!

 

 

 

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